Lion Heart Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 Hi Bama Just read your whole thread. Feels eerily similar to my parents marriage. Was WW more organized in her objectives for "MC"? Did she arrive with a fait accompli? I'm thinking 1 of 2 things happened. 1. She had everything signed, sealed, delivered for D and caught you off guard, or 2. WW acted all sweet and full of he** knows what for show (D court evidence). Whatever happened or whatEVER happens next, keep your wits about you. Stay 10 steps ahead of her!! All sorts of people including OM could and I imagine ARE advising her right now. It's as plain as night and day that this marraige must dissolve for your OWN sanity. Thinking about Number 1 in a mentally healthy way (if you can detach from this Craziness) will ALWAYS help you. It will CERTAINLY help your children. It's a mess now but, as others posted before, BOUNDARIES NICE AND CLEAR are the only things left to do for the relationship. Nothing more. I "hear" your concern for your MIL but she's a big girl too. You have absolutely NO obligations to her or any of WWs side. You have and always will have alot on your plate and the following saying comes to mind for you right now: "If you're not with me, you're against me". NC if anyone isn't supporting your separation, subsequent D and custody of your children. IMHO. Hope you're ok. Lion Heart. Link to post Share on other sites
happyman64 Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 BAM Take as much time as you need to process your thoughts. And do not let your crazy wife turn you into a crazy person too! HM 2 Link to post Share on other sites
lgspot Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Definitely No HB. I've got a lot to process before posting Here when ready. Also here to support you where ever your choices may lead. Hang in there bama.... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 why post OP has left the building Link to post Share on other sites
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