cocorico Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 Sharing intimacies we had never shared with anyone else, and knowing each other better than anyone else had ever before or would ever again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
cocorico Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 Choosing gifts together for the kids on the last day of holidays abroad. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author wellwhynot Posted May 16, 2012 Author Share Posted May 16, 2012 Tonight he made the choice to do something for me rather than going to do something with a friend of his, which was the expected thing. He's been looking forward to going to see Avengers with his buddy and yet, he made sure to take care of something else for me. When I asked him why he said because I'm important to him and he likes to be able to show it every chance he can. Link to post Share on other sites
cocorico Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 Making out in the cinema like teenagers. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 At the last moment, springing on him the need for him to come over and keep an eye on my sick grandmother so my family would have the opportunity to not have to miss my sibling's rehearsal dinner. Now that is something I will forever love him for. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wellwhynot Posted May 19, 2012 Author Share Posted May 19, 2012 Falling asleep talking to him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
trinity1 Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Him knowing me so well that he can read me without me having to say anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Radagast Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Finding someone whose sexuality is so compatible with your own, in every way. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
heartinlove Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 His being there for me the other day when i melted down into a puddle of tears because this situation is so very very hard for me. The way he made me laugh that day and the way he speaks to me knowing my heart so well, more than any other. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Radagast Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Seeing her eyes light up when she sees me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wellwhynot Posted May 19, 2012 Author Share Posted May 19, 2012 The phone call telling me he can't wait any longer to see me and made arrangements to come spend 3 days with me this week. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
RickFox Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Every moment with her was happy, clound nine happy, but those moments are far outshadowed by how it ended and turned out, I don't even want to remember the 'happy' 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author wellwhynot Posted May 20, 2012 Author Share Posted May 20, 2012 The way those first moments together feel like all the best parts of a first date. Every single time. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Gfkr2 Posted May 20, 2012 Share Posted May 20, 2012 (edited) For passion alone...finding her making me a surprise birthday dinner at my home dressed in my best dress shirt and stiletto pumps looking like a goddess! I will remember that image to the end of my days;) For romance, meeting her at the airport with red roses and meeting eyes as she came down the escalator not expecting me. Seeing the looks of others was Priceless. For silly fun, going to the casino and killing it at black jack and going back to the room with a bed covered with Benjamin's. She controlled the table and attracted tons of envious admirers, including the pit boss who loudly asked if I "was with this woman", and telling me I had enough luck for the day! It was a great moment.. Edited May 20, 2012 by Gfkr2 Link to post Share on other sites
Radagast Posted May 21, 2012 Share Posted May 21, 2012 Seeing the envy on other men's faces when we were out together and knowing she didn't even see them. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Gfkr2 Posted May 21, 2012 Share Posted May 21, 2012 Seeing the envy on other men's faces when we were out together and knowing she didn't even see them. That's awesome. Link to post Share on other sites
Breathless Posted May 21, 2012 Share Posted May 21, 2012 A happy moment - we met up on a random Saturday afternoon. We walked around a shopping plaza for an hour and decided it was time to go home. He was driving me to my car and then asked, quite nervously, if I had a little more time because he wanted to show me the house he grew up in. We drove around the neighborhood and he just told me stories about his childhood, family life, the hard times and the good times. Something about the look on his face and the way he spoke, it made it obvious to me that he put his guard down and he was letting me into his own private world. Affair or no affair, it's that moment when I realized we were not only lovers but best friends. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Radagast Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 Something about the look on his face and the way he spoke, it made it obvious to me that he put his guard down and he was letting me into his own private world. Affair or no affair, it's that moment when I realized we were not only lovers but best friends. I loved this, too, being able to share our private worlds with each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wellwhynot Posted May 22, 2012 Author Share Posted May 22, 2012 I was going to say, hey is it ok to say mindbending orgasms? Then I remembered it's my thread... so I say, yes, yes it is ok to mention those as happy moments And they ARE. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
cocorico Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 The sex was phenomenal. But so was everything else. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SoMovinOn Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Going on vacation together for a week!! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Radagast Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Going on vacation together for a week!! Our holidays were wonderful, too. Seeing exotic places is so much more exciting when you're with the one you love. Even deadly dull and boring places are so much more exciting when you're with the one you love! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author wellwhynot Posted May 26, 2012 Author Share Posted May 26, 2012 Getting a phone call as he was leaving his conference, telling me that he rearranged his flights so that instead of a 2 hour layover where he can't leave the airport he now has 6 hours he'd like to spend with me. Picking him up at the airport, being kissed so thoroughly I was dizzy. Sharing a picnic lunch together, cuddling on a blanket, holding hands and talking about nothing and everything important all at once. It was perfect. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Radagast Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Getting a phone call as he was leaving his conference, telling me that he rearranged his flights so that instead of a 2 hour layover where he can't leave the airport he now has 6 hours he'd like to spend with me. Picking him up at the airport, being kissed so thoroughly I was dizzy. Sharing a picnic lunch together, cuddling on a blanket, holding hands and talking about nothing and everything important all at once. It was perfect. Little touches that show he cares, like rearranging his schedule to have enough time with you, have the added benefit of delaying his return to what he has to face on the other side! At least in my experience. I knew who I'd rather spend time with! In that same vein, among the happiest moments were stepping through the doors into the arrivals hall and spotting her in the waiting crowd, and her running to meet me with her face radiant with joy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 After being in a NC state for several months, I got a call from his friend with her telling me he and his wife had separated. I was in shock. She said the thing he was most upset about was that STBXW (then) left the house a mess after her departure. I knew by those words that the games were over. It was a happy moment to know that they could move on with their lives. STBXW shortly after had aquired a BF. We got together a few months after that and had some very good times. I choose to treasure the good times:) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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