Bachelorette Party

[D-Lish]

Yes, you are asking too much. I have had ONE friend do stupid crap at her bachelorette party- and she was the kind of person that was a cheater in general.

 

If you trust your girl, she's not going to do anything bad.

 

I think the notion of going out for one last night of debauchery is an antiquated tradtion. I went out with 4 close friends and had some drinks on a patio. Low and behold- we run into my fiance and his friends coming onto the patio- he wanted to merge the night out and spend it together as a group.

 

At some point it is decided we go to a strip club for the sake of tradition. We end up at a Male upstairs/Females downstairs joint, but unfortunately the male stripper section was closed for a renovation:lmao: We all decide to just go together and watch the females strip. Hmmm, it turned out that it was BBW night:p. We had a blast.

 

I wasn't worried about my husband doing anything wrong- and I could have sent my brother along to keep an eye on him, but I didn't, because I trusted him- I wouldn't have agreed to marry him if I didn't.

[seibert253]

Well its over guys. There is not gonna be any wedding, there isn't gonna be a honey moon, there isn't gonna be a wife in the picture.

 

She called me at 3 in the morning on Monday telling me "Hey baby I wanted to call you and tell you how much I love you and I can't wait to see you when I get back". I thought OK? I went back to bed and then it dawned on me she must have done SOMETHING. No one calls at 3AM to tell you how much they love you.

 

Well she got back and I asked her what happened. She said what I meant by that. I told her about the 3AM phone call. She tried to deny it by saying she never did and I showed her the call. She tried to say she probably pocket dialed it but I played back everything she said. I told her no one calls at 3Am to tell you how much they love and miss you. She still tries to deny it over and over again. Eventually I pried it out of her and she confessed everything.

 

She said her and her friends had went to a club and her friends were buying her shots, then she was dancing with this one guy and she got caught up in the moment and started making out with him. She then started dancing with some more guys and that she started making out with them as well. Eventually they left the club and headed back to the hotel room where her friends got her a stripper. She said her friends got a few more shots in her and her friends kept egging her on and she got caught up in the moment again and decided to jerk off the stripper. She swares up and down it was only for a few seconds and that nothing else happened. She said after what had happened at the club and the hotel room she felt so guilty about what happened she called me up to tell me but couldn't bring herself to do it and instead told me she loved me.

 

After that she was sitting on the floor sobbing and begging and pleading for me to take her back saying she would do anything to get me back and would do everything in her power to make it up to me and that she would never do anything like this again, saying she will do things i have we have never done if i would take her back and not cancel the wedding.

 

I just walked up to her, grabbed her hand, took off the wedding ring and told her "Im keeping this for now". After that I packed up my bags and left. Right now I am staying at a friends house who knows all the details. She has called me about 200 times and has texted me 100 times.

 

At this point I dunno if I should break up with her or leave her. I always told her that any kind of cheating i would leave on the spot but at the same time i don't know if i wanna throw all this away after we have been together for a while now......

 

 

You need to get down on your knees and thank God that you found out what your X is truly like, before you got M'd and had kids.

[martyjones47]

No, I almost never look at porn (its boring). If you want here is a blog about a guy who does private stripping for a living that you can read. http://malestripping.blogspot.com/p/home.html

 

I don't know why, but I looked at that blog. The male stripper said that he got blow jobs less than 1 out of every 15 parties. Each party has at least a few women in the audience. So he probably got a BJ from (way) less than 1% of women who watched him strip. He also mentions that is was much more common when he worked in Ireland. Handjobs might be more frequent, I don't know. I think it depends more on the participants than the drinks/stripper.

 

If this really happened, then perhaps you were right to be worried. But that is not because women become overwhelmed with the desire to put a strange penis in their mouths during bachelorette parties. It's because there is something about your fiancee specifically that made you think she would be unfaithful.

[Saul Goodman]

Well i'm not taking her back and i have emailed and called all her folks and mine telling them what happened and why the wedding is off. I am taking back the ring and am going to take a nice looooooooong vacation.

 

 

Also comicbookguy if you seriously don't think that this doesnt happen. Go to this blog and read some of the stories about this private stripper, i guarantee you girls will indeed do that **** during their bachelorette party or any other kind of party. There is no way this guy could make up all this **** from just imagination.

 

 

http://malestripping.blogspot.com/p/home.html

 

Are you just advertising this blog?

 

Anyway, I don't doubt that this kind of stuff happens, but if it happens at a bachelorette party, it could happen anywhere really. You're putting too much focus on the party, and not enough on your fiance's character.

 

Btw, take that blog with a grain of salt. Let me try...

 

"I was chatting up this woman that I'd met at a bar. Soft eyes. A little bit chubby but with curves in all the right places. Long dark hair. A cute little smile. She invited me into her apartment. Small place. Nice couch. Looked bouncy.

 

Saul: You shouldn't be wearing that thick jumper on such a hot day.

Her: Gosh, you're right, I'd better take it off. It's a shame that I'm not wearing anything underneath."

Edited September 8, 2011 by Saul Goodman

[Osiris1234]

Nooooooo, im not advertising this blog at all(far from it) its for the people who don't believe stuff like that happens at the parties when they actually do and i have proof of it right there.

 

 

 

Update

 

She is still begging me to take her back, she has left tons and tons of messages and texts. Her parents have called me and asked me if I would please reconsider calling it off and breaking up with her. I told them im sorry but I just can't marry someone like her. Even her friends that went with her tried calling me telling me nothing happened. I called her friends back and told them the wedding is off and that I can thank them for that since they didn't stop her with the cheating and that they need to stop lying because she told me everything.

 

Ive sent the ring back and gotten my money back. I am gonna be moving her stuff out of my place tomorrow. Ill probably see her tomorrow which i really don't wanna but she has to come get her stuff. she is probabl gonna beg me some more.

 

After i get her stuff out and whatnot im gonna plan my vacation and go to Russia like i have been for the longest time.

 

I appreciate everyones help and concern, I really thank you all.

[martyjones47]

It sounds like you are doing the right thing and staying strong. if you have to worry about that stuff before the marriage, it's probably a good sign that you would have to worry about it during a marriage, and that's no way to live.

[rafallus]

Good for you. You made your decision, others are pressuring you, don't give in.

[Woggle]

Good for you for not putting up with this crap. It will happen again if you take her back.

[make me believe]

If this really happened, then perhaps you were right to be worried. But that is not because women become overwhelmed with the desire to put a strange penis in their mouths during bachelorette parties. It's because there is something about your fiancee specifically that made you think she would be unfaithful.

 

I agree completely with marty. OP, if this is a true story I'm sorry about what you're going through. But seriously, it is NOT normal and NOT common for a woman to do this type of thing! First of all, most bachelorette parties don't even have strippers, and if they do it's supposed to be a funny/embarrassing thing, not a sexual thing. The fact that you were so worried about your fiancee doing something with a stripper & then the fact that she (allegedly) actually did, says waaaayyyy more about her than it does about bachelorette parties or how women would normally behave around a male stripper. I'm so grossed out by just the thought of this happening! Yuckkk!

 

Anyway, you did the right thing by leaving her. No matter how much begging & pleading she does, if she really did jerk off a stripper that's just GROSS and even worse than cheating with a normal person, IMO. It says so much about who she is as a person.

[D-Lish]

Well its over guys. There is not gonna be any wedding, there isn't gonna be a honey moon, there isn't gonna be a wife in the picture.

 

She called me at 3 in the morning on Monday telling me "Hey baby I wanted to call you and tell you how much I love you and I can't wait to see you when I get back". I thought OK? I went back to bed and then it dawned on me she must have done SOMETHING. No one calls at 3AM to tell you how much they love you.

 

Well she got back and I asked her what happened. She said what I meant by that. I told her about the 3AM phone call. She tried to deny it by saying she never did and I showed her the call. She tried to say she probably pocket dialed it but I played back everything she said. I told her no one calls at 3Am to tell you how much they love and miss you. She still tries to deny it over and over again. Eventually I pried it out of her and she confessed everything.

 

She said her and her friends had went to a club and her friends were buying her shots, then she was dancing with this one guy and she got caught up in the moment and started making out with him. She then started dancing with some more guys and that she started making out with them as well. Eventually they left the club and headed back to the hotel room where her friends got her a stripper. She said her friends got a few more shots in her and her friends kept egging her on and she got caught up in the moment again and decided to jerk off the stripper. She swares up and down it was only for a few seconds and that nothing else happened. She said after what had happened at the club and the hotel room she felt so guilty about what happened she called me up to tell me but couldn't bring herself to do it and instead told me she loved me.

 

After that she was sitting on the floor sobbing and begging and pleading for me to take her back saying she would do anything to get me back and would do everything in her power to make it up to me and that she would never do anything like this again, saying she will do things i have we have never done if i would take her back and not cancel the wedding.

 

I just walked up to her, grabbed her hand, took off the wedding ring and told her "Im keeping this for now". After that I packed up my bags and left. Right now I am staying at a friends house who knows all the details. She has called me about 200 times and has texted me 100 times.

 

At this point I dunno if I should break up with her or leave her. I always told her that any kind of cheating i would leave on the spot but at the same time i don't know if i wanna throw all this away after we have been together for a while now......

 

This story is unrealistic and seems made up.

Yep- Troll.

[Badenov]

She is still begging me to take her back, she has left tons and tons of messages and texts. Her parents have called me and asked me if I would please reconsider calling it off and breaking up with her. I told them im sorry but I just can't marry someone like her. Even her friends that went with her tried calling me telling me nothing happened. I called her friends back and told them the wedding is off and that I can thank them for that since they didn't stop her with the cheating and that they need to stop lying because she told me everything.

 

Ive sent the ring back and gotten my money back. I am gonna be moving her stuff out of my place tomorrow. Ill probably see her tomorrow which i really don't wanna but she has to come get her stuff. she is probabl gonna beg me some more.

 

After i get her stuff out and whatnot im gonna plan my vacation and go to Russia like i have been for the longest time.

 

Stay strong, dude. If you feel tempted to give in, just remember: Their will just be more of this crap down the road.

[frozensprouts]

 

You should still trust your finance. However I can say that there is no way my husband whether before or after the marriage would support me going to Vegas w/o him. I feel the same. He travels on business sometimes for 2 days up to going to Canada for 2 weeks at the beginning of the year. I do not usually go with him because of children being in school and no nearby relatives. If he was going to Vegas though I would be going! Although I'm sure he wouldn't do anything stupid there are some places you do not go out of respect and consideration. A bachlorette party with a few girls acting silly and having fun even if there is a stripper there is one thing. Flying to Vegas for 3 days is another!! 'What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas' is its slogan for a reason!!

 

but have you never heard the saying "what happens in canada stays in canada" ( not to worry, not much seems to go on here:laugh:

 

about having oral sex with a male stripper....ewww....that sounds awful who knows where he ( and his "male anatomy") have been:sick:

[frozensprouts]

only people that call at 3am to tell you they love you are ones doing it out of guilt for something they did or are doing.

 

or they do it in a pathetic attempt to head off suspicion.

 

actually, i have done it myself. My husband is away a lot, and I have problems with insomnia. I always have trouble falling asleep, and it's even worse when he is not here. If I can't sleep, i'll sometimes send him an email just to let him know i'm thinking about him and miss him, or even just to "talk" to him, as if he's still at home. It often helps me wind down, and then I can sleep.

 

(I know that sounds lame, but it's true)

[Woggle]

Canada is not what people think. I went to Montreal after my divorce and it was the raunchiest and sleaziest week of my life.

[frozensprouts]

Canada is not what people think. I went to Montreal after my divorce and it was the raunchiest and sleaziest week of my life.

 

 

have often heard that about montreal, but haven't been there since i was a little kid

 

the rest of canada? eh, I can only speak to the parts i have been to, but I have heard it can get pretty wild up in newfoundland ( a joke between me and a friend of mine who's from there)

[StoneCold]

Canada is not what people think. I went to Montreal after my divorce and it was the raunchiest and sleaziest week of my life.

 

I can attest to this....the Quebecois are a very uninhibted people

[StoneCold]

the rest of canada? eh, I can only speak to the parts i have been to, but I have heard it can get pretty wild up in newfoundland ( a joke between me and a friend of mine who's from there)

 

 

Just like any other country/place...the areas with the laid back simple folk can get quite sexually wild.

 

Newfoundland is a place of very simple people...so action comes easy. I mean this as no disrespect or slight against the newfies whatsoever...some of the sweetest, nicest people I know are from newfoundland...theres a girl from Newfoundland in my office...sweetest thing, such a nice girl... and I have a major crush on her lmao

[frozensprouts]

Just like any other country/place...the areas with the laid back simple folk can get quite sexually wild.

 

Newfoundland is a place of very simple people...so action comes easy. I mean this as no disrespect or slight against the newfies whatsoever...some of the sweetest, nicest people I know are from newfoundland...theres a girl from Newfoundland in my office...sweetest thing, such a nice girl... and I have a major crush on her lmao

 

I'm sorry, but I jusdt have to ask ... is she from Dildo? ( I can't believe there is a place there named that! )

 

but you are right...most of the people I have met from NFLD are really nice and VERY friendly ( can't say I cared for being "screeched in " though:laugh:)

[StoneCold]

but you are right...most of the people I have met from NFLD are really nice and VERY friendly ( can't say I cared for being "screeched in " though:laugh:)

 

Good luck understanding what the hell they are talking about too... One guy I know.... really nice guy but I never know what the hell hes saying... I just smile and nod......smile and nod lmao

[frozensprouts]

Good luck understanding what the hell they are talking about too... One guy I know.... really nice guy but I never know what the hell hes saying... I just smile and nod......smile and nod lmao

too true... they are the most kindhearted, generous people you could ever meet ( look at how kind they were to all the people on the planes that got diverted to Gander airport, etc. on 9/11) but i do have issues understanding what in hell they are talking about (e.g.-what is jiggs dinner?).

[Osiris1234]

Canada is not what people think. I went to Montreal after my divorce and it was the raunchiest and sleaziest week of my life.

 

have often heard that about montreal, but haven't been there since i was a little kid

 

the rest of canada? eh, I can only speak to the parts i have been to, but I have heard it can get pretty wild up in newfoundland ( a joke between me and a friend of mine who's from there)

 

Just like any other country/place...the areas with the laid back simple folk can get quite sexually wild.

 

Care to elaborate?

Edited September 14, 2011 by Osiris1234

[Osiris1234]

I arrived thirty minutes late. However, I called earlier in the day and told Tiffany, the girl who hired me, that I was probably going to be late. She said that it was no problem and the girls were going to stay inside all night anyway because of the weather.

 

This party took place at a condo at a popular tourist resort a few miles from the beach. I have stripped at this resort for many parties in the past, so it was easy for me to find the location.

 

My routine started off like normal. I performed my police act, which tricked the bachelorette again. I was 2 for 2 tonight so far. As I was about to finish my routine though, the girls had a request: full nudity. At first, I told them that I usually don't do that, but they pleaded even more.

 

"Come on--pretty please!" one of the girls said. She pointed at the bachelorette. "This will be the last dick she gets to see because she gets married."

 

"Yeah, most of us are married and haven't seen another cock in years. You gotta show us!"

 

I think I'm the only guy I know who has ever had a room full of a dozen hot girls begging to see his cock. And let me tell you, it's hard to turn down a dozen girls eager to see you naked. The more I refused, the more insistent the girls became. Finally, peer pressure got the best of me. "Okay, but no pictures."

 

The girls agreed. They put away the cameras and took their seats on the L-shaped couch in the living room. The girls kept their word---no one had a camera.

 

As soon as I approached the couch, two pairs of hands grasped the strap of my thong and pulled downward. The rest of the crowd squealed in delight. My cock hung out there for everyone to see. I danced, moving from girl to girl, showing my goods like I was on tge catwalk of a runway.

 

"Let's give him a hand, girls," one girl said.

 

Everyone cheered and clapped like I had hit a home run at a ball game. I felt flattered and awkward at the same time. That was one of the strangest ovations I had ever received---not many people can get an ovation for showing their cock to people.

 

"So, are we the hottest party you've had?" one girl asked.

 

"That's hard to say because I have done a lot of parties with a lot of hot girls," I said, causing some girls to raise their eyebrows. "But I can say this: Y'all are easily up there with one of the hottest." Everyone smiled at this. That wasn't a lie either. These girls were all very beautiful.

 

 

And people say **** like this doesn't happen at bachelorette parties...so naive, imagine how their husbands would feel and react if they heard them say this.

[frozensprouts]

Care to elaborate?

 

not really.

 

but I do think that me further east you go in Canada, the more "laid back" people tend to get.

 

[frozensprouts]

I arrived thirty minutes late. However, I called earlier in the day and told Tiffany, the girl who hired me, that I was probably going to be late. She said that it was no problem and the girls were going to stay inside all night anyway because of the weather.

 

This party took place at a condo at a popular tourist resort a few miles from the beach. I have stripped at this resort for many parties in the past, so it was easy for me to find the location.

 

My routine started off like normal. I performed my police act, which tricked the bachelorette again. I was 2 for 2 tonight so far. As I was about to finish my routine though, the girls had a request: full nudity. At first, I told them that I usually don't do that, but they pleaded even more.

 

"Come on--pretty please!" one of the girls said. She pointed at the bachelorette. "This will be the last dick she gets to see because she gets married."

 

"Yeah, most of us are married and haven't seen another cock in years. You gotta show us!"

 

I think I'm the only guy I know who has ever had a room full of a dozen hot girls begging to see his cock. And let me tell you, it's hard to turn down a dozen girls eager to see you naked. The more I refused, the more insistent the girls became. Finally, peer pressure got the best of me. "Okay, but no pictures."

 

The girls agreed. They put away the cameras and took their seats on the L-shaped couch in the living room. The girls kept their word---no one had a camera.

 

As soon as I approached the couch, two pairs of hands grasped the strap of my thong and pulled downward. The rest of the crowd squealed in delight. My cock hung out there for everyone to see. I danced, moving from girl to girl, showing my goods like I was on tge catwalk of a runway.

 

"Let's give him a hand, girls," one girl said.

 

Everyone cheered and clapped like I had hit a home run at a ball game. I felt flattered and awkward at the same time. That was one of the strangest ovations I had ever received---not many people can get an ovation for showing their cock to people.

 

"So, are we the hottest party you've had?" one girl asked.

 

"That's hard to say because I have done a lot of parties with a lot of hot girls," I said, causing some girls to raise their eyebrows. "But I can say this: Y'all are easily up there with one of the hottest." Everyone smiled at this. That wasn't a lie either. These girls were all very beautiful.

 

 

And people say **** like this doesn't happen at bachelorette parties...so naive, imagine how their husbands would feel and react if they heard them say this.

 

i'm kind of confused....where did this come from?

[Osiris1234]

i'm kind of confused....where did this come from?

 

That blog ive posted, it amazes me what women will say and how women will act when a private stripper shows up....but hey, i learned that from my Ex-fiance that some people just arent meant to be marriage material.

 

Why do gwomen act like such sluts when some stripper arrives? Its like they have no self-control and try to justify it like they did by saying they hadn't seen another cock because they were married or that the bachelorette was about to get married and it would be her last cock she will ever see.

 

I know not all women do this but it makes me so ****ing bitter knowing they would say this but i guarantee you if there husband was their it would be a different ****ing story.

Edited September 15, 2011 by Osiris1234