Labster12 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Okay, so yesterday I made out with my girlfriend and by 8 minutes I mean the frame of time we did not have any clothes on and were making out with each other that way. So I went down on her and everything but when it came to inserting it into her, I only lasted about 6 minutes (2 minutes spent on going down on her). I have seen pornstars go for 10 minutes and more and afterward she did have a smile on and grabbed me tight from the back of my head and locked lips with me. Unfortunately I feel that I didn't last long because after 6 minutes I was getting tired. It was my first time. She is 21 and I am 18. I just feel that I could have lasted longer and even though she was smiling she wasn't fully satisfied.
welikeincrowds Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Dude, people are dying. People have lung cancer and can't speak. People are born into poverty and have to wonder whether or not they will be able to eat. And you just had sex with someone you like, who smiled after you were done, and went to kiss you. You're blessed. Stop ****ing worrying about it and learn how to use your tongue.
Star Gazer Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Why did you only spend 2 minutes going down on her? Why didn't you finish her off after you came? And not to make you feel worse, but did you time yourself or something? Because most guys think they last longer than they do.
CLC2008 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 For real? Nah, nothing to worry about though.
Author Labster12 Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 Why did you only spend 2 minutes going down on her? Why didn't you finish her off after you came? And not to make you feel worse, but did you time yourself or something? Because most guys think they last longer than they do. I have a good memory.. Saw the time when we first started making out and when we finished
Star Gazer Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 I have a good memory.. Saw the time when we first started making out and when we finished So it was 8 minutes total, including making out? Not just sex?
Author Labster12 Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 the sex was 8 minutes total, if you count me going down on her and the other stuff
Star Gazer Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 the sex was 8 minutes total, if you count me going down on her and the other stuff I'm confused. You first looked at the clock when you were making out, right? And when you looked at the clock when you were done, 8 minutes had passed? So the 8 minutes includes making out, oral sex, and penetration? Was this the first time you had sex with her?
tami-chan Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Okay, so yesterday I made out with my girlfriend and by 8 minutes I mean the frame of time we did not have any clothes on and were making out with each other that way. So I went down on her and everything but when it came to inserting it into her, I only lasted about 6 minutes (2 minutes spent on going down on her). I have seen pornstars go for 10 minutes and more and afterward she did have a smile on and grabbed me tight from the back of my head and locked lips with me. Unfortunately I feel that I didn't last long because after 6 minutes I was getting tired. It was my first time. She is 21 and I am 18. I just feel that I could have lasted longer and even though she was smiling she wasn't fully satisfied. Oh you are only 18!!! no wonder....dude, give yourself some slack. You will learn along the way how to last longer. Be safe!
Knittress Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 It's definitely not ideal, but she appears to be willing to let you practice.
Star Gazer Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Oh you are only 18!!! no wonder....dude, give yourself some slack. Oh, I missed that! Yes, cut yourself some slack. You dudes learn to control the response with...practice.
Pfiend101 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 nice dude. That's what we call a "quickie'. Remember to wrap it up.
Author Labster12 Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 I'm confused. You first looked at the clock when you were making out, right? And when you looked at the clock when you were done, 8 minutes had passed? So the 8 minutes includes making out, oral sex, and penetration? Was this the first time you had sex with her? this was the first time I had sex with anyone
Star Gazer Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 this was the first time I had sex with anyone Does she know this? I imagine the first time is short for most guys. I wouldn't worry about it.
Lakeside_runner Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 This thread... makes me want... to start... cutting myself. Yes - if I keep reading it I'll become a cutter... It was your first time. It's natural that you feel insecure about it especially if it wasn't her first time. She smiled and kissed you meaning she enjoyed it. She didn't yawn and turned her back to you... Just do it again next time and take your time
jamesum Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Congrats man! I hope you didnt tell her its your first time. Otherwise shes gonna tell everyone that she has your virginity.
bac Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 You are a real male. You see sex as a sport and you are aware of your score even on the first time. Congrats on being a real male. But, you are wrong about the time. IMO The time that a male should last is about 1 hr. At least most of my males could last the time.
jamesum Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 By the way, didnt you just ask her out yesterday?
bac Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 I had the only one virgin. He lasted 40 mins for the first time. I mean the 40 minutes of vaginal sex in different positions. But, I am not sure about the exact time because I did not check time on purpose.
SarahRose Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Okay, so yesterday I made out with my girlfriend and by 8 minutes I mean the frame of time we did not have any clothes on and were making out with each other that way. So I went down on her and everything but when it came to inserting it into her, I only lasted about 6 minutes (2 minutes spent on going down on her). I have seen pornstars go for 10 minutes and more and afterward she did have a smile on and grabbed me tight from the back of my head and locked lips with me. Unfortunately I feel that I didn't last long because after 6 minutes I was getting tired. It was my first time. She is 21 and I am 18. I just feel that I could have lasted longer and even though she was smiling she wasn't fully satisfied. You do realize that porn isn't real don't you? The guy could be going for 2 minutes and they would just rework the clips to make it into 30 minutes. Stop worrying about performance and looking at the clock. That is a turn off.
Rorschach Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Does she know this? I imagine the first time is short for most guys. I wouldn't worry about it. In terms of actual penetration on my first time it lasted probably 30 seconds, if that. Not even exagerating at all... Yeah I'm that good
WalkingtheAbyss Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 For your first time you shouldn't be embarrassed about the time you lasted. The only thing you should be concerned about was how long you were drinking from the furry cup. You should have been down there till you were gargling with juices. Your young but you will learn young padawan On an advisory note, next time you see her make sure you've emptied the chamber before hand. No good going into such battle with a loaded gun if you get my gist
brainygirl Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 A guy that constantly finishes first and leaves me feeling unsatisfied is just asking to get himself dumped. I could go all night. eight minutes total . . . would probably piss me off.
Star Gazer Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 A guy that constantly finishes first and leaves me feeling unsatisfied is just asking to get himself dumped. I could go all night. eight minutes total . . . would probably piss me off. Did you read any of this thread? It was the first time he ever had sex. There's no "consistently finishing first" here. As for 8 minutes, don't you ever enjoy a quickie?? I know I do, sometimes more so than a longer session. And penetration all night? No thank you.
brainygirl Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Did you read any of this thread? It was the first time he ever had sex. There's no "consistently finishing first" here. As for 8 minutes, don't you ever enjoy a quickie?? I know I do, sometimes more so than a longer session. And penetration all night? No thank you. HE asked if it was bad, if its always that fast, its a problem, and I mean "several times" all night. I'm too busy and it take too much trouble to clear an evening or a night to spend with a special guy to have things be over in less than ten minutes. And two minutes of oral? That's a joke on her. Men who are selfish in bed drive me nuts. I've found that the behavior there is more telling than almost any other interaction you have with them.
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