Star Gazer Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 All 6 of the subscribed threads on my list... What's that??
Mattock5656 Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Haha! That's so true!!! Lol, I agree. Although, I think it would be a bad idea to add this system. It would start looking like ebay. And some people would have fake ratings, or their friends would rate them higher or whatever. On top of that, your rating could go lower sometimes if you don't respond to someone's email if the person is lame.
Star Gazer Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Lol, I agree. Although, I think it would be a bad idea to add this system. It would start looking like ebay. And some people would have fake ratings, or their friends would rate them higher or whatever. On top of that, your rating could go lower sometimes if you don't respond to someone's email if the person is lame. Yup. There have been plenty of disgruntled men who've let me know just what a [expletive] they think I am just because I didn't respond. Those would be the guys ruining my score!
runner Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 that would be hilarious. furthermore, all dating sites should require members to tattoo DINs (dating identification numbers) to the back of their arms, that way you could even have DATEFAX reports printed out prior to meeting.
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 We know you are! Lisa was referring to the OP, probably in light of her recent threads. Uh, I don't think he'd have anything legitimately negative to say about me. I didn't mistreat him in any way.
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 Heh, I was... in fact my very first thought was "I wonder what the guy Shadow dated would write about her if such a site existed?" Oh, thanks?
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 Heh, I was... in fact my very first thought was "I wonder what the guy Shadow dated would write about her if such a site existed?" that's just mean...
LisaLee Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 (edited) It wasn't meant to be mean at all. It was honestly the first thing I thought of. My train of thought: Site for rating dates Shadow's recent dates What would he say about her? I didn't have to wonder what you would say about him, I already have an idea. I figure if you are advocating a place to tell others that so and so is a creep and a poor date then you should be fully prepared for what they are going to say about you. Why would you think my thoughts were mean? Edited September 18, 2010 by LisaLee
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 It wasn't meant to be mean at all. It was honestly the first thing I thought of. My train of thought: Site for rating dates Shadow's recent dates What would he say about her? I didn't have to wonder what you would say about him, I already have an idea. I figure if you are advocating a place to tell others that so and so is a creep and a poor date then you should be fully prepared for what they are going to say about you. Why would you think my thoughts were mean? can you understand why your comments might have implied something mean, though? why, what do you think he'd say about me?
Rhythmic Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Uh, I don't think he'd have anything legitimately negative to say about me. I didn't mistreat him in any way. I am sure plenty of the guys you want to call creeps think the same way.
Star Gazer Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 Uh, I don't think he'd have anything legitimately negative to say about me. I didn't mistreat him in any way. Whether you mistreated him during the sex date is really left to interpretation. Most of the guys thought you were mean. I'm not sure you were, but then again I don't suffer the way men do if they don't finish. But a site where you rated dates wouldn't be limited to mistreatment, I imagine. You yourself admitted you acted "crazy." I think most guys would be interested in knowing what girls are "crazy." This is just one of those glass house problems. For every guy you think is a jerk/douche/creep, there's a guy who thinks something equally bad about you. So like someone else humorously pointed out, no matter how awesome you are, youd eventually have a really sh*tty score because not everyone is going to float everyone's boat.
LisaLee Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 can you understand why your comments might have implied something mean, though? I can only understand it implying something mean if I have a negative outlook and feel like people are out to say cruel things. The first thing I posted on the matter was But wouldn't you be afraid what they have to say about you? only because I wanted you to think about what you were suggesting. I say that because I do not think he would be singing your praises if such a site existed... not saying that to be cruel... but I am going off what you have told us. why, what do you think he'd say about me?Now to tell you that would be mean.
D-Lish Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 The problem with a rating system on a dating site is that people could potentially sabotage others based on anything. Maybe you don't answer a guys message, so they give you bad rating without ever meeting you. Such a system would never be fair.
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 Now to tell you that would be mean. Wow... No, I'd honestly like to know what you think he'd say.
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 I Now to tell you that would be mean. what's the worst he could say, that I didn't finish him off and sent him a few friendly texts after?
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2010 Author Posted September 18, 2010 The problem with a rating system on a dating site is that people could potentially sabotage others based on anything. Maybe you don't answer a guys message, so they give you bad rating without ever meeting you. Such a system would never be fair. I was thinking about this, and one possibility is that people could only rate people with whom they've had a back and forth message exchange. Actually you could take it a step further and just have people allow themselves to rate and be rated when they agree to actually meet.
Star Gazer Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 I was thinking about this, and one possibility is that people could only rate people with whom they've had a back and forth message exchange. Actually you could take it a step further and just have people allow themselves to rate and be rated when they agree to actually meet. But wouldn't you still be afraid of what they had to say about you, Shadow? Given your other thread??
LisaLee Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 what's the worst he could say, that I didn't finish him off and sent him a few friendly texts after? Do you really want to know? Does it matter that much?
Author shadowplay Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 Do you really want to know? Does it matter that much? Yeah, I would, honestly.
D-Lish Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 I was thinking about this, and one possibility is that people could only rate people with whom they've had a back and forth message exchange. Actually you could take it a step further and just have people allow themselves to rate and be rated when they agree to actually meet. I've had exchanges with people, then decided not to meet them- so it could still breed a hostile situation and give them opportunity to retaliate should they be given the opportunity.
Author shadowplay Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 Do you really want to know? Does it matter that much? Yeah, I'd like to know, honestly.
USMCHokie Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 what's the worst he could say...? That you're really a dude...
Author shadowplay Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 I'm not saying it's full proof of course, but I think it could be fun. Also, people could use or not use the rating option. They would only be allowed to rate others if they allowed others to rate them.
LisaLee Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Yeah, I'd like to know, honestly. Just from what you have told us I think he would say that you put out easily but you're a bad lay. He might also say something about you being weird.
Ariadne Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Oh, That would be wonderful! I love the idea: Do not date this guy, he is an idiot, etc, etc. I would also like no restrictions.. Anybody can say whatever they want and all comments get published.
Recommended Posts