donnamaybe Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 Ok... lets say 65% of men in America are worthless as husbands and fathers. I think that is a fair number. So that leaves 35% as quality. Now... I just need some kind of test to differentiate the twoA test. Hmmm.... That would be a glance at his paystub. Yeah, that's it. His paystub. If he brings home six figures, who CARES if he's worthless in every other way?!
flying Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 I'm thinking that when an American guy cheats it's because they don't like to see his kids, plus he enjoys giving large chunks of his income and assets away. As much as it's great to put the shoe on the other foot... It doesn't really go both ways. Why? Because Men can be legally penalized for cheating... while women can cheat and MAKE money from it. So... how fair is that? What's unfair is that my exH cheated, I walked away without asking for anything except freedom, I'm not alone in this and yet I still have to read these kinds of posts around here all the freaking time by bitter guys who got personally screwed by A woman. Thanks dude, nice to know we're all on the same side here. Oh, I know. "Don't get upset if it doesn't apply to you." Right? Sigh. Whatevs.
denise_xo Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 Okay, okay. You caught me. I'm actually a big cheating, lying bee-yotch who has moved her man into her house just to make him slave, slave away while I fritter my time away in the bed of one man after another, leaving him with nothing. NOTHING I TELLS YA!!! ...you forgot to add that you lied to him about BC so you could trap him and his wallet by getting pregnant.
sweetjasmine Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 As sad as it is, for the most part American men are all amoral cheats compared to women. Now... I can already hear the cries of "women cheat too", and that's a valid point, but women in the U.S. cheat at much lower rates than men. Also... I don't think men in the U.S. are good fathers. I think that one might be worth debating. They constantly have to be chased down to pay their piddly child support, and when they DO pay they think single moms are all out there getting their hair and nails done at their expense when, in reality, there is a higher housing cost to pay (more rooms needed), clothes to buy, food to eat, gas for driving the kids to their numerous activities which ALSO cost money, school lunches, etc. Most American men haven't a CLUE what it takes to raise a child because, frankly, most of them don't pay attention even if they ARE still in the family home. Apparently it's okay to make these sweeping generalizations, so I'm going to ascribe them herein. Not only that, all they talk about is money, money, money. All they care about is protecting their big, fat wallets. That's why exotic Third World men are so much better and more attractive. They won't ever divorce you and they won't complain about supporting you so you can stay at home and raise his children. They'll hand over more than half their paycheck because that's what real men do. And they won't ever get mad that they have to pay for Junior's private school tuition instead of saving up for that new car they always wanted. Sheesh, American men are so materialistic and shallow.
Author GooseChaser Posted September 17, 2010 Author Posted September 17, 2010 Not only that, all they talk about is money, money, money. All they care about is protecting their big, fat wallets. That's why exotic Third World men are so much better and more attractive. They won't ever divorce you and they won't complain about supporting you so you can stay at home and raise his children. They'll hand over more than half their paycheck because that's what real men do. And they won't ever get mad that they have to pay for Junior's private school tuition instead of saving up for that new car they always wanted. Sheesh, American men are so materialistic and shallow. You made me choke on my water with the Third World men comment!
Woggle Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 What's unfair is that my exH cheated, I walked away without asking for anything except freedom, I'm not alone in this and yet I still have to read these kinds of posts around here all the freaking time by bitter guys who got personally screwed by A woman. Thanks dude, nice to know we're all on the same side here. Oh, I know. "Don't get upset if it doesn't apply to you." Right? Sigh. Whatevs. Why do you get angry if it doesn't apply to you?
Author GooseChaser Posted September 17, 2010 Author Posted September 17, 2010 Why do you get angry if it doesn't apply to you? I think what Flying is saying is that men don't sympathize with her situation and feelings because the situation doesn't affect them personally somehow. People like to be sympathized with and feel that others understand their feelings.
Woggle Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 I think what Flying is saying is that men don't sympathize with her situation and feelings because the situation doesn't affect them personally somehow. People like to be sympathized with and feel that others understand their feelings. How often do women sympathize with my situation and that of other men?
Author GooseChaser Posted September 17, 2010 Author Posted September 17, 2010 How often do women sympathize with my situation and that of other men? You have gotten sympathizing responses and you know it, Woggle, please don't deny that! What kind of situations do you guys want sympathy about? It also goes both ways; both men and women should try to make an effort to understand each other.
Untouchable_Fire Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 What's unfair is that my exH cheated, I walked away without asking for anything except freedom, I'm not alone in this and yet I still have to read these kinds of posts around here all the freaking time by bitter guys who got personally screwed by A woman. Thanks dude, nice to know we're all on the same side here. Oh, I know. "Don't get upset if it doesn't apply to you." Right? Sigh. Whatevs. I'm really sorry that happened. I know it sucks when you want out so bad your willing give anything to just get away. I apologize you have to read these kinds of posts. It sucks that nice people always lose in divorce. Not only that, all they talk about is money, money, money. All they care about is protecting their big, fat wallets. That's why exotic Third World men are so much better and more attractive. They won't ever divorce you and they won't complain about supporting you so you can stay at home and raise his children. They'll hand over more than half their paycheck because that's what real men do. And they won't ever get mad that they have to pay for Junior's private school tuition instead of saving up for that new car they always wanted. Sheesh, American men are so materialistic and shallow. Did you miss the part where we complain about how our kids are not being raised well?
Citizen Erased Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 Did you miss the part where we complain about how our kids are not being raised well? To be honest, that is rarely a concern I see on here. It's more personal reasons eg the selfish slut getting her hair done, spending it on her new boyfriend etc. Personally, I find it crazy that men have to pay alimony there. But child support should be the concern of both parents. The children have a hard enough time growing up in split families without suffering because daddy would rather not give his ex anything and skipping out on his responsibility. Like it or not, that happens A LOT. Possibly a lot more than those selfish sluts spending it on getting their hair done. My father earns roughly 120k a year. My mother nowhere near that. I lived with her and her partner when they split and he barely even paid child support. He didn't file a tax return until I was 18 so they couldn't determine how much he earned and therefor how much he should contribute. She owned a house, I didn't want for anything. Yet he claimed to never have the money to help pay for my upbringing. Of course, expensive holidays and shopping trips were all in his budget. I know not all men are like that. He was just personally a jerk that didn't give a crap about me. The people I have the most issue with are the parents that can't put aside their bull**** for the love of their child/ren and figure out a way to support their children. I don't care if she cheated, if she ran over your dog, if he slept with your mother or he made fun of your bad perm, get the eff over it. As for the OP, American men more than likely cheat because it's a culture of satisfaction as fast as you can get it. My wife didn't have sex with me last night but that pretty lady will. It's not surprising in the least that men and women there are like that. Thing is, they're like that here. And other places. It's all me me me.
Seamless74 Posted September 18, 2010 Posted September 18, 2010 I hate to say it ladies but really A man is only as faithful as his options... Its really just that simple..
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