Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Yeah. I have a sense of entitlement alright. That's the funniest thing I've heard all week... Your posts indicate it. I have met very few women in my life with that type of attitude.
Star Gazer Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Your posts indicate it. I have met very few women in my life with that type of attitude. Well, I'm not one of them to begin with. Move along, Max...
Cobra_X Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Sure they do, when they aren't being pursued by the man they're interested. The problem? It sets them up to feel as though he's not as interested in her as she is in him, because a REAL man would ask her out on that second date if he was interested. He wouldn't go quiet and still and refuse to return a text message. Allowing her to chase you puts her in a defensive position, feeling insecure. A woman may do this a few times, with a few different guys, but eventually she'll learn her lesson and will stop doing it. But this is all neither here nor there, because you three have already proven to me to be dudes I'd never date anyway... AND OP already got her second date invite. I really, really object to your constant reference to "real men". What is a fake man? Im going to tell you that from a male perspective... I don't mind paying for dates at all. I don't mind paying always. However, I expect honesty and upfrontness regarding her feelings. Since I rarely get that... I have the right to be a touch jaded at times.
Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Well, I'm not one of them to begin with. Move along, Max... I'm glad we finally agree on something. You're not one of them. They're higher quality women. They're not afraid to go after what they want and don't stick to outdated gender roles or read books such as "The Rules" and swear by it like the bible. But, whatever. Move along.
AverageJoe Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 This attitude permeates your posts, and I'm sure your dates sense it too. I really would like to know, how it is my problem if someone txts me, and I may not respond.
melodymatters Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I really would like to know, how it is my problem if someone txts me, and I may not respond. In a given society, we are all sending each other signals at all times. If you dropped to your knees and started making monkey noises, I doubt you'd get a lot of dates out of that encounter. Now, putting it into a more normal situation, I can tell you for a FACT, that most woman send out a text as a "feeler", if you ignore that feeler, well she's just going to move on. Therefore if you were interested in said woman and she moved on from a percieved lack of interest, it could be construed as a problem. And a rather silly, avoidable one at that. But hey, do whatever you want.
AverageJoe Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 In a given society, we are all sending each other signals at all times. Melody, in a general society sure, as far as txt messages, it wasnt a txt that made me ask her out. Now, putting it into a more normal situation, I can tell you for a FACT, that most woman send out a text as a "feeler", if you ignore that feeler, well she's just going to move on. I can tell you for a fact in my experience, this just isnt true. How many women have you went out with to base these assumptions on? Therefore if you were interested in said woman and she moved on from a percieved lack of interest, it could be construed as a problem. And a rather silly, avoidable one at that. Because I may not have returned a txt? Again, her problem not mine. How is it my problem?
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