Brady_to_Moss Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I was in Maine for work and what do you know we were RIGHT across the street from one...so we went 2 nights in a row as there was nothing else to do and it made me think...would you be ok with letting your SO go? If so why not?
lilbunny Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I was in Maine for work and what do you know we were RIGHT across the street from one...so we went 2 nights in a row as there was nothing else to do and it made me think...would you be ok with letting your SO go? If so why not? Right across the street, nothing else to do...come off it, it was such a last resort you went twice! Honestly, I wouldn't care less if they went. I would be gutted if they lied about it and I would quite rightly object to any extras.
Feelin Frisky Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 It's alright as long as she doesn't blow the Chippinsdale guy and comes home frothy to me. Yeah baby, shagadelic.
emely Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I would mind a bit, I mean if it was a bachelor or something, maybe, otherwise I wouldn't see the need. But it wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but like someone else said as well, If my S.O would lie about it, that would be worse than actually going!!!
TuesGirl Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Wouldn't care at all. If someone is my SO, I trust them until they give me a reason not to. I'd rather my guy ogle women at a strip club, go home and whack off instead of sleep with a co-worker on a work trip. However, I would like to know. It would feel weird if it was kept a secret.
sweetjasmine Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Yes, I would care. I consider it inappropriate behavior for someone who's in a serious relationship. I would be annoyed at him going, in general, and if he bought a lap dance, I would quickly go from annoyed to angry.
Shakz Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 It's alright as long as she doesn't blow the Chippinsdale guy and comes home frothy to me. Yeah baby, shagadelic. He shoots......he scores!
pandagirl Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 A guy who went a few times a year? No big deal. Someone who went a few times a month? Pass.
AverageJoe Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I wouldnt care a bit. My ego doesnt work that way.
carhill Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 One of stbx's girlfriends worked for TDU in Vegas and she sometimes went to the shows. I guess that's a strip club of sorts. Alcohol and mostly naked male bodies. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas I had no issues with that kind of stuff if she enjoyed it and no interest in strip clubs myself. Never been in one. Guess they're doing OK without me.
2sunny Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 i find it hard to believe there is nothing else to do in Maine... so it makes me wonder how truthful you really are. i mean, come on, the beaches and the area call for many other fun options than wasting your money buying drinks and paying for a gal to rub you down. just be honest - you WANTED to go so much that you went two days in a row. how much money did you waste in there with nothing to do?
EYECANDY000 Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I would mind if my s/o went to a strip joint. and especially two nights in a row! I would be boiling!
AverageJoe Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 i find it hard to believe there is nothing else to do in Maine... so it makes me wonder how truthful you really are. i mean, come on, the beaches and the area call for many other fun options than wasting your money buying drinks and paying for a gal to rub you down. just be honest - you WANTED to go so much that you went two days in a row. how much money did you waste in there with nothing to do? It appears you dont approve of such actions, and thats ok. So, what does this have to do with the original post? I used to travel quite a bit, and in some places I could see this happening.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 26, 2010 Author Posted August 26, 2010 i find it hard to believe there is nothing else to do in Maine... so it makes me wonder how truthful you really are. i mean, come on, the beaches and the area call for many other fun options than wasting your money buying drinks and paying for a gal to rub you down. just be honest - you WANTED to go so much that you went two days in a row. how much money did you waste in there with nothing to do? When you dont have a vehicle and it is 150 yards from your hotel room...why not? I dont give a **** if you dont believe me..i went 2 nights in a row and i didnt want to sit in my ****ty hotel room
Eeyore79 Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I would not be ok with my SO going to a strip club. Firstly, I think it's inappropriate for him to ogle naked women if we're in a relationship. Secondly, it suggests that he objectifies women and I don't want to date someone like that. Even if I found out he frequented strip clubs before we met, I'd probably still dump him because it says a lot about what type of person he is.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 I would not be ok with my SO going to a strip club. Firstly, I think it's inappropriate for him to ogle naked women if we're in a relationship. Secondly, it suggests that he objectifies women and I don't want to date someone like that. Even if I found out he frequented strip clubs before we met, I'd probably still dump him because it says a lot about what type of person he is. You really think 100% of the men in there objectify women? You need to get out more.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 brady - do you have a SO? Nope....dont want one
Eeyore79 Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 You really think 100% of the men in there objectify women? You need to get out more. If they weren't objectifying women, they wouldn't be there.
2sunny Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Nope....dont want one ok then, who cares? YOU can do whatever you want to! THAT is the beauty of being single! so how much money did they get you for? and what did they do to you? personally, i love to hear about what happens in there...
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 If they weren't objectifying women, they wouldn't be there. Sorry but 90% of the men you are going to be with..are going to see you as an object and vise versa
caramel c Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 It's not ok with me. I would get over it depending on the situation and his level of participation there...but generally, I have trouble taking a guy seriously who frequents these places.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Sorry but 90% of the men you are going to be with..are going to see you as an object and vise versa Yes, just about the percentage of women who will judge a man on his income and social status, plus how he performs in bed.... I wouldn't mind an S/O going to the strip because I'll probably go with him. Although if he makes it a habit of frequenting such joints, I would dump him.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 ok then, who cares? YOU can do whatever you want to! THAT is the beauty of being single! so how much money did they get you for? and what did they do to you? personally, i love to hear about what happens in there... Well i will tell you...lol First night there we go..$8 cover charge to get into the place...go in and its college night..i would say about 4 girls that me and my buddies thought were very attractive...had some drinks..i walked up to one asking for a lap dance..Its $5 for the wrist band to go into the "back rooms" for the lap dance...i had her for a good 2 songs. She did a very good job...amazing body. Threw her a $20. Came out had a few more drinks..bought my buddy a jello shot that was fed to him..god did his face turn red Second night...talent was terrible..not many girls...prob because it wasn't college night and $1 drafts We had a major golf tournament up there for 4 days and you wouldn't be surprised how many people i saw in there from our tournament (golfers)..with their wives and getting 5+ lap dances..our president of the section was making it rain
2sunny Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Well i will tell you...lol First night there we go..$8 cover charge to get into the place...go in and its college night..i would say about 4 girls that me and my buddies thought were very attractive...had some drinks..i walked up to one asking for a lap dance..Its $5 for the wrist band to go into the "back rooms" for the lap dance...i had her for a good 2 songs. She did a very good job...amazing body. Threw her a $20. Came out had a few more drinks..bought my buddy a jello shot that was fed to him..god did his face turn red Second night...talent was terrible..not many girls...prob because it wasn't college night and $1 drafts We had a major golf tournament up there for 4 days and you wouldn't be surprised how many people i saw in there from our tournament (golfers)..with their wives and getting 5+ lap dances..our president of the section was making it rain what did they do to "feed" him the jello shot? come on - do tell... and the other bolded part - i've never heard that "expression" - you don't mean he blew his wad - do you?
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