WintersNightTraveler Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 As a guy how would you take it if a girl do this? Would you no longer see her as potential gf material? It wouldn't change my opinion, in fact for a long distance relationship something like that would probably help. But it seems *way* too early to be thinking like that, and I don't really do long distance so what do I know? Whether it changes long term potential just depends on whether he's the type of guy who evaluates "sluttiness" or not. You know this guy better than us so you have to figure out how much this guy is concerned with things like that. If you just want pics of what this guy has to offer then sending the pics is your best bet since he'll likely reply in turn, hoping to get further pics from you. But I think you made the right choice, since you never met this guy in person. Its never private. all my buddies send me pics of girls they have gotten from the net. Lots of girls do it they just send pics without thinking about who will see them. If a buddy gets a pic on his phone he shows all of us. This is true he probably will show his buddies. SP might not care about that. I don't think he'd post it on the web for everyone though.
tigressA Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 If I were in your position I wouldn't send any at this point. I definitely would (and have) if I were already dating someone. I've had a couple guys I dated take pictures of me themselves. I have a really great collection now.
Star Gazer Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 I have done sexting with a guy recently, and honestly it's such great fun! I did it at a time when I felt quite unhappy and low in my life, and it was a real confidence booster. See, that's what's really sad... that anyone would use sexting or sending naked pictures as a confidence booster. Using sex to make yourself feel better as a person?
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 See, that's what's really sad... that anyone would use sexting or sending naked pictures as a confidence booster. Using sex to make yourself feel better as a person? Some people are legitimate exhibitionists who get a lot out of it without necesarily having to feel low and crappy to need such a boost. But yeah that probably happens a lot too I guess and it's a murky line between the two.
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 What are you doing on OKC? If 1.5 hours is too far a distance for you to bother with, why are you corresponding with a guy that far away (I personally cannot believe that you think 1.5 hours is too far, but whatever). If you want online sex, there are so many venues for that. If you are looking for a relationship, why not limit your communication to people whom you might actually meet?
AverageJoe Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 I will agree with sending pics is a potentially bad idea. I have had this happen to me a few times, and I will have to part company with the rest of the folks that say they would be less inclined to go out or date them. I just dont see it that way, my mind doesnt work like that. I have had this happen and my outlook on them wasnt any different. Fortunately I value my privacy very much, and I respect the privacy of others and have never put any pictures like that on the web or even shared them with my pals. But, that is not to say others would, or would not. I think some of you should lay off this girl a bit, she wants to have fun with someone and I have absolutely no problem with this. Is there a risk? Sure there is. But no reason to show your face, I wouldnt suggest that. If she is hot, nothing wrong with showing off a rocking body, something to be proud of. I have never seen a pair of tits online and said, oh damn I know that girl. Have fun but just be sensible about it. Do I think you should? Yeah live it up! Just protect your identity and be smart about it.
Pink Cupcakes Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 No, Art, I have never actually sent naked pics to anyone. It's not my thing, but I get Shadow's stance on it.
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