Yamaha Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 You need to realize he is not worth a text from you and then you will have no desire to respond. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 theres so much i could say, but i guess he doesnt deserve the attention Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 In the whole time i have known him I have NEVER not responded to a text or email from him, so he will think its strange that i havent responded, but maybe he will just take it to mean its over Link to post Share on other sites
redmelon Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 It seems like he's told you before that there is no relationship. Has he spoken to you in this way in the past? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 It seems like he's told you before that there is no relationship. Has he spoken to you in this way in the past? Yeah he has, and i continued to see him Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 so yeah i have no one to blame but myself Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 Is he like a drug to you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 Is he like a drug to you? yeah he is Link to post Share on other sites
redmelon Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 he doesn't deserve to hear from you again. Cut the ties now. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 So you've accepted he doesn't feel the same as you but having him near/inside you is enough, just like a fix. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 (edited) So you've accepted he doesn't feel the same as you but having him near/inside you is enough, just like a fix. yeah thats true, i have accepted anything from him, as long as its something. but mostly i just feel grossly insulted that i am not welcome at his house, when for so long mine has. my everything has Do you think he will just not bother contacting if i dont text back? Edited May 19, 2010 by mishy Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 It just means he only values you as a f**k but not in his life. You have the power in you to break away but it requires losing him. Can you do that? If not then you will have to be happy with the little you have until he meets someone he likes and he will end things with you. Link to post Share on other sites
redmelon Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 Hopefully he won't contact you again, he treats you like shi*te! You deserve better than this treatment and I hope you will close the door now, and feel confident that though it is painful, it is the right thing to do for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 He may not be married, but he's definitely living with a chick. Ignore him, block him, forget him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 its been about 4 or so hours since i got the text. Should i text anything back? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 He may not be married, but he's definitely living with a chick. Ignore him, block him, forget him. I know it sounds like that, but really he isnt. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 He's told you he isn't interested in being involved, he doesn't want a relationship, it's his way, his terms, or the highway. Seriously, why would you degrade yourself by sticking around??? You're simply an option that he chooses when he wants to. Don't respond to him, don't ever reach out to him again. If you do, you've only yourself to blame for how he continues to treat you. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 What would you say to him? Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 I know it sounds like that, but really he isnt. I know you think he's not, but he really is. He has NEVER had you in his home in the years you have known him. Why do you think that is? Because someone is living there. Please don't be naive. And stop the drama and delete his texts and block him. End it now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 He's told you he isn't interested in being involved, he doesn't want a relationship, it's his way, his terms, or the highway. Seriously, why would you degrade yourself by sticking around??? You're simply an option that he chooses when he wants to. Don't respond to him, don't ever reach out to him again. If you do, you've only yourself to blame for how he continues to treat you. i think going out in public or going to someones house is very basic. He acts like i am asking for marriage. Its not like i am even asking much. Yeah, its soooo hard not to respond. I am trying to work but all i can think about are biting cutting responses- or just "I got your message". Its so unlike me not to respond. he might even think the message got lost in cyberspace Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 i think going out in public or going to someones house is very basic. He acts like i am asking for marriage. Its not like i am even asking much. Yeah, its soooo hard not to respond. I am trying to work but all i can think about are biting cutting responses- or just "I got your message". Its so unlike me not to respond. he might even think the message got lost in cyberspace Why do you care what he thinks? He certainly doesn't give a crap about what you think! I can't imagine spending more than 10 seconds with a guy like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mishy Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 What would you say to him? A few things but there is probably no point: You treat me like garbage dont contact me again If i am not welcome in your house , you are not welcome in mine Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 I can't imagine spending more than 10 seconds with a guy like this. Except to have him pay the bar tab for me and my friends. lol Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 Except to have him pay the bar tab for me and my friends. lol lol. And that would take all of 30 seconds and a wave good-bye:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 lol. And that would take all of 30 seconds and a wave good-bye:lmao: Which means we still have 20 seconds to rip him a bit before he signs the check. Link to post Share on other sites
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