Juniper22 Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 Oh yay a porn topic, ha! I wasn't sure what to title this, I almost put, "Is this the new porn?" But, chose not too, because its probably nothing new. Anyway I'm not a huge fan of it, BUT I do watch it sometimes with the guy I'm seeing. So before we go any further, lets get it clear that no where did I say I didn't hate it, nor love it. So no on need to come on here saying, "Well since you don't like porn," but yes, there are some I enjoy better than other kinds. Anyway the guy I'm seeing, we were watching some the other evening together. Alot of what he has been going to, and showing me, are women who are gagging, I mean like almost throwing up gagging, giving BJ's. The other thing I notice is, where men are not only smacking them in the face, but on the boobs as well. Just hit them on the boobs hard like they are just a piece of fatty tissue! The bad part is some of these women are clearly trying to enjoy it, but you can tell they aren't. Maybe they are so high they are not even aware of whats going on. Seen many that look like that as well. Now on to the next part. Yes I know alot of its "acting" and have seen the ones that "act" but some of these people look like they are really serious with their hitting in the faces and boobs. And I'm not meaning a little pop. Some of these thing I have seen I get a bad erie feeling about. Others don't seem so bad. Its like you can tell who is acting and who might be taking it a little to far. So is the gagging till almost throwing up, boob and face smacking the new "in" thing? How many of you men are into this? I asked the guy I was seeing if he was into this that he was watching? He said "maybe" I said well guess what, if you hold my head, to the point of where I can't pull away and at least breathe and I was gagging really bad until I almost got sick if I gave you a BJ, or smacked my boobs or face, you'd be picking your teeth up off the ground! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 yea yea we like it Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 6, 2009 Author Share Posted October 6, 2009 yea yea we like it Thanks for your honesty alpha! So have you done that to anyone you dated? Bet they loved it huh? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 So have you done that to anyone you dated? Bet they loved it huh? a little bit but only to the girls that liked it, which was only a few Link to post Share on other sites
boldjack Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 I'm not a big fan of porn anyway, but this is kind of distrubing. I saw a movie with this kind of porn in it, at a club meeting. I wasn't impressed. My wife likes rough sex, but I could never try to inflict actual pain on her. Some hard squeezes, a little slapping on the ass and boobs, man-handling her into position, like that. Pushing my dick down her throat, deep enough to make her puke, isn't my idea of loving sex. JMO;) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 6, 2009 Author Share Posted October 6, 2009 I'm not a big fan of porn anyway, but this is kind of distrubing. I saw a movie with this kind of porn in it, at a club meeting. I wasn't impressed. My wife likes rough sex, but I could never try to inflict actual pain on her. Some hard squeezes, a little slapping on the ass and boobs, man-handling her into position, like that. Pushing my dick down her throat, deep enough to make her puke, isn't my idea of loving sex. JMO;) Thanks boldjack! Exactly my point, It was just really odd to me. It was different from the "acting" you could just tell. It was quite disturbing. Thankfully the guy I'm seeing hasn't done that, and I think he now knows he better not. But even him being watching it makes me wonder if he would want to try it. I would not enjoy it at all, no way. Some of those women actually looked shocked and caught off guard by it. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 But even him being watching it makes me wonder if he would want to try it. of course he would want to try it with you. thats why he's watch this stuff with you. by the way...this type of porn is called "gonzo porn" :-/ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 6, 2009 Author Share Posted October 6, 2009 of course he would want to try it with you. thats why he's watch this stuff with you. by the way...this type of porn is called "gonzo porn" :-/ gonzo porn? wow never heard of that. Link to post Share on other sites
boldjack Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 Like I said, I don't go in for porn, much, so haven't seen enough of this kind, to be comfortable with it.. But I really don't think that a woman barfing all over my Genitals, would be all that sexy. Guys , who are into demeaning women during sex usually have issues, and women who allow themselves to be used in this manner, have their issues, too. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 I am in agreement with boldjack. I like some rough sex, some butt smacking..but vomit and punching? Any man that showed me or said he liked this kind of porn would scare the crap about of me and I would seriously question his mental health toward women. Even if he doesn't try it with you, he clearly likes seeing women abused on some level. As a woman, it even hurts to read that there is porn out there like that. What is suppose to be sexy about making a woman vomit or hitting her breasts? And people call me ridiculous when I say porn is esculating to new lows and how women are treated. There are apparently enough men out there that think women are completel yworthless that they actually like seeing this porn. So freaking disheartening, it just really upsets me. What is wrong with men today. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 Like I said, I don't go in for porn, much, so haven't seen enough of this kind, to be comfortable with it.. But I really don't think that a woman barfing all over my Genitals, would be all that sexy. Guys , who are into demeaning women during sex usually have issues, and women who allow themselves to be used in this manner, have their issues, too. Thinking back, I now wonder if this is WHY I'm not into porn as much as I used to be. Of course there are probably many factors why. I do watch it from time to time with the wife or by myself. BUT having seen so much over the years, I do believe SOME of it has gotten worse and out of hand. To the OP, its true there are people out there in the world who are into this kind of thing, who do enjoy it. I would say more so the men than the women. For the men in the porn doing this to the women its about power/control over her. And yes, chances are, the women who "look like" they are enjoying it probably are not. Another day another dollar to them and if it means getting hit in the breasts, or face, or almost getting sick from a BJ being forced, then they will do it until they have had enough. Most of those people in that industry are not in it because they think highly of themselves either. If that tells you anything. I have said it before, I've seen some bad porn before, and this is the kind of thing I was referring to. Some the porn I've seen that was "bad" abusive type wasn't even really done by like a professional video company but more along the lines of a homebased video. Some may have been from a professional company, but alot were homemade and just sent in to a internet site. I could tell you a story of a video I saw before, that involved fruit and veggies, and no it wasn't loving, nor intimate. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 This stuff has been around on the newsgroups for a few years now, mainly in the oral and facial groups, and, no, I don't like it or find it arousing. There are also 'objects' groups and scatology groups and it gets pretty bad. I'm often shocked that people will do such things, even high. Oh, well... Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 Are we going to reach a point where girls and boys think it's normal to make women choke and vomit and be punched around? Holy crap this high disturbs me. WTF is wrong with you men. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 I also forgot to mention to the OP, about your guy watching this. You said he told you he "maybe" did like it when you asked. I would take that as a yes. I mean after all, odd he was showing you that particular kind of porn unless he was into it wanted to try it out with you. I'm not saying for sure that he would, but the fact he enjoys it should say something. I would just keep your eyes and ears open, if this is something you're not into. Which by the way is a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 I would take that as a yes. I mean after all, odd he was showing you that particular kind of porn unless he was into it wanted to try it out with you. IMO, no if's and's or but's. It's so easy to click the little X to make the window go away. He likes it, or he's doing some sort of emotional mind-f*ck on the OP. When my software has mistakenly grabbed one of those videos, it lasts about 2 seconds before going back to the electron hole it came from. He likes it Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 IMO, no if's and's or but's. It's so easy to click the little X to make the window go away. He likes it, or he's doing some sort of emotional mind-f*ck on the OP. When my software has mistakenly grabbed one of those videos, it lasts about 2 seconds before going back to the electron hole it came from. He likes it Yes I agree. I'm just saying even though he likes it, doesn't mean he would try it on her, espcially since she told him what would happen if he did. Of course I think if she gave him the ok, he would in a heart beat. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 6, 2009 Author Share Posted October 6, 2009 Thanks so much for the responses. So I guess I got a few of you who don't care for that either. So how about any people that do like it. Where exactly do you draw the line in what kind of porn you will or will not watch? Link to post Share on other sites
Scottdmw Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 C. S. Lewis had a theory that would apply to this sort of thing. He basically thought that all men have two different “ideals” of women in their minds, he called it a terrestrial Venus and an infernal Venus. What he was trying to say is that there are two completely different paths a man can go down towards getting sexually interested in a woman, two paths that are not really inter-connected. One of them is what you could call the loving relationship way, where a man is interested in a woman as a whole person, wants to take care of her, is open to a relationship, marriage and family down the line. The other way is the prostitute/porn/slut way, where a man basically wants nothing but sex. The end result of these paths can look the same, in both cases the man wants sex, but his frame of mind is quite different between them and he doesn't easily switch from one to the other with a given woman. It seems to me like when a man goes the second way, that's when the power, abuse, and control become a part of the picture. To a man in that frame of mind, it is sexy to be able to abuse a woman because it indicates to him that she will continue to have sex with him no matter what he does or doesn't do. Scott Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 I use the 'other foot' test. If I was on the receiving end of a certain action, would I enjoy it? I certainly wouldn't enjoy gagging on a banana and then having someone squirt sticky cream on my face. Other's experience and preference might be different Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 6, 2009 Author Share Posted October 6, 2009 Maybe they have resentment/anger issues with their mothers or just women in general? The people who treat others in a harmful way in porn that is, or even not in porn. Maybe I should ask the guy I'm seeing if he has any hidden issues with his mother. lol! Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 .... women who are gagging, I mean like almost throwing up gagging, giving BJ's. The other thing I notice is, where men are not only smacking them in the face, but on the boobs as well. Just hit them on the boobs hard .... So is the gagging till almost throwing up, boob and face smacking the new "in" thing? How many of you men are into this? I can't watch that sort of thing, it makes me uncomfortable. No, all men are not into it. WTF is wrong with you men. Sigh. If I swat your a$$ will you ease up a little on this? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 So how about any people that do like it. Where exactly do you draw the line in what kind of porn you will or will not watch? there are no lines when it comes to quality made porn with good looking young females who will do anything for a couple thousand dollars and some cocaine Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 there are no lines when it comes to quality made porn with good looking young females who will do anything for a couple thousand dollars and some cocaine So.....you'd be ok if a girl barfed on your dick while she was sucking it? What if a really hot girl takes a dump on your chest? I always though it was an accident when women made the gagging sound in porn Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 Yeah, a steaming pile on the chest hairs would do it Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 So.....you'd be ok if a girl barfed on your dick while she was sucking it? sure why not? What if a really hot girl takes a dump on your chest? thats where i draw the line allina, no urine or feces Link to post Share on other sites
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