blugirl Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 99.9% never... but we both have hope no matter how old we get. It is a must do in our bucket list. why? how old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 You will its now 103 nearly at double figures Yes, but it's still 3 months away Somedays, the days just seem never ending. Link to post Share on other sites
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 why? how old are you? Age has nothing to do with it. The only reason is, we both are true blue soul mates and live 180 degrees apart, and marriage has its limiting factors as well. To put is nicely, when someone sees you through your shyness and shows you their true self through their own protection, and walks with you on every arduous step as we both shed what bounds each other, even if it goes beyond reason or beliefs. Even though we never touched, we feel that we have in many ways even sexually(without being intense or graphic). Many give up on a few years time of just feeling helpless to make more of a life together when all you have is separation. For us, we accept what we have as we would not be who we are without each other. Life has a broader meaning than ever before. No it was not planned, or ever could be to this level. With all that I have allowed myself to share, it is just a wee grain of sand to what we have and share. Yes, it has its moments of tugging at us, but we've grown to manage the wants. Normally I would feel to confined in my shyness and would not say as much, though not being known in anyway helps being outspoken. Your lucky I didn't go bloody bonkers with humor to hide as I normally do when sharing a touchy subject. Though I am fighting the temptation. LOL! Link to post Share on other sites
blugirl Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Age has nothing to do with it. The only reason is, we both are true blue soul mates and live 180 degrees apart, and marriage has its limiting factors as well. To put is nicely, when someone sees you through your shyness and shows you their true self through their own protection, and walks with you on every arduous step as we both shed what bounds each other, even if it goes beyond reason or beliefs. Even though we never touched, we feel that we have in many ways even sexually(without being intense or graphic). Many give up on a few years time of just feeling helpless to make more of a life together when all you have is separation. For us, we accept what we have as we would not be who we are without each other. Life has a broader meaning than ever before. No it was not planned, or ever could be to this level. With all that I have allowed myself to share, it is just a wee grain of sand to what we have and share. Yes, it has its moments of tugging at us, but we've grown to manage the wants. Normally I would feel to confined in my shyness and would not say as much, though not being known in anyway helps being outspoken. Your lucky I didn't go bloody bonkers with humor to hide as I normally do when sharing a touchy subject. Though I am fighting the temptation. LOL! Geez, I just wanted to know why can't you both meet? I'll meet my SO for the first time, after knowing each other for 5 yrs, in January, so I wanted to say, don't ever give up. At the beginning our situation also looked hopeless because we live 6000miles apart and had no money to fly over to meet but the circumstances started to change and finally it is happening, tickets booked already ^^ So maybe you shouldn't give up yet and passively accept the situation. Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 hopefully in one hundred days :( I miss him so much Link to post Share on other sites
BMN Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 52 days:'( Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 hopefully 99...i just want to book my ticket already! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amz094 Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Mines 16 days He's in London backpacking, but lives in perth WA and I'm from WA so off on holiday with him for like 5weeks, were off backpacking round the UK and Paris Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 hopefully 97...I want him to get back from his travels so we can talk and finalize the dates! ahhh this is so painful Link to post Share on other sites
Sponge_Cake Posted September 9, 2014 Share Posted September 9, 2014 9 days to go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 13, 2014 Share Posted September 13, 2014 hopefully 90...hopefully gonna talk to him today about booking a ticket! Link to post Share on other sites
lamaga Posted September 13, 2014 Share Posted September 13, 2014 143 days.. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 It's pure fantasy until you meet, you have to meet and actually spend time together to make it real. You may not have chemistry in real life. Age has nothing to do with it. The only reason is, we both are true blue soul mates and live 180 degrees apart, and marriage has its limiting factors as well. To put is nicely, when someone sees you through your shyness and shows you their true self through their own protection, and walks with you on every arduous step as we both shed what bounds each other, even if it goes beyond reason or beliefs. Even though we never touched, we feel that we have in many ways even sexually(without being intense or graphic). Many give up on a few years time of just feeling helpless to make more of a life together when all you have is separation. For us, we accept what we have as we would not be who we are without each other. Life has a broader meaning than ever before. No it was not planned, or ever could be to this level. With all that I have allowed myself to share, it is just a wee grain of sand to what we have and share. Yes, it has its moments of tugging at us, but we've grown to manage the wants. Normally I would feel to confined in my shyness and would not say as much, though not being known in anyway helps being outspoken. Your lucky I didn't go bloody bonkers with humor to hide as I normally do when sharing a touchy subject. Though I am fighting the temptation. LOL! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 89 days and finally looking to buy tickets :D 1 Link to post Share on other sites
blugirl Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 123days! Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 just booked my tickets!!! Seeing him in 84 days!! :love: Now, how to wait for 84 days... Link to post Share on other sites
josna123 Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 92 days! My Girlfriend is doing a Semester abroad in Granada, Spain, so she can complete her Spanish major! Link to post Share on other sites
Trufita Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 22 days We were going to meet in September but because of changes in our agendas we had to postpone it to October. Can't wait to see him Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 19, 2014 Share Posted September 19, 2014 82 days...could this go any slower?! Link to post Share on other sites
okc85 Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 I'm supposed to visit her in 12 days. I'm flying across the Atlantic. I'm nervous, and she doesn't seem that excited. I asked her if we could talk about the trip a few days ago. She said 'sure' but we never did. Then today I mentioned it again and she said 'don't worry about it. everything will be under control.' hrrm I feel like maybe I've made a big mistake, but I already paid for an airline ticket and hotel. So I don't know what to do. wahh. Anyone ever been in this situation? What do I do! Link to post Share on other sites
babsr Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 80 days. Almost in the 70s but still so far away Link to post Share on other sites
Shama820 Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 123days! I feel your pain! 110 more days for me...hoping that he can come back from Israel without any trouble! Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 I fly out November 14th. 54 more sleeps as they say Link to post Share on other sites
Sponge_Cake Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 Said goodbye today...I'm lucky because I'm seeing him again in 12 days. Link to post Share on other sites
K0203 Posted September 22, 2014 Share Posted September 22, 2014 56 more days Oh I just want to be with him right now Link to post Share on other sites
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