The Other Man / Woman

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I am the OM [UPDATED] 1 2 3 4 9

By GoldenAxe, October 4, 2014
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- GoldenAxe
- January 26, 2017
The withdrawal of an affair..

By luckylibra89, January 24, 2017
- 15 replies
- 3.1k views
- HeartbrokenDec29
- January 25, 2017
Will I ever be his #1? 1 2 3 4 33

By jennifernyc84, December 11, 2016
- 802 replies
- 85.6k views
- HeCantBreakMe
- January 25, 2017
It's really all about Our Selves

By confusingme, January 24, 2017
- 5 replies
- 2.1k views
- confusingme
- January 25, 2017
New Here, curious about the aftermath...

By Marshmallows1981, January 24, 2017
- 0 replies
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- Marshmallows1981
- January 24, 2017
Is my BIL attracted to me? 1 2 3 4

By Relentless1, October 26, 2016
- 80 replies
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- stillafool
- January 24, 2017
Too sad to function [UPDATED: Ebbs and Flows] 1 2 3 4 5

By FortyandForlorn, November 16, 2016
- 115 replies
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- BoaConstrictor
- January 24, 2017
Married Woman & Single Man

By personalhero, January 19, 2017
- 4 replies
- 6k views
- Jj66
- January 23, 2017
Staying Friends

By gypsilady, January 21, 2017
- 10 replies
- 1.8k views
- jennifernyc84
- January 23, 2017
Here's my story....

By Libragal2017, January 17, 2017
- 20 replies
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- Libragal2017
- January 21, 2017
Ending on good terms and going NC 1 2 3 4 6

By OWAmy, December 30, 2013
- 138 replies
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- OWAmy
- January 21, 2017
In so much pain

By cloche, December 18, 2016
- 21 replies
- 3.6k views
- minimariah
- January 19, 2017
Lighter Note: Nickname used for the W and H in the affair 1 2

By Otherist, January 18, 2017
- 30 replies
- 4.5k views
- Robert
- January 19, 2017
Will xMM try to talk to me after I exposed the affair to his BW? 1 2

By Capabletoheal, January 15, 2017
- 32 replies
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- HeCantBreakMe
- January 18, 2017
Can a Woman be a Happy Other? 1 2 3 4 5

By msoptimistic, November 23, 2016
- 107 replies
- 12.4k views
- Jersey born raised
- January 18, 2017
Should I use our affair as blackmail? 1 2

By whoiamnow, January 8, 2017
- 40 replies
- 5.7k views
- Cali408
- January 18, 2017
When does this so called "affair fog" lift?

By Rorocher, January 17, 2017
- 24 replies
- 10.1k views
- ShatteredLady
- January 18, 2017
You will survive . . . .

By CloudyHead, January 17, 2017
- 4 replies
- 1.7k views
- freengreen
- January 18, 2017
I miss him so much 1 2 3 4

By moana, January 9, 2017
- 78 replies
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- ladydesigner
- January 17, 2017
My totally messed up story 1 2

By CrazyCoach, January 3, 2017
- 45 replies
- 6k views
- trailrunner1975
- January 16, 2017
Know what I need to do but can't bring myself to do it

By smoked velveteen, January 15, 2017
- 10 replies
- 2.4k views
- sandylee1
- January 16, 2017
My EA partner of 3.5 years has been distant with me lately... 1 2

By GuessWho36, January 4, 2017
- 27 replies
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- Hopefuleddie
- January 16, 2017
Had enough 1 2

By Holly., November 20, 2016
- 26 replies
- 4.3k views
- Lady2163
- January 16, 2017
Destabilization Phase - part II 1 2 3 4 9

By Lostgirl186, November 28, 2016
- 206 replies
- 17.6k views
- William
- January 15, 2017
Now what?? [My story is 7 years long.] [UPDATE: 3 weeks no contact] 1 2 3

By Ithoughtwrong, September 19, 2016
- 62 replies
- 10.8k views
- Jersey born raised
- January 14, 2017