Well, folks - I have been wrong many times in my life but never like this. I just received a phone call from the police department where MM is attempting to file charges against me for "harrasment" if I ever contact him again!
Well we live and learn folks - we live and learn! Just to think that 6 days ago he was telling me he loved me and missed me.
Well, folks - I have been wrong many times in my life but never like this. I just received a phone call from the police department where MM is attempting to file charges against me for "harrasment" if I ever contact him again!
Well we live and learn folks - we live and learn! Just to think that 6 days ago he was telling me he loved me and missed me.
What a fool I am!
Well, you've now learned not to mess with a married man. Too many are simply on the prowl for variety. He'll probably just find another OW who knows how to "behave herself." What a douchebag this guy is.
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Well, folks - I have been wrong many times in my life but never like this. I just received a phone call from the police department where MM is attempting to file charges against me for "harrasment" if I ever contact him again!
Well we live and learn folks - we live and learn! Just to think that 6 days ago he was telling me he loved me and missed me.
What a fool I am!
WOW oh my god Kami that is SO harsh I am so so sorry to hear that, that's horrible!! Are you ok?
Guess who's behind that? There is NO way in hell he would do that on his own, think about it when a person wants to dump you because they no longer love you they would not call the police on you if you persisted on maintaining contact with them, they would just keep telling you it is over and perhaps even get firm with you until you get it.
In this case he didn't break up with you because he hates you he broke up with you because he chose to for whatever the reason my be, well guess who's behind this extreme act?
It is not his own doing, that is my hunch. But he does need you to respect his boundaries. He sounds like a selfish jerk anyway OR a spineless one, not sure what's worse.
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Well, you've now learned not to mess with a married man. Too many are simply on the prowl for variety. He'll probably just find another OW who knows how to "behave herself." What a douchebag this guy is.
WOW oh my god Kami that is SO harsh I am so so sorry to hear that, that's horrible!! Are you ok?
Guess who's behind that? There is NO way in hell he would do that on his own, think about it when a person wants to dump you because they no longer love you they would not call the police on you if you persisted on maintaining contact with them, they would just keep telling you it is over and perhaps even get firm with you until you get it.
In this case he didn't break up with you because he hates you he broke up with you because he chose to for whatever the reason my be, well guess who's behind this extreme act?
It is not his own doing, that is my hunch. But he does need you to respect his boundaries. He sounds like a selfish jerk anyway OR a spineless one, not sure what's worse.
Does not matter "who" was behind it - "he" did it! So, that speaks volumns to me! Yes, I am hurt - deeply - once again!!!! But, at least now I know where I stand - and what kind of person he is.
Does not matter "who" was behind it - "he" did it! So, that speaks volumns to me! Yes, I am hurt - deeply - once again!!!! But, at least now I know where I stand - and what kind of person he is.
Well, folks - I have been wrong many times in my life but never like this. I just received a phone call from the police department where MM is attempting to file charges against me for "harrasment" if I ever contact him again!
Well we live and learn folks - we live and learn! Just to think that 6 days ago he was telling me he loved me and missed me.
What a fool I am!
(((((hugs))))) Kami!
(hope you filed counter-charges for slander for the false accusation?)
Does not matter "who" was behind it - "he" did it! So, that speaks volumns to me! Yes, I am hurt - deeply - once again!!!! But, at least now I know where I stand - and what kind of person he is.
and you're right, in the end it doesn't really matter why or if he was pushed to do it - the bottom line is that he did it.
Just take consolation from the fact that it's very obvious he's not a happy man ( and SOMEone is "running scared" so to speak).
Remember "Everything Happens for A Reason". As hard as it may seem right now, and as much as it hurts, maybe by this happening it will make it easier for you to finally let go.
Woah, how nasty! He is the biggest scumbag! But if you can look at it this way...it might be a roundabout useful thing to you. Because...he's acted so low, he's shown what a truly pathetic loser he is, and really shown his true colours - and if you can think of that and only that every time he crosses your mind...you'll not only get over him much quicker but you'll also thank your lucky stars you never ended up with him!
Remember "Everything Happens for A Reason". As hard as it may seem right now, and as much as it hurts, maybe by this happening it will make it easier for you to finally let go.
I don't like going off topic, however the above statement cannot stand.
Saying "Everything Happens for A Reason" is just the writers way of dodging responsibility, and claiming a "higher power" is really responsible for the pain in their life. That's total bull****. The world is inhabited by six billion human beings each with their own agenda's, wants and needs. It is utter chaos. There is no Universal life force directing individual incidents in our mundane humdrum lives.
I don't like going off topic, however the above statement cannot stand.
Saying "Everything Happens for A Reason" is just the writers way of dodging responsibility, and claiming a "higher power" is really responsible for the pain in their life. That's total bull****. The world is inhabited by six billion human beings each with their own agenda's, wants and needs. It is utter chaos. There is no Universal life force directing individual incidents in our mundane humdrum lives.
I think it can stand. It's also possible that every event and action that takes place in this dimension was pre-ordained from the "beginning" and nothing can change those actions and outcomes.
Unless you have some knowledge of the "universe" before the big bang that the rest of us don't, then your post above is nothing more than one opinion...in six billion..as is mine...as is the person's you quoted.
I don't like going off topic, however the above statement cannot stand.
Saying "Everything Happens for A Reason" is just the writers way of dodging responsibility, and claiming a "higher power" is really responsible for the pain in their life. That's total bull****. The world is inhabited by six billion human beings each with their own agenda's, wants and needs. It is utter chaos. There is no Universal life force directing individual incidents in our mundane humdrum lives.
Who said anything about a "higher power". Many of us use this phrase as a way to imply that nothing happens for nothing. In this case, I meant to tell her is if he would not have done this, it would had been harder for her to move on....that's the reason.....Done by him, he is responsible and he is NO higher power!!!
And you thought just a short while ago, he was such a prize. What a steaming pile of crap I hope you have wised up, maybe his wife will too. Leave MM alone and you won't be getting charges filed against you. Look toward the future. If you don't want your H, then let him go and move on to a life you will be more fulfilled by.
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