im just wondering, from a white or black girl point of view, do you girls find asian men attractive, and would u date one? Also, what do you think is wrong with asian guys that makes u might not want to date them?
I don't find Asian men attractive in general. I think it's mostly just a physical appearance and not a cultural difference that causes this lack of attraction. They are generally shorter, more slender and not as thick as the mend I tend to find myself attractive to.
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I think some are attractive, I do prefer taller buff men, ( I am very tall) however I see alot of Asian men in my area and most of them dress VERRY Well, I like that I don't think race will have much to do with it as long as you are a gentlemen.
i used to work with an asian guy and had i not been married at the time i would have went out with him. he was very attractive and had a wonderful personality. which, like stone said, as long as your a gentleman, race doesn't have alot to do with it.
Why I believe some Asian girls only date Asian guys
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Originally Posted by UCFKevin
I wanna know why, from what I see, Asian girls usually only date Asian guys. What gives?
Asian girls usually tend to date Asian guys because from what I've heard from my Asian friends, it is easier for them because of the similarities in their culture. Not only that, but many of the Asian girls who dates Asian guys are not Americanized which means that they hold a lot of their culture within them and wants to date someone who understand where they are coming from. Besides it is easier for them to date men who are the same nationality because many Asians tend to hang out with Asians.
I myself is Asian, wasn't born here in US but I am Americanized. I dont date Asian guys and not attracted to them at all although I've tried dating several Asian men. Just because of the expectations that some Asian men has about women. To them, Asian women are there to cook and clean..much like a housewife. For me, I want someone who can support me with having a career and not looked at as someone who's responsibility is to fully care for a guy. I am much more than that. Although, I have a lot of Asian guy friends, but I would not go beyond that. I like to date outside of my race because I like to be the Asian lover in the relationship...hehehe......j/k
hey don't complain that i don't have my complete picture.. u can see my eyes hahaha
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Asian girls usually tend to date Asian guys because from what I've heard from my Asian friends, it is easier for them because of the similarities in their culture. Not only that, but many of the Asian girls who dates Asian guys are not Americanized which means that they hold a lot of their culture within them and wants to date someone who understand where they are coming from. Besides it is easier for them to date men who are the same nationality because many Asians tend to hang out with Asians.
I myself is Asian, wasn't born here in US but I am Americanized. I dont date Asian guys and not attracted to them at all although I've tried dating several Asian men. Just because of the expectations that some Asian men has about women. To them, Asian women are there to cook and clean..much like a housewife. For me, I want someone who can support me with having a career and not looked at as someone who's responsibility is to fully care for a guy. I am much more than that. Although, I have a lot of Asian guy friends, but I would not go beyond that. I like to date outside of my race because I like to be the Asian lover in the relationship...hehehe......j/k
Please do not stereo-type!!! i am from Asia too but i do not have any such stupid expectations from a GF or Wife... i want to be with a woman that is my equal or a partner... nothing more, nothing less, and enuff said
Please do not stereo-type!!! i am from Asia too but i do not have any such stupid expectations from a GF or Wife... i want to be with a woman that is my equal or a partner... nothing more, nothing less, and enuff said
I am not stereotyping...thats why I clearly stated "some Asian men" instead of just saying "Asian men" in general because I know that not every Asian men are like that althought I know for a fact and experiences that there are some Asian men out there who are like that and I also know that there are Asian men that are not like that
I think Asian/American or Asian/Spanish......some kind of mix does the trick for me. Unfortunatly I don't find Asian men all that attractive unless......they do something to make themselves appealing. I would enjoy it if an Asian man was built, a good dresser, has a firm grip on the english language you know the usual stuff.
Make yourself "unique" and you'll get my attention (visually that is). Don't walk around speaking in Asian and expect a girl to be attracted to you.
Originally posted by UCFKevin
I wanna know why, from what I see, Asian girls usually only date Asian guys. What gives?
Thatīs not true!? Never been to San Francisco? And as far as I know Asian women are supposed to have the exotic bonus. Well, I stated my opinion on this on the other thread already.....
I do! My ex H was 1/2 Japanese and 1/2 American. And gorgeous, but he knew it
also which is why he is an ex! Ex boyfriend was Puerto Rican.
There is just something about the dark hair and dark complection that just does it for me.
Is India Asian or not? If so they are some very good looking men also. There is
this one guy I now who is Indian and he dresses very nice,looks great and speaks
perfect English.
Makes my fingers itch to touch him!!
Is India Asian or not? If so they are some very good looking men also. There is this one guy I now who is Indian and he dresses very nice,looks great and speaks perfect English. Makes my fingers itch to touch him!!
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Do Girls Find Asian Guys Attractive?
I don't think race will have much to do with it as long as you are a gentlemen.
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