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Old 31st January 2018, 3:31 AM   #16
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I also think that looks are only a part of the package. For me when I look at a woman. She has to convey softness and warmth towards me at a minimum. Before I think anything more than her being the average woman.
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Old 31st January 2018, 3:39 AM   #17
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i am as attractive as a needed hyperbole in a misfit of metaphors.....deb
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Old 31st January 2018, 1:10 PM   #18
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I think I'm around a 5 if the audience is all adult men. But if you consider only ass-men, more like an 8.5. ��
This is why I love women so much. I'm one of those guys that just appreciates whatever best trait a woman has. If you have a nice ass, I'm gonna become an ass man. Nice chest? Same thing. Most women are just gorgeous in their own way.

I'm in a mood today. My GF had best be prepared tonight
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Old 31st January 2018, 1:48 PM   #19
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I don't like assigning myself a number since beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have dated a couple models and catch women checking me out, so I believe I am moderately attractive. I am confident enough to approach women, but I also understand that looks do not guarantee interest.
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Old 31st January 2018, 1:48 PM   #20
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If we are talking just looks alone, I'd give myself a 5-6, as others have posted if I could lose some of the extra weight I've acquired, I'd bump it up to a 7.5

But I also have a wicked personality and a kind soul going for me. I care deeply for other people, even those I've never met.

I'm smart, (educated and street) and well established in my career...so if I combine all those things together, I'd say I'm a solid 8
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Old 31st January 2018, 1:54 PM   #21
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I’m modest. Plus my elbows are just slightly little too pointy ....
Ha! I thought this said eyebrows and I was wondering what that meant. I was just about to come back here and quote it to say that mine are uneven. Uneven eyebrows that is. I think my elbows are fairly even . Although not identical since I had surgery on one.
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Old 31st January 2018, 3:26 PM   #22
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Ha! I thought this said eyebrows and I was wondering what that meant. I was just about to come back here and quote it to say that mine are uneven. Uneven eyebrows that is. I think my elbows are fairly even . Although not identical since I had surgery on one.
The pointy elbows comment is an Internet thing.

http://https://www.urbandictionary.c...20Too%20Pointy
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Old 31st January 2018, 3:33 PM   #23
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Ha! I thought this said eyebrows and I was wondering what that meant. I was just about to come back here and quote it to say that mine are uneven. Uneven eyebrows that is. I think my elbows are fairly even . Although not identical since I had surgery on one.
Haha I know that feeling. Gotta remind myself “they are sisters, not twins!” :P

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Old 31st January 2018, 3:49 PM   #24
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Haha I know that feeling. Gotta remind myself “they are sisters, not twins!” :P
But I AM a twin so I get doubly confused about it!
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Old 31st January 2018, 3:59 PM   #25
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You know.... I don't know how attractive I am. I am honestly confused by it.

I always considered myself an ugly duckling, and in high school I was definitely not cute. I was the smart one, my sister (who cares very little resemblance to me!) was the pretty one.

These days, I don't know. I can enter a room and turn heads if I am really feeling myself (seriously, the way you carry yourself makes a difference), and other days I feel average (5) at best.

Most of the time if someone says I am pretty, I figure they are just trying to get in my pants.

But there are two instances that happened recently that stand out to me:

Husband and I were out having dinner - and a woman at a table next to us, leaned over and said "she is beautiful" to my husband.

And another time, again out, a man told my husband "you really know how to pick them, she is gorgeous".

So.... I don't know. Were they just really kind strangers? Swingers? Or did I really look that good those nights?
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Old 31st January 2018, 4:13 PM   #26
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I look at attraction like this. How one grooms themselves/Dress style, fitness level.

So grooming I am 10 out of 10. Dress style a 10. Fitness. I am about an 8.

So that is a total of 28 divided by 3 = 9.3. So I am 9 in looks. If I can control my eating a little more and loose more weight. I think I will top out of 9 in looks. I am 207 lbs and I should be 180/190 lbs. something like that.
So God given beauty isn't part of the equation for you? I would give facial structure at least 5 points and the other things together form the remaining points.
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Old 31st January 2018, 4:15 PM   #27
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You know.... I don't know how attractive I am. I am honestly confused by it.
Likewise. I wouldn't begin to know how to rate myself. When I look in the mirror, I just see me.
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Old 31st January 2018, 4:36 PM   #28
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So God given beauty isn't part of the equation for you? I would give facial structure at least 5 points and the other things together form the remaining points.
Considering he admitted he's at least 20 lbs more than desired, yet still gave himself an "8" for fitness should tell you something about the veracity of the rating.

Food for thought for all the guys out there: https://www.google.com/search?ei=xSl....0.j3lXx1U9pM0
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Old 31st January 2018, 4:39 PM   #29
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So God given beauty isn't part of the equation for you? I would give facial structure at least 5 points and the other things together form the remaining points.
Basil I would agree with you. Have you ever seen

The Human Face BBC Documentry With John Clees and Elizabeth Hurley.

I am a big face person. That is the one thing that I focus on besides personality when I date.
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Old 31st January 2018, 4:45 PM   #30
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Basil I would agree with you. Have you ever seen

The Human Face BBC Documentry With John Clees and Elizabeth Hurley.

I am a big face person. That is the one thing that I focus on besides personality when I date.
I don't focus on face when I've dated because physical beauty isn't important to me in a partner.

But for raw considerations of attractiveness, facial attractiveness is really high in the numbers.
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