Prudence Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 Is that 4 years since you've had sex in dog years or people years ? Prudence, I don't think that there is any such thing as a non-sexual person (LoveShack post counts notwithstanding). But I do that that there are people that don't know HOW to be sexual, that have not yet discovered that side. And so I'd second the recommendations for counseling... Mr. Lucky Thanks, Mr. Lucky. That's quite possibly very true. I'm hoping to get us into marriage counseling. I'm meeting with the counselor first by myself since my husband can't make it. But he will. You sound very wise! Link to post Share on other sites
Prudence Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 i'm going to live with my mother until i die :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author Storyrider Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 i'm going to live with my mother until i die :lmao: Yeah, he goads me into spilling my guts and that is all the response I get. I guess I scared him! Don't worry, Mark. I'm sure whatever woman you end up with won't be stricken with my particular brand of neuroses. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 Yeah, he goads me into spilling my guts and that is all the response I get. I guess I scared him! Don't worry, Mark. I'm sure whatever woman you end up with won't be stricken with my particular brand of neuroses. Everyone has your particular brand of neurosis, including me and probably including your husband. Like I said we're all superficial to a degree. What happens is we end up settling for what we think is the best option at the time and often one partner will get the better deal of the two in terms of physical attraction and it's understood on some subtle level. I think this fact may cause resentment in one or both of the two partners. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 Everyone has your particular brand of neurosis, including me and probably including your husband. I love your definition of everyone. I've often thought it was far too inclusive. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I love your definition of everyone. I've often thought it was far too inclusive.okay by everyone i mean me Link to post Share on other sites
Author Storyrider Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 Everyone has your particular brand of neurosis, including me and probably including your husband. Like I said we're all superficial to a degree. What happens is we end up settling for what we think is the best option at the time and often one partner will get the better deal of the two in terms of physical attraction and it's understood on some subtle level. I think this fact may cause resentment in one or both of the two partners. I guess that pretty much sums it up. What an imperfect world we live in. I wonder why we are built to seek perfect fulfillment in a mate, why our human imaginations strive toward that, if the reality is we can't achieve it. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I guess that pretty much sums it up. Why does he always get to be right? It's not fair to be able to tender such insight when you can't even get your own sh*t together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Storyrider Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 I love your definition of everyone. I've often thought it was far too inclusive. Always penetrating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Storyrider Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 Why does he always get to be right? It's not fair to be able to tender such insight when you can't even get your own sh*t together. I'm just giving him positive reinforcement because he posted something thoughtful on my thread. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I'm just giving him positive reinforcement because he posted something thoughtful on my thread. I hope I haven't scared him off. I was probably just a bit jealous. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I hope I haven't scared him off. I was probably just a bit jealous.no, i just dont have anything much to say. she's asking one of two questions: 1)is it possible to find passion in her marriage 2)is it possible to find satisfaction and happiness in a marriage which will never be passionate i'm not sure, but i think it's the second. ultimately only she can answer that for herself. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 Mr. Lucky, There IS such a thing as a non-sexual person. Millions as a matter-of-fact. We identify ourselves as ASEXUAL. Asexual is an orientation just like hetero, homo, and bi. It means not experiencing sexual attraction to another person. For more info please go to: www.asexuality.org Thanks! From the other sidewould you guys consider having ed as being asexual? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Storyrider Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 would you guys consider having ed as being asexual? Are you asking asexual girl, or me? Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 im asking you or anyone for that matter Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 would you guys consider having ed as being asexual? I don't think so. In their case (with all due respect) it's like having too many dicks (or an extra dick), and in the ed case, it's like not having enough dicks (or at least one dick that works properly). I hope there is a pill, or a new vascular surgery technique, soon. Until then I'm sure you can do a half-arsed job. I thrive on that sort of approach. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I don't think so. In their case (with all due respect) it's like having too many dicks (or an extra dick), and in the ed case, it's like not having enough dicks (or at least one dick that works properly). I hope there is a pill, or a new vascular surgery technique, soon. Until then I'm sure you can do a half-arsed job. I thrive on that sort of approach.well viagra and cialis work, but it's still not like it used to be Link to post Share on other sites
Author Storyrider Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 im asking you or anyone for that matter No, I don't believe your ed makes you asexual. I'm pretty sure I don't believe in asexuality as some kind of a sexual preference. It could be a descriptive term in a loose sense, but I don't think it describes you. You talk about sex a lot. It seems to be of interest to you. I guess your penis is just not cooperating lately? Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 would you guys consider having ed as being asexual? Nope. With ed, the spirit is willing, but the works just aren't getting with the program. Asexual is having no interest in doing anything with the works, which would function if the spirit were willing. I consider myself asportal. I have no interest in playing team sports. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I consider myself asportal. I have no interest in playing team sports. Nice try, but I think we all enjoy the occasional rugby scrum. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 You talk about sex a lot. I think he's obsessed. I also note that his profile pic used to be horizontal. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Storyrider Posted February 24, 2007 Author Share Posted February 24, 2007 I also note that his profile pic used to be horizontal. That is from computer disfunction. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 That is from computer disfunction. Maybe it spread from there to his peripherals. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 I think he's obsessed. I also note that his profile pic used to be horizontal. so maybe there's some kind of subconscious symbolism. i am obsessed with sex, yes, but i'm not the only one Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 Maybe it spread from there to his peripherals. are you saying this is the result of some type of insiduous computer virus unleashed by a terrorist celibacy cult Link to post Share on other sites
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