AHIWON Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 Wow dgiirl, you have been thru a lot and come a long way. For him to do what he did on v-day is heartless, sounds like something my SO would have done. First time I've seen your thread so of course I had to read the whole thing. Very inspirational. I'm so happy for you! Keep shining.
Author dgiirl Posted March 21, 2007 Author Posted March 21, 2007 PW, he knows the situation And I think he's respecting it too. Instead of calling me, he's been emailing me the past few days. It's such a pleasant surprise to come home from work and see his email in my mailbox LJ, thank you so much! You have always helped me keep the faith that I will get past my ex and one day I will meet someone worth while. It's way way too early to tell if this guy is the one, but I definitely do have faith now that it will happen sooner or later. AHIWon, if you read my whole thread then I feel i must appologize for any irrational incoherent posts lol But thank you for reading it and thank you for your comments. Knowing that I can help people by sharing my story helps me tremendously. It makes all the pain worth it.
Gunny376 Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 Ok! Your life is going great! You've got a new job, a new apartment, a new TV, a new love interest, move along! Don't be selfish! Shooooo! Go post on the dating fourmn now! Shoooo! Shoooo! Shooo! Get off of the broken heart fourmn! You don't belong here any longer! Shooo! Shoooo! Shoooo! Or as we say down here in Alabama ~ "GETONAWAYFROMHERENOW ~ YA HEAR!" (Said as one word and in one breath!!!!) :lmao: :lmao: Glad to hear things are going well for you ~ and I knew that they would! :love: Guns!
CryingCanuck Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 D's smitten, D's got a beau. D's in luooovvvveee I'm so happy for you T, you know you deserve all the happiness that life has to offer you and you just go at your own speed, the guy sounds like he likes you too and he's showing he also has something you missed in your last relationship... C L A S S I forget to check these threads these days not because I don't care, but more because I simply forget...... Please forgive my late Congrats to you T. Man-O-Man a smile upon my face you have put..... Your buddy from the banana belt..... Dat's meee CC
Author dgiirl Posted March 23, 2007 Author Posted March 23, 2007 lol Gunny, please dont kick me out of this group just yet!!! I love this group, and perhaps I'm not in the brink as I use to be but I still feel closer to this group than any other forum Thanks CC It's definitely not love just yet, but it's nice to feel all infatuated and caught up in a crush One step at a time, and this is the first guy I've met so far that is going slow enough for me to get a hold of my anxiety and nervousness. I hope things are ok with you and glad to see you're still around
Gunny376 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Nothing but love! Nothing but love! :love: :love: :love: For you!
magichands Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Nothing but love! Nothing but love! :love: :love: :love: For you! What about sex? Or is that just a messy kind of love?
Gunny376 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 :love: Sorry! Just love admiration, respect, amd pure :love: frion one human being to another! The XXX flix is down the hall to the right!
magichands Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Fair enough. I've always thought that sex is overrated, anyway.
CryingCanuck Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 We do NOT ask about sex...... that is a private matter and I for one would never want to know the total private intimate life of our buddy Dgirl, gee she's like a sister now.. and heck... She's just trying to get over anxiety of dating for hell's sake.... D, take the time you need hun, you know if this guy is worth anything he'll work WITH you regarding your fears ( which BTW are totally normal) And he'll respect your feelings regarding whatever else...... CC I love coming to the defence of such a sweet person, makes me think I'm OK :-)
AHIWON Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Dgiirl is strong, she can fend for herself. She has shared so much of her deepest feelings here, I doubt she has any inhibitions with any topic and can handle it diplomatically. Just watch. Strong and admirable woman indeed she is. I will always have her back if she needs it. I have a feeling I'll never have to but if she needs help.......
Gunny376 Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 I don't how I got tangled up with sex and Dgirl? (Where did that come from? ~ I'll be 50 next month?) I've got a lot of admirtation, respect for her, and her wisdom? But, that holds true for you CC, ilmw, Perry, Chad, LJ, AlphaMale, Rooster and too many others to list! Even if I ~ her so incline, it'd never work! I'm from Alabama She's from Canada! She'd melt in the sweltering heat of our summers here! :lmao: (Somedays heat index = 110+ humidity)
Gunny376 Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 We do NOT ask about sex...... that is a private matter and I for one would never want to know the total private intimate life of our buddy Dgirl, gee she's like a sister now.. and heck... She's just trying to get over anxiety of dating for hell's sake.... D, take the time you need hun, you know if this guy is worth anything he'll work WITH you regarding your fears ( which BTW are totally normal) And he'll respect your feelings regarding whatever else...... CC I love coming to the defence of such a sweet person, makes me think I'm OK :-) Dgril to me is like a grown daughter ~ DON'T MAKE ME HAVE TO WALK TALL ON YOUR AZZ WITH A HICKROY AX HANDLE! IT WON'T BE PRETTY, AND IT WON'T BE NICE! And,..................... it won't be FUN for you! When I'm done with you, all we're going to need is a preacher, a undertaker, a mop and a bucket of hot bleach water!
magichands Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 I love coming to the defence of such a sweet person, makes me think I'm OK :-) That's beautiful. But I'm still horny.
Gunny376 Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 And, I'm not sweating it ~ cause CC's got my back!
magichands Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 Dgril She's your fat free alternative to frying.
Author dgiirl Posted March 24, 2007 Author Posted March 24, 2007 Thanks for the support guys Magic is mostly harmless and sometimes humourous and I've already mentioned to him that some topics are a little more sensitive in this forum than others. I know he's just joking around and it's all in good fun I also know that if/when that situation really does happen I'm going to be a really nervous wreck of a person so I really appreciate the support from the others too. I'm already really nervous about just dating and getting to know someone, let alone becoming intimate with someone again. That will definitely be hard for me, especially since I feel very vulnerable and insecure about opening myself up to someone. My ex has definitely played a number on my head in that department, so I dont want to worry about that for now. But like you guys said, if he's worth it, he'll work with me on it.
magichands Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 Magic is mostly harmless and sometimes humourous I get that a lot. Well, sometimes. I'm already really nervous about just dating and getting to know someone, let alone becoming intimate with someone again. That will definitely be hard for me, And hopefully it will be hard for him, too. I think things will fall into place. Sure, everyone deserves happiness, but I think you deserve it a little bit more. That you have so many supporters says something about you. I wish I knew what.
ilmw Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 And hopefully it will be hard for him, too. Ummm I'm not even going to touch that one... ohh.. umm I'll just shut up now... I think things will fall into place. Sure, everyone deserves happiness, but I think you deserve it a little bit more. That you have so many supporters says something about you. I wish I knew what. Yup.. she has a deep fan base.... and following of groupies.
Author dgiirl Posted March 25, 2007 Author Posted March 25, 2007 That you have so many supporters says something about you. I dont think I could ever truely explain how much the support means to me. As you all know some of my story, you know the very hurtful things my ex said to me as he walked out my life. And I was so depressed at the time that I believed him. But I've met such amazing people throughout this experience who have all been truely supportive and it really helps to know that my ex was wrong and that I'm a good person because there are good people in my life now!
Touche Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 You have so many supporters because you are really an inspiration...and a real "survivor" in this battle we call life. I wish I had known about this place when I went through my divorce.
CryingCanuck Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Touche :: You have so many supporters because you are really an inspiration...and a real "survivor" in this battle we call life. I wish I had known about this place when I went through my divorce Touche on that one.......... Hey Gunny, I'll always watch your back buddy.... I would never argue with someone else taking the point LOL......... Ummm I'm not even going to touch that one... ohh.. umm I'll just shut up now... ILMY No sheit bud.. there are just some things us guys should never touch, especially on someone else's thread and especailly if she's of the Y chromozone type..... I remember George Burns once when asked how he has lived so long, and he came back with " I want to stay alive long enogh to find out who get's to sleep with Brooke Shields" Gawd are we going there ???
Author dgiirl Posted March 31, 2007 Author Posted March 31, 2007 You have so many supporters because you are really an inspiration...and a real "survivor" in this battle we call life. Thanks Touche! I really appreciate that! I dont have much more to comment on, but I do think the feelings are being reciprocated. Last weekend we spent a lot of time together and he's become a lot more playful with me. Some of the people in the group have noticed. He's called me a few times this week, and we're suppose to hang out this weekend. I feel like a nervous highschool girl. I'm having fun tho The weird thing is, when I'm away from him, my anxieties get the best of me. But when I'm around him, I feel really comfortable and relaxed.
AHIWON Posted March 31, 2007 Posted March 31, 2007 Awesome dgiirl!!! Put a great big smile on my face!
Gunny376 Posted March 31, 2007 Posted March 31, 2007 Hey Gunny, I'll always watch your back buddy.... I would never argue with someone else taking the point LOL......... Only someone's that's truly ever been on the razor's edge could ~ would say that!
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