933KJL Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 AC you can go back. The key is will you be successful. Most of these are surperfulous (did I spell that right?) and will be tossed out, Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 woggle, look for reference to "crews vs. crews" in the wording of the alimony specifications. this will prevent her from receiving, even if you were to hit a big jackpot at the casino. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted March 28, 2006 Author Share Posted March 28, 2006 woggle, look for reference to "crews vs. crews" in the wording of the alimony specifications. this will prevent her from receiving, even if you were to hit a big jackpot at the casino. That is another issue. After the divorce I finished my masters, got a great career and made very good money playing the stock market so she claims I owe her some of that. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 So this probably all came up because you are engaged? You need to get the police involved if the threats are recent or continue. I certainly would not divulge any info on your wedding plans to either party. They sound sick and stupid enough to crash it. Get a restraining order if need be on both of them. Jersey chicks are crazy? That is what my H told me...... Link to post Share on other sites
climbergirl Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 That is another issue. After the divorce I finished my masters, got a great career and made very good money playing the stock market so she claims I owe her some of that. I think the keyword here is After..........Now if you lied during the divorce when disclosing assets, then she could claim fraud. I don't think your ex has a snowballs chance in hell. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted March 28, 2006 Author Share Posted March 28, 2006 So this probably all came up because you are engaged? You need to get the police involved if the threats are recent or continue. I certainly would not divulge any info on your wedding plans to either party. They sound sick and stupid enough to crash it. Get a restraining order if need be on both of them. Jersey chicks are crazy? That is what my H told me...... They don't know that we will be having the wedding in San Francisco so they will be looking all over NJ while we will be all the way on the side of the country. Maybe it is Jersey chicks. My fiance grew up in San Francisco so maybe that is why she is not crazy. Lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Like that was already mentioned.. If she waived Alimony then she can not petition the court to award it... If the issue was left open then she can try.. but will fail because of the time frame since you've been divorced Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Jersey chicks are crazy? That is what my H told me...... possibly. we don't tolerate fat, critical, controlling guys i consider the source. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 From Divorce net ( New Jersey Law ) Can a person request alimony after the divorce is over? In many divorces, neither party receives any alimony. This is because the dependent spouse has sufficient income to support herself, and maintain a reasonable standard of living. However, unforeseen circumstances may change after the divorce to justify alimony. (ie, serious illness and an inability to work) In cases such as these, the sick spouse will file an application for alimony even though the judgment of divorce does not provide for any. If the case has merit, then the court will set a plenary hearing to determine if an award of alimony should be made. This type of hearing is also called a Lepis hearing. The court will examine the financial situation of both parties, the standard of living enjoyed during the marriage, the sick spouse's current prognosis, and any other relevant factor. http://www.divorcenet.com/states/new_jersey/new_jersey_alimony_part_1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 They are full of crap and just trying to pull your chain I believe. That's how crazy people act. My mom once told me she was going to take me to court for grandparents rights. Ummmmm, okay mom, that's a great idea so that all about your sexually abusive husband can come out in court?? That shut her up. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 From Divorce net ( New Jersey Law ) This type of hearing is also called a Lepis hearing. The court will examine the financial situation of both parties, the standard of living enjoyed during the marriage, the sick spouse's current prognosis, and any other relevant factor. but if "crews vs. crews" was addressed, this will have no merit, as was explained to me by my lawyer. Link to post Share on other sites
BeFree Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Woggle, This is a discrace. I can not believe this in happening. She will get no where in court. I highly doubt she will even find a lawyer who will take the case. I think they both must know you are happy. Maybe it's time to move to San Fran. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 possibly. we don't tolerate fat, critical, controlling guys i consider the source. who is fat? Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 who is fat? okay maybe not fat...just 40 lbs overweight. better? Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 OK, record the messages on a tape, and also keep them on the machine. Go to the courthouse and get a temporary protective order (or whatever it's called, they give it to you right away) -- and then you'll be heard in court to get a restraining order. If I were you, I would get a restraining order against my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 okay maybe not fat...just 40 lbs overweight. better? Hell lady quit showin your jersey side.. ... just kiddin. My H has a 6 pack ab's...... hot hot hot hot! Could gain a LB or two. Far from controlling.....hell wish he was a little more jealous/controlling. and never critical of me, just on projects we work on. Now you can PM me insults but don't want to take over Woggles thread. Damn guess the H was right Sorry Woggle. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Hell lady quit showin your jersey side.. ... just kiddin. My H has a 6 pack ab's...... hot hot hot hot! Could gain a LB or two. Far from controlling.....hell wish he was a little more jealous/controlling. and never critical of me, just on projects we work on. Now you can PM me insults but don't want to take over Woggles thread. Damn guess the H was right Sorry Woggle. seems to me you contradict yourself lady with your griping post about what happens after i do. maybe we are a little on the "wild" side, but at least we don't lie about it. sorry w. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 but if "crews vs. crews" was addressed, this will have no merit, as was explained to me by my lawyer. I think in your case your attorney was covering your butt with case law specific to your case.. http://www.divorcesource.com/NJ/ARTICLES/jessani13.html I don't think it applies to Woggle Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 That is another issue. After the divorce I finished my masters, got a great career and made very good money playing the stock market so she claims I owe her some of that. Woggle, I think my ex and your ex should get together.He always tries to get advance child support (last eek he asked for 5 K in advance cp) He thinks he should get some of my s/o's income too.And insisted I get my aunt with money to send him some too.... :lmao: I doubt she can take you back to court , It will be clear she's just doing this b/c your getting married again. What a schmuck. Link to post Share on other sites
Kenyth Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 You can sue anyone for anything you want. Whether you win or not is a totally different situation. Personally, I'd answer these calls with a restraining order against BOTH of them. Let any further communication go through your lawyer only. You don't need this crap. It's jealousy, plain and simple. Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 ... I still have the answering machine messages where she isthreatening to kill me and boil my cat. I think it is time for the cops to hear them. So what are you waiting for? Link to post Share on other sites
MusicWoman Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Your ex has already, just by even TELLING you that shes gonna do this...has gone way over the line. You really need to call the police and have this documented..and make copies of the tape from the answering machine. If you really do have to go to court, your going to need this for evidence proving.....that shes a crazy b**** Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 If she hurts the kitty, I will hunt her down. I swear. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 Oh yeah she also claims that I am brainwashing the cat against her. Now you see what type of woman I am dealing with. The reason she is hanging out with my mother is because she claims she is becoming a feminist. My oppression of her has opened her eyes up to the patriarchy. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Oh yeah she also claims that I am brainwashing the cat against her. Now you see what type of woman I am dealing with. The reason she is hanging out with my mother is because she claims she is becoming a feminist. My oppression of her has opened her eyes up to the patriarchy. Becoming a feminist More like becoming more a delusional She Beast. Damn Woggle what the hell is up with the cat..... does she have visitation rights with the cat? Why should she care? LMAO! May I ask how long ago did your divorce from the She Beast become final? Link to post Share on other sites
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