do I need to be more patient?

[Els]

20 hours ago, Chicken Dinner said:

don't subscribe to that type of feminist ideology -- it's the man's job to this or that. Feminists only seem to believe in theories about gender roles when it works for them. If I had come on here and said that it's the woman's job to do the cooking and cleaning, there'd be an uproar and gaslighting.  

Oh for chrissakes. That's like saying that a man is being sexist for expecting his wife to carry the child when they both want biological kids instead of getting a uterus transplant and doing it himself, isn't it? 🙄 The fact is that no gender is "inherently better" at cooking or cleaning, but bodies that were born male are generally physically stronger, and bodies that were born male are generally unable to carry a pregnancy. Not in all cases, but in the majority. Acknowledging those physical differences has nothing whatsoever to do with gender roles or feminism.

Also, just so you know, you're the only person dissing men here. Nobody in this thread other than you seems to think that being born with a penis automatically makes someone incapable of doing kind things for their partner without being asked.

 

Edited Monday at 03:07 PM by Els