Outcast Posted March 3, 2006 Share Posted March 3, 2006 Way to go, Toni! You've come a long way Link to post Share on other sites
Toni_no12002 Posted March 3, 2006 Share Posted March 3, 2006 lol thankyou ive come to my senses. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest44 Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 If you are special enough to him, your man is not going to be gawking at every woman that passes him by. He will know that looks aren't everything and your love is most important. It's natural to look at people, but when you start thinking of having sex with numerous women you see WHEN OUT WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND, it gets disgusting. These men eventually will probably cheat anyways cause they are letting their desires control them. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest44 Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 If he has respect for you, he's not going to let other women know he's interested in them. I have enough respect for our relationship and love for him, to NOT let myself be interested and staring in others. I pretty much close all men off to myself when I'm in a relationship. "INSTINCT" "BIOLOGY" or not... rubbish.... you people act like all humans have are primitive brains, when we have so much more than that. Like we can't suppress urges any more than animals can! LOL You can control yourself! You can control yourself from killing someone, fighting someone, raping someone, having sex for a period of time, cheating, addictions etc.. Anyways, stop making excuses for disrespecting your women and making them feel like crap just to satisfy your needs or validate yourself! Link to post Share on other sites
Toni_no12002 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Men are just as jelous as women.They get jelous when we think someones better looking than them.Its just they dont obssess over it like women do. When i used to go out with my boyfriend i used to watch his eyes constantly to see where he was looking.If he even glimpsed at another women id feel so hurt.It went like that for a while.Now ive decided that when we go out ill just look where im going act normal instead of obsessing over what hes looking at. Now and then if theres a really good looking guy ill look.Not stare but look.My bloke notices and gives me a funny look but hey if he can do it so can i lol.Also if men look at me like he does other women it annoys him. May sound nasty but i actually like it.It makes me feel better about myself that other people still think im attractive and also it shows that my man gets jelous over it. I was wondering would men get more jelous that there gf was looking another bloke or that another bloke was looking there gf? I would have thought men would have got i little jelous if men was paying attention to there gfs. Link to post Share on other sites
filarena Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Absolutely be more jealous about her looking than another guy looking at her. She can't help that. Of course, it depends on her reaction. If you've got another guy looking at her, and her looking back...yeah, that would be very fun. One time at a party, several guys were hitting on my gf right in front of my face. One she found very offensive. I wasn't at all jealous about that, in fact I felt bad for her. Another she was all buddy, buddy with (claiming she didn't realize he was flirting.) I tried to be mature about it and said nothing, choosing to trust her. The funny thing was when this guy's older brother, who was sitting right there, told me what a great boyfriend I am for not caring that his brother was hitting on my girlfriend...and then when I left to get a drink, he told my girlfriend she didn't deserve me. Which was totally not his place to say, but then she cries to me about what an assh*le this guy is and why can't he be nice like his brother... Link to post Share on other sites
Toni_no12002 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Well at least we know that men get a little jelous too Link to post Share on other sites
ali0812 Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 That is great! I love it! I completely love my bf friend and I expect him not to look at porn, and I have no problem with him thinking a woman is beautiful, it is when it becomes a sexual thing that it bothers me. I know that I think men are good looking but sex doesn't even cross my mind. I want the same thing from him, he can say "she is good looking" but lusting even with no intent to pursue should not be involved in viewing something beautiful. I don't look at a car or painting and think "wow I want to have sex with that" I look at the beauty. THAT is exactly how I feel. I dont care about talking to my boyfriend about who is gorgeous or whatever like that, but when you start fantasizing or wanting that person sexuallly, that crosses the line! I guess somehow guys completely separate sex and love....There are so many hot guys out there, I am always attracted to guys in uniform and where I work I always see a lot of them... but my boyfriend is the only one I would want to be with sexually, and sex with any other guy has never crossed my mind. So why do guys think its ok for them to? Link to post Share on other sites
MadDog Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 One time at a party, several guys were hitting on my gf right in front of my face. How can you sit there & let that happen? They must have not respected your ability to kick ass at all. That blows. Link to post Share on other sites
guest Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 thanks for all your comments you have all wrote ive taken a great deal in reading them to help me understand that all men look at other women and vice versa i cant help the fact but think that my bf thinks more i know he dosent tho and ur right when your out with ur partner instead of watchin were his eyes go jus be focused on what your doing thanks again im going to try this before i ruin my relationship with my constant jelousy not going to be easy thanks again to u all Link to post Share on other sites
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