Lisa Posted August 8 Senior Moderators Share Posted August 8 @lilac_1337fjf and @joeyyxo are the same member. The thread will continue under the former username 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted August 8 Share Posted August 8 Girl, what the hell? This guy has been playing both you are your friend. He's been sleeping with you both and loving it. You and your friend need a serious talk because he's going to keep flipping between you unless you both stop it. This is so unhealthy it's unbelievable. Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted August 8 Share Posted August 8 Part of the allure is also that this man has another woman vying for his attention. I've had that happen before, where I wasn't necessarily interested in someone and then when I found out that someone else was interested in them, it sparked my interest too. I think that's a natural part of human psychology as we tend to be drawn to things and people that appear to be 'in demand'. But, at the end of the day, it's up to you to decide whether this man is worth pursuing and investing your time and energy. And he sounds like a cad. Sleeping with you both? Red flag -- RUN! Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted August 8 Share Posted August 8 (edited) You contradict yourself a lot. you said you went to school not wanting to be serious with anyone. Then you majorly complicated it by seeing two guys. ho to your original plan and don’t see either one. Focus on your school work. You said that’s what you’re there for. Never stay with any guy that always wants to argue! Edited August 8 by S2B 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 8 Share Posted August 8 15 hours ago, joeyyxo said: .I already know what an idiot we both are because he’s a cheater and we’re basically enabling him because we keep taking him back at different times. Are you all at the same university? It fine to date, have childhood friends, etc. However broaden your horizons. There are probably a lot of fine young men on campus so you two don't have to share one. , Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 8 Share Posted August 8 8 hours ago, JTSW said: You and your friend need a serious talk because he's going to keep flipping between you unless you both stop it. Yep, and in the end he will not chose either of you but a new girl. Get out now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxcazaxx Posted August 15 Share Posted August 15 (edited) If you really liked either of them then you wouldnt be thinking of someone else Edited August 15 by xxcazaxx delete Link to post Share on other sites
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