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@lilac_1337fjf and @joeyyxo are the same member.  The thread will continue under the former username

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Girl, what the hell?

This guy has been playing both you are your friend.

He's been sleeping with you both and loving it.

You and your friend need a serious talk because he's going to keep flipping between you unless you both stop it.

This is so unhealthy it's unbelievable.

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Part of the allure is also that this man has another woman vying for his attention. I've had that happen before, where I wasn't necessarily interested in someone and then when I found out that someone else was interested in them, it sparked my interest too. I think that's a natural part of human psychology as we tend to be drawn to things and people that appear to be 'in demand'. But, at the end of the day, it's up to you to decide whether this man is worth pursuing and investing your time and energy. And he sounds like a cad. Sleeping with you both? Red flag -- RUN!

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15 hours ago, joeyyxo said:

.I already know what an idiot we both are because he’s a cheater and we’re basically enabling him because we keep taking him back at different times.

Are you all at the same university? It fine to date, have childhood friends, etc. However broaden your horizons. There are probably a lot of fine young men on campus so you two don't have to share one. 

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8 hours ago, JTSW said:

You and your friend need a serious talk because he's going to keep flipping between you unless you both stop it.

Yep, and in the end he will not chose either of you but a new girl.  Get out now.

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If you really liked either of them then you wouldnt be thinking of someone else

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