Wiseman2 Posted July 15, 2022 Posted July 15, 2022 7 minutes ago, Helicon5 said: Her and I are supposed to go out to dinner with just him later. Ok, then go whether the wife goes or not. After all you were previously complaining that you don't meet her friends or bandmates, so no she is offering that. 2
flitzanu Posted July 15, 2022 Posted July 15, 2022 i'm just making a wild guess, but maybe he wants to meet up because they are friends and haven't seen each other in 7 years and want to catch up 1
poppyfields Posted July 15, 2022 Posted July 15, 2022 (edited) 8 hours ago, Helicon5 said: My gf is a very attractive, petite blonde. You mention this in every thread you create. May I ask why? If I were to hazard a guess and based on your previous threads, it's because you feel jealous and threatened by every man she encounters no matter how casually. You need to get a handle on your insecurity otherwise you WILL lose her. Go to dinner, have fun, enjoy, be happy. Edited July 15, 2022 by poppyfields 1
Alpacalia Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 (edited) Interestingly, your girlfriend complained about a past relationship that resembles your current one with her, and you appear to have fallen into the same pattern (i.e. jealous, mistrustful). In the future, as long as he hasn't behaving inappropriately towards her, go out with him and relax a little bit and you will be fine. Edited July 16, 2022 by Alpacalia
basil67 Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 With the band member, you were mistrusting because you'd never met him. But now you have an opportunity to meet this old friend - and accompany her - and you're still mistrusting. Is jealousy and mistrust an issue which has plagued you in previous relationships? 1
ExpatInItaly Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 Do you tend to look for problems in your relationships, OP?
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