Honest_Interest Posted June 2, 2020 Posted June 2, 2020 I dont know if your still checking in PinDrop but we're all wondering how you are travelling with all of this 1
DrGroovy88 Posted July 11, 2020 Posted July 11, 2020 Hi PinDrop...just thinking about you and hoping things are ok. I’m a couple years out and it still breaks my heart to think about - so checking in to see if you’re needing anything. Take care
merrmeade Posted July 13, 2020 Posted July 13, 2020 (edited) I just discovered this thread most of which is several months old. The topic starter has not been back, only concerned citizens. At first, after reading, I just thought What a story! —handsome, successful doctor/researcher; wife on drugs; chance discovery of tawdry sex caught on security camera; porn star stock character replete with tattoos, 7-pack and supernatural cock; gorgeous PA with unrequited attraction to BS , wife’s lack of family/BS’s Decision to rescue and take her to Europe for treatment. Then there were the interest/credibility elements - wife’s meth-addled brain (least convincing factor btw), author’s extraordinary writing and assimilation of infidelity psychology. I thought we had a hoax. A good one, maybe even a really good, successful, writer who does his research, walking himself through the plot for authenticity. But then I realized anyone could’ve said the same thing about my story — post bone marrow transplant husband/WS, left alone in family cabin in the woods by BS living abroad, cheats with wife of BS’s quadriplegic brother, confined to nursing home following massive stroke, while ostensibly helping sister-in-law, kids and BS’s dad. Who could fault skepticism of that??? Beside it’s a trauma I wouldn’t disrespect for any reason. So I’ll believe and ask to know more. What happened in Europe, Pin? Is the wife still out, no chance of reconciliation? PA still in the picture? That said, here’s my two cents: THAT glimmer of “remorse“ was way too soon, not credible, not trustworthy. Remorse takes years—full on, self-effacing humility graced with palpable empathy, maintained by self-knowledge. Nothing less. Then maybe forgive and trust if you still care. Edited July 13, 2020 by merrmeade 3
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