ladydesigner Posted November 20, 2018 Posted November 20, 2018 But also know that my W is hellbent on keeping me. She takes great pride in the fact that our M is still going.. Because she doesn't know WHO she is really married to... or maybe she is like me and stays for the financial situation, stability for the kids, and history shared. 1
FMW Posted November 21, 2018 Posted November 21, 2018 I've seen it up close and personally, but it still stuns me when I hear stories like this. If your wife truly loved you there is no way she could possibly stay with you knowing what you've done. She would be broken hearted and disgusted by the very sight of you. Wanting to stay with someone who shows no respect or care for you is NOT love. She's clearly staying for other reasons, whether it be her twisted ideas of bragging rights about a long marriage or financial security. If you loved the one particular OW you would have ended the sham of a marriage you are in and you would be with her now. I seriously just don't understand. Badly twisted priorities is my only guess. Don't you want to be in a happy and complete relationship? I'm just struggling to understand.
BaileyB Posted November 21, 2018 Posted November 21, 2018 If your wife truly loved you there is no way she could possibly stay with you knowing what you've done. She would be broken hearted and disgusted by the very sight of you. Wanting to stay with someone who shows no respect or care for you is NOT love. She's clearly staying for other reasons, whether it be her twisted ideas of bragging rights about a long marriage or financial security. This. I’m sure, if you wife was honest she would say that what you have at this point is more of a business arrangement than a marriage.
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