Author Nadine123 Posted October 23, 2017 Author Posted October 23, 2017 im just curious. from a guys perspective, does me blocking him show him that i have boundaries or that he was successful in pissing me off. i forgot to block him on instagram and i posted a story today and he viewed it, very strange. He didnt even unfollow me there after i blocked him. I have proceeded to block him there as well.
jay1983 Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 Blocking him is for you. How he reacts is irrelevant. 2
Author Nadine123 Posted October 24, 2017 Author Posted October 24, 2017 I'm just curious I know it's for me.
jay1983 Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 Nobody can answer that as we don't know how he feels. I mean it's obvious he's not too interested, but on a sliding scale that can vary. You may bruise his ego if that's what looking to hear. He'll get over it shortly if any. To be honest he'll probably stop paying attention to your social media in time as well. 1
jay1983 Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 I tell you what. Block on all social media, but not your phone. See if he calls or text you.
jay1983 Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 Well that would've been a way to see if he even noticed. I don't know what to tell you now, other than live and learn. 1
Author Nadine123 Posted October 24, 2017 Author Posted October 24, 2017 oh u mean he might not have even noticed because he didn't unfollow me on instagram and is still following my stories?
jay1983 Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 Right, he comments on your social media and he called you. I was thinking he called your phone number. So if you go poof, he might call or text and ask what happened
Author Nadine123 Posted October 24, 2017 Author Posted October 24, 2017 you know part of me didn't want to block him so he can see that I'm having fun and I'm not bothered. is this childish
usa1ah Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 Yes. But don’t worry about it. It’s time to start growing up anyway. Sex is great but it doesn’t make a relationship. A lot of guys are banging everything they can. They don’t care who gets hurt in the process. They will do or say anything to get the pants off the girl they target. If this is the type of relationships you want ok. If not, get to know someone first before hand. Block him on everything and don’t worry about playing the I’m doing ok game for him to see.
Zahara Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 (edited) you know part of me didn't want to block him so he can see that I'm having fun and I'm not bothered. is this childish The truth is you are bothered. So instead of trying to play petty games to get at each other, do the mature thing by prioritizing your sanity -- that would mean blocking. Give yourself the gift of self-preservation. You've placed too much thought, anxiety and angst into this ONS, who has been disrespectful as well. If anything, you should be stepping back and reflecting as to why you're so twisted about this jerk and how to move forward rather than wanting to play games to try and affect/provoke him. You've been down this road before. Start learning the lessons. Edited October 24, 2017 by Zahara 2
ExpatInItaly Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 I don't think you blocking him is going to make much difference to him, OP. Yeah, it might bruise his ego a bit but that's all. He never bothered to even get your number so he wasn't all that serious about keeping in touch.
Author Nadine123 Posted October 24, 2017 Author Posted October 24, 2017 Guys, he just sent me an email saying this. He probably got it of my work website. I was joking when I called you a b**itch. who still blocks people? You are nothing but an immature girl who lobs (dno what that means lol english isnt my first language) grenades and gets upset when they explode. Im done with you. I can't stand that level of emotional stupidity Im now wondering if i should have just let it be and pretended that i didnt care but i trust everyones opinion here. You guys have been great help. I should reply back right?
Zahara Posted October 24, 2017 Posted October 24, 2017 Guys, he just sent me an email saying this. He probably got it of my work website. I was joking when I called you a b**itch. who still blocks people? You are nothing but an immature girl who lobs (dno what that means lol english isnt my first language) grenades and gets upset when they explode. Im done with you. I can't stand that level of emotional stupidity Im now wondering if i should have just let it be and pretended that i didnt care but i trust everyones opinion here. You guys have been great help. I should reply back right? Noooooo! You DO NOT reply. There is no need to feed into this drama. Walk away. 3
dumbass2 Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 Absolutely do not respond. I read your whole thread and you did the right thing blocking him. Now block his email or make sure they go to spam. He doesn't respect you and nobody should be joking calling someone a bitch that they don't really know and his message was over the top. Just leave it at this. Your silence will actually be a very mature way to handle this. 2
Miss Spider Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 (edited) Guys, he just sent me an email saying this. He probably got it of my work website. I was joking when I called you a b**itch. who still blocks people? You are nothing but an immature girl who lobs (dno what that means lol english isnt my first language) grenades and gets upset when they explode. Im done with you. I can't stand that level of emotional stupidity Im now wondering if i should have just let it be and pretended that i didnt care but i trust everyones opinion here. You guys have been great help. I should reply back right? what a royal *******. don't reply back. Edited October 25, 2017 by Cookiesandough
marky00 Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 there's no reason why he would comment and like my stuff if he doesn't want to stay in touch. yet every single dumper on LS does it without fail. cmon Nadine, you know the drill. 1
BC1980 Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 Guys, he just sent me an email saying this. He probably got it of my work website. I was joking when I called you a b**itch. who still blocks people? You are nothing but an immature girl who lobs (dno what that means lol english isnt my first language) grenades and gets upset when they explode. Im done with you. I can't stand that level of emotional stupidity Im now wondering if i should have just let it be and pretended that i didnt care but i trust everyones opinion here. You guys have been great help. I should reply back right? No, don't reply back. He's just trying to one up you now. It's turning into a back and forth thing, and it's too much stress over a one night stand.
BC1980 Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 yet every single dumper on LS does it without fail. cmon Nadine, you know the drill. Commenting and liking on social media are instructions in the dumper starter pack. That and texting "how are you?" I'm becoming more and more convinced that social media will be the ruination of us all. 1
Art Vandelay Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 I just want to chime in here and say that not all dumpers are alike. I haven't contacted my ex in any way, not once, since I left nearly 2 months ago. Part of that is self preservation, part of it is out of respect for her to allow her to move on. And trust me, I've wanted to talk to her on many occasions. We're not all alike. Just sayin'.
Author Nadine123 Posted November 30, 2017 Author Posted November 30, 2017 I know it has been a month already, but part of me is still very angry that I did respond to him when he said ''his people are taking over my country'' and that I just said ''ok''. I was so surprised that he contacted me that I didnt defend myself or my country. this is making me very annoyed and is stopping my process of getting over him. any advise people because its driving me insane.
HumanMachine Posted November 30, 2017 Posted November 30, 2017 A 2 week fling with a guy that doesn’t care about you is driving you insane.. think about that for a minute. 2
Author Nadine123 Posted November 30, 2017 Author Posted November 30, 2017 I dont think you read what i said carefully. I said the comment he made is since there are serious issues between both countries.
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