jenkins95 Posted July 19, 2017 Posted July 19, 2017 Are you able to watch her and hear what she says? Can you see if she is getting a different phone for communicating with him/ability to tell if she's having phone conversations with him when you're not home? Have you ever installed a VAR in her car? It's really NOT about the OM... your wife did this to you - not the OM. Very good point. Good luck 3S. You are showing huge strength in your recent posts although I know you must be scared and hurting like hell under all that. We're pulling for you. Stay strong and keep posting. Lots of good advice here.
sandylee1 Posted July 19, 2017 Posted July 19, 2017 She knows you have a security camera recording I presume? In which case she isn't going to do anything like contact him What you need to see is her actions, not words and promises... But actions that she is remorseful and that she will do everything possible to gain your trust.
WilyWill Posted July 20, 2017 Posted July 20, 2017 All I see is more manipulation. She gets angry that you have the nerve to distance yourself from her. When the yelling doesn't work, she turns on the affection. When the affection works, she turns it off as easily as she turned it on. And missing in all of this is an apology. What she should be offering is groveling-on-the-floor, tearful begging. That's remorse. Not growing distant the day after her dramatic marriage proposal.
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