scratch Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by airbus Thanks for the advice. I won't be hearing from her over the weekend, as the weekend is 'her time with friends' (yep, feel like a monday to friday boyfriend). Jesus tapdancing Christ! Did you just write that? I have no doubt that this girl will dump you before you dump her. I hope your reflection over the weekend prepares you for this to end, one way or another.
airbus Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Yep, I did just write that. It was a discussion we had earlier. Apparently the weekend is time with her friends and I get her the rest of the week. I just want the weekend to figure out what i'm going to say to her. I doubt she'll take it well though. You are right in everything that you have been saying though, the relationship needs to end as its on unfair grounds and I know for sure that with the way things are I am going to become ill.
Sal Paradise Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 Originally posted by Opium True, you make a good point Tudor!! But I just thought about something?! What if you tell your SO that you don't like them going out with friends from the oppisite sex and they tell you OK but continue behind your back? Wouldn't you rather want to know then them hide it? Like I said before it's better to avoid the whole situation in all instead of putting yourself and your relationship in steaming water, but some just don't care. No I would be thankful that it happened and it exposed what piece of **** liar they are. I would then break up with tnem and be thankful I got out when I did.
Cecelius Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Originally posted by Sal Paradise No I would be thankful that it happened and it exposed what piece of **** liar they are. I would then break up with tnem and be thankful I got out when I did. Agreed. I dunno about women, but to a man there is nothing that screams BJ in backseat like going out with "friends" that she forgot to tell you were dudes, or worse, one dude. She can have her positions and philosophies about hanging with exes, guys who like her, drinking unescorted with other men, etc.,, and if you don't like them, then you just don't date her. If she deceives you, then she is presumptuous, shady and not worth being involved with.
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