Steen719 Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 That's really helpful and true. The excitement doesn't precede the event any more. Loss of optimism is exactly what it is. I guess it's also instructive to realize that where you are on the better/worse affair spectrum does explain 'soul-sucking' that is particularly penetrating and long-lasting. That said, forgive me for not summarizing my credentials for the 'worst' end at the moment. I wouldn't get up the rest of the day. Yeah, I've read your backstory and it definitely qualifies for soul-sucking. Sorry. For everyone who may be reading this, I am not trying to minimize anyone's pain for their H or W's affair. They are painful and devastating no matter what, but as I learned in the divorce group - they vary and some were worse than mine, for sure. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey born raised Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 Wow, me too. I was driving and had no interest in music and had the sudden thought "when was the last time you heard music in your mind" and I could not remember, I remember their was a time I would hear tunes in my mind but it's been awhile. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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