VeveCakes Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Keep at it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted January 27, 2017 Author Share Posted January 27, 2017 I am currently clean from HIV Did 2 tests long and short one, I know that if I will go to hookers again it's enough 1 time to ruin my family health.. I did tons of education about it Currently 30 day off without hookers Started to watch porn again, probably going to stop with that again soon.. I Keep going.. Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 There are other STDs besides HIV. Are you testing for those? Link to post Share on other sites
eightytwenty Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 What happens if you do show other STD's? Are you going to tell your wife then, or tell her you have no idea when she goes to her yearly and tests positive for something? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted October 8, 2019 Author Share Posted October 8, 2019 Still addicted 5 years later.. With baby girl and my boy is 5 years old.. Still going weekly to hookers.. top class only Trying to stop again.. I am not young and horny as I was 5 years ago, My friend quite smoking and inspired me to tried quiting my sex addiction.. I will update when I have additional update 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 8, 2019 Share Posted October 8, 2019 My friend quite smoking and inspired me to tried quiting my sex addiction.. You're not a sex addict so quit taking that easy way out, that's just the excuse you tell yourself. Not sure why you add more kids to a mix clearly not working for you. SMH... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted October 8, 2019 Author Share Posted October 8, 2019 Lucky why you think I am not sex addict ? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 8, 2019 Share Posted October 8, 2019 Because you're making bad choices selectively. An addict would be acting out in all phases of his sexual life, you're fixated on hookers... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted October 8, 2019 Author Share Posted October 8, 2019 (edited) It true that I very selective There are many symptoms like addictions 1. Deep urge 2. Unable to stop And much more.. Now I am trying my friend system for quite smoking Edited October 10, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted October 8, 2019 Share Posted October 8, 2019 So sad that you and your wife are wasting your lives on a sham of a marriage. Your marriage is inauthentic, lacks honesty and intimacy. You have chosen to have that kind of marriage but your wife is in the dark and didn't get to make that choice. You don't just have a sex addiction, you are also cruel and selfish. You have multiple issues. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 8, 2019 Share Posted October 8, 2019 (edited) Now I am trying my friend system for quite smoking Nicotine is a drug with proven addictive properties. Hookers, even the '18-23, and only the most sexy' ones, not so much. Though I understand why you'd want the addiction excuse, then it's not your fault, right? Mr. Lucky Edited October 10, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted October 9, 2019 Author Share Posted October 9, 2019 Even a drug addict is a selective, He can use very harmfull drugs but not all in excuse the rest of drugs can really put his life in risk.. which is most time illusion Hence by being selective not making a habit non addictive Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 9, 2019 Share Posted October 9, 2019 Even a drug addict is a selective Have you seen serious drug addiction up close? A heroin addict, cut off from his supply, will use many and any other drugs to offset the pain of detox and withdrawal. And it's not even a choice, it's a desperate, all-out measure to deal with the symptoms. You on the other hand, choose from the Chinese menu of cheating choices, one hooker from Column A, one escort from Column B. Don't confuse being an addict with being a selfish (and self-centered) idiot... Mr. Lucky 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Maddie82 Posted October 10, 2019 Share Posted October 10, 2019 linger, you actually sound somewhat proud of your 1000s of hooker encounters and your sex abilities. It's actually nothing to be proud of and everything to feel ashamed about. Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted October 10, 2019 Author Share Posted October 10, 2019 Addiction has many faces Its no so simple as you describe it Sure heroin is addictive. Sugar is addictive ? Sigaurete ? Porn ? Weed ? For you non of them is addictive, altough many people suffer from them, try to quite many times without success Only heroin or meth is addctive because you decide so What about gambling, they enjoy thier time, flying from 5 star hotels to other, it must not be addiction because its nit heroin Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 10, 2019 Share Posted October 10, 2019 What about gambling, they enjoy thier time, flying from 5 star hotels to other, it must not be addiction because its nit heroin Gambling is a perfect example, I worked for a guy truly addicted to gambling. We went to a conference in Las Vegas, lost all his money before he was checked into his room. Went to the track, despite knowing nothing about horses, wagered and lost huge amounts on maiden and claiming races. He had a bookie on speed-dial despite having little sports knowledge. In short, compulsive and out of control. Are you stopping and propositioning women of all ages, shapes and sizes? Soliciting sex from your cleaning woman? Asking homeless people for sexual favors? A bit different than selectively choosing to pay for sex with young, attractive prostitutes. I get why you're so committed to seeing yourself as "addicted to hookers". After all, what can you do? You're an addict, helpless in the face of your disease. You don't have to face the thought of all the awful consequences of your actions and choices - betrayal, disease, divorce, etc. Except it's all based on lies and selfish rationalizations. Perhaps someday you'll want more - and to be more - out of life... Mr. Lucky 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted October 11, 2019 Author Share Posted October 11, 2019 Update 7 days clean from everything from watching porn to visit hookers, even didnt enter thier websites Even more 7 days without positive memory or positive thought about my addiction Lucky regarding the compulsive, Yes there are few compulsive behavior I was part of, But for me the addiction is more, take part of risky behavior for me, my health, family health, marraige, finance, shame, children mental health and so on.. And although I acknoledge those risk and although trying to stop many times I was never succeed.. Thats the face of my addiction Link to post Share on other sites
notbroken Posted October 11, 2019 Share Posted October 11, 2019 Just because you like something doesn't mean you are addicted. I like sex. Alot. I don't chase hookers. Honestly, I don't believe you have to. I believe you want to. It is a choice. Can you have more sex with your wife? Quit using 'addiction' as an excuse. It is not one. At all. It doesn't change the damage to what you are doing. At all. Maybe you should divorce your wife and chase prostitutes if you really can't stop. It is simply to dangerous to her and others to be married if you are going to continue your behavior. Be considerate of her health. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Amethyst68 Posted October 13, 2019 Share Posted October 13, 2019 You're not addicted, you're proud. The boasting comes across in each one of your posts, it's as if you see sleeping with all these prostitutes as some kind of status symbol. What's with all the cutsey having sex with hookers is not cute, reassuring us they are high class is not cute! It's sordid sleazy transactional paying for sex. This is not a woman or girl who feels attraction for you, who wants your hands on her, who wants to have sex with you for pleasure, it's a job. Would you want your baby girl to be doing this in 16 or 18 years? Why have children? Why bring them into this mess? Does your wife know? Tell her, the result may shock you into reality for a little while at least. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
amarriedguy Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 You're not addicted, you're proud. The boasting comes across in each one of your posts, it's as if you see sleeping with all these prostitutes as some kind of status symbol. What's with all the cutsey having sex with hookers is not cute, reassuring us they are high class is not cute! I just came across this thread. This is a truly bizarre thread; the OP appears he has wanted, at least in the past, to use this forum as a 12-step program--that's completely inappropriate and if that's what you were really doing, frankly I think it's cowardly. You didn't take any of the good advice here, including the most obvious: getting tested immediately. If I was seeing prostitutes weekly (thank God I'm not), I would have gotten tested. Not after 200 sexual contacts with prostitutes, not 100, maybe 10--a disgusting thought anyway--but I wouldn't have hesitated for even a minute. There are STDs that are fatal without treatment, AND you're still having sex with your wife--you would infect her. You want a difficult conversation? Try explaining THAT to her. I did the math. Based on your claims you've had sex hundreds of times with prostitutes. 300? 200? You stated earlier that you were seeking the perfect prostitute, and apparently hadn't found one; so assuming some repeats with the "imperfect" prostitute I'm guessing you claim to have had sex with at least 100 prostitutes. I'm sorry, but I don't believe it. My instinct is: you've been posting this on other sites as well; maybe you've been to a prostitute, but it's equally likely that you just look at their websites and fantasize. I think you get turned-on posting about your "conquests" with prostitutes; maybe you masturbate while writing these posts and reading the responses, which I think is your real motivation. There are countries where prostitution is legal; why not say where you're living? I think it's because it's all a fantasy. My instinct is that you've got a bad marriage, some sexual problems, and you've turned to the internet to manage your libido by masturbating. And that bragging about how successful you are professionally, well-off financially, and having sex with hundreds of prostitutes is a big turn-on for you. Bull. You ignored all advice about how to stop your supposed "addiction." Why? Because it was all a fiction. You claimed repeatedly to control your behavior and then failed. I think you did this to maintain engagement with the members of this forum and your erotic fantasies--which is why you were upset when a few days went by without a comment. No comment=no thrill for you. I'm not buying one word of this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author linqer Posted January 17, 2020 Author Share Posted January 17, 2020 I might go to therapist to seek some help, its totally out my confront zone, but I guess its the best thing to do Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted January 18, 2020 Share Posted January 18, 2020 A wise move. Look around for one who's got the appropriate state credentials with lots of experience and who genuinely specializes in sexual issues (the more closely related to yours the better). 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted January 18, 2020 Share Posted January 18, 2020 Nothing has worked in at least 5 years, a therapist is long overdue. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 18, 2020 Share Posted January 18, 2020 14 hours ago, linqer said: I might go to therapist to seek some help, I can't imagine how, at this point, your wife wouldn't need one too... Mr. Lucky 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Daisydooks Posted January 19, 2020 Share Posted January 19, 2020 On 1/17/2020 at 6:42 PM, linqer said: I might go to therapist to seek some help, its totally out my confront zone, but I guess its the best thing to do Go back and read your first post 5 years ago. All you have done is continue to lie, continue to cheat and havent changed at all. I thought you had it all under control? 5 years. Yes you need help here. If it isnt blatantly obvious, you need the help people told you you needed 5 years back. You thought you had it under control and failed miserably time and time again. This is bigger than you are. Isnt it about time to do it someone elses way? Your way sucks and has never worked. Its about time you feel uncomfortable and are out of your comfort zone. I cant even with this disgusting post. You've now been screwing hookers for 10-11 years. I want to vomit. Link to post Share on other sites
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