katiegrl Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 Yes we continued to talk throughout the day yesterday until we went to bed. And we've talked today as well. He was not having a good day yesterday, and was talking a lot about how far behind on work he is and there's not enough time in the day to get caught up and he's exhausted. I fear I took his two-day MIA period in a way that wasn't necessary, but things appear to be all good now. I have been known to "disappear" for a day or two as well from literally everyone, and that's never personal towards anyone so I need to remember that. I appreciated your advice!! Thank you! Fabulous... sounds good!
spiderowl Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 Sounds like he's good at the sweet nothings! You forgave him once but why do it twice? If you feel hurt by his behaviour, then don't put up with it. If he is 'rubberbanding', then the only way he'll learn to manage it better is if he knows the boundaries with you. Of course, you risk losing him, but then again if he clears off after sex each time, what is there to keep?
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