ladydesigner Posted July 9, 2015 Share Posted July 9, 2015 I respect u jane , but I don't want to appear as a sex discriminator ; but as human male ; this is more difficult for us men ; though i am in a very rocky marriage almost sexless for 15 years ; haven't cheated yet ,but now im vulnerable . BUT looking at OP , the fact that he told her before , and told her after , means that he didn't cheat .The declaration of disagreement fact is as the decalaration of an agreement in an open marriage . Now the diovorce issue is a different topic , we don't have enough details ; I can't leave my kids for instance , I am seperated with her , yet can't leave my kids.... Well I threatened my WH that I was going to cheat on him after I found out about his first indiscretion. I still consider my RA an affair 1 Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted July 9, 2015 Share Posted July 9, 2015 but as human male ; this is more difficult for us men Bullcrap. ten characters Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted July 9, 2015 Share Posted July 9, 2015 Anyway I look at this situation, the OP was still cowardly and selfish for just meeting his needs. At least the wife has a choice now, if she wants to stay with a cheater or not. Link to post Share on other sites
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