smg15 Posted May 2, 2015 Share Posted May 2, 2015 Well, I must have communicated awkwardly. Whoever told me to invite her to a place and time, thanks. Texted her again and we are going out Monday I guess I was wrong, 4 days usually means someone is not interested. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sunyata Posted May 2, 2015 Author Share Posted May 2, 2015 (edited) I guess I was wrong, 4 days usually means someone is not interested. good luck Well, I'd like to try to figure out why she didn't respond, and then did respond in literally one minute after I texted her again five days later. My mind goes to negative things so quickly, so it's like I'm just expecting she wants a free dinner (I'd rather split the second date, personally). My optimistic guess is that not asking her out for two days after she told me she had a good time, and then asking out in a weak fashion ("Let me know!") made her not know what exactly to do. Also maybe asking for coffee on a second date as a problem. Edited May 2, 2015 by Sunyata Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted May 2, 2015 Share Posted May 2, 2015 (edited) Personally, I like to know what is planned. There's a big difference between: Want to get together? And How about going to a baseball game tomorrow, pick you up at 6? Edited May 2, 2015 by beach Link to post Share on other sites
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