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Texting: How long without a text means its over?


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Well, I must have communicated awkwardly. Whoever told me to invite her to a place and time, thanks. Texted her again and we are going out Monday

 

I guess I was wrong, 4 days usually means someone is not interested. good luck

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I guess I was wrong, 4 days usually means someone is not interested. good luck

 

Well, I'd like to try to figure out why she didn't respond, and then did respond in literally one minute after I texted her again five days later. My mind goes to negative things so quickly, so it's like I'm just expecting she wants a free dinner (I'd rather split the second date, personally). My optimistic guess is that not asking her out for two days after she told me she had a good time, and then asking out in a weak fashion ("Let me know!") made her not know what exactly to do. Also maybe asking for coffee on a second date as a problem.

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Personally, I like to know what is planned.

 

There's a big difference between:

 

Want to get together?

 

And

 

How about going to a baseball game tomorrow, pick you up at 6?

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