kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 Please help me I've been on off with this guy for 4 years but he is a compulsive liar/drunk few times he's made out he's single and isn't resulted in me being punched in the face by his gf. My mate said he saw him looked really I'll and generally not well. I saw him the next wk and he asked me to meet him nothing went on just talked to him. I went out sat found out that not only has he been stealing from his family and people on street for drink money but is on community service for threatening his moms bf with a knife sad his gf told me this after finding out I met him. My behaviour is not good but he messes my head up Anyway he's been kicked out by his gf but his ex gf from years ago who is married is now going round every day giving him booze and money so she can get sex out of him. I'm finding it hard to cope as he used me last Thursday and he's now not getting his deserts and getting what he wants. I've got her phoning telling me when his ex is round with booze n money but then talking the husband telling me things from other side. I've been dragged into something I didn't want to b dragged into. I said I told the gf I no longer want to b involved in this and she's gone round saying I said this I said that as she feels he's being brainwashed by other woman and I only told her this when she told me he said was a mental case and that he didn't fancy me Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 If you don't want to be dragged into this, just stop talking to him. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 he is a compulsive liar/drunk Leave this guy alone. Never speak to him, his gf or any of his friends again. Nothing good will come from a relationship with that kind of guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 Leave this guy alone. Never speak to him, his gf or any of his friends again. Nothing good will come from a relationship with that kind of guy. Why do I feel that I'm losing out to the girl he is with even thou I know he's scum Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 Why do I feel that I'm losing out to the girl he is with even thou I know he's scum Exactly, what are you losing exactly? A piece of scum? Be grateful. You are better off without him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 Exactly, what are you losing exactly? A piece of scum? Be grateful. You are better off without him. It's just the fact she's offering him money etc place to live drink etc etc I couldn't compete with that Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 It's just the fact she's offering him money etc place to live drink etc etc I couldn't compete with that Are you nuts? Keep away from him. Stop competing, the prize isn't worth it. Go compete for some better man. Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 It's just the fact she's offering him money etc place to live drink etc etc I couldn't compete with that And why do you WANT to compete with that? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 And why do you WANT to compete with that? I know I should think like that but I feel like the woman he's with is laughing at everyonr Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 I know I should think like that but I feel like the woman he's with is laughing at everyonr So? You want to compete just so you can "win" a crappy prize? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 So? You want to compete just so you can "win" a crappy prize? I don't know just she is parading him like she's won Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 I don't know just she is parading him like she's won So? She's not really winning. Just stop talking to him. SIMPLE AS THAT. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 If someone won a turd in a raffle, would you be jealous of that too? You should feel pity for her, not jealousy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 If someone won a turd in a raffle, would you be jealous of that too? You should feel pity for her, not jealousy. Probably not do find it sad knowing he hasn't much money etc she is buying him with what she got Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 Why do I feel that I'm losing out to the girl he is with even thou I know he's scum because on some level, you dont' think you deserve any better. You need to get at why you have this consideration for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 Probably not do find it sad knowing he hasn't much money etc she is buying him with what she got better her torching her money behind this train wreck than you. Do you have it to give away like that? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 better her torching her money behind this train wreck than you. Do you have it to give away like that? No... As soon as she knew he was kicked out she turned up gave him 100 pounds. Now promising to leave her daughter and live with him In a luxury flat etc she's paying for everything Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 So? Let them be each other's problem. Why are you insistent on this? This has the easiest solution in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 No... As soon as she knew he was kicked out she turned up gave him 100 pounds. Now promising to leave her daughter and live with him In a luxury flat etc she's paying for everything More fool her. He is a sad loser, who will spend her money and take her for everything she has got and give her nothing in return. Alcoholics are notoriously selfish. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 More fool her. He is a sad loser, who will spend her money and take her for everything she has got and give her nothing in return. Alcoholics are notoriously selfish. Very true he's been stealing off people for drink money hence why I think it's crap she giving him money for everytgjng Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 Please help me I've been on off with this guy for 4 years but he is a compulsive liar/drunk few times he's made out he's single and isn't resulted in me being punched in the face by his gf. My mate said he saw him looked really I'll and generally not well. I saw him the next wk and he asked me to meet him nothing went on just talked to him. I went out sat found out that not only has he been stealing from his family and people on street for drink money but is on community service for threatening his moms bf with a knife sad his gf told me this after finding out I met him. My behaviour is not good but he messes my head up Anyway he's been kicked out by his gf but his ex gf from years ago who is married is now going round every day giving him booze and money so she can get sex out of him. I'm finding it hard to cope as and he's now not getting his deserts and getting what he wants. I've got her phoning telling me when his ex is round with booze n money but then talking the husband telling me things from other side. I've been dragged into something I didn't want to b dragged into. I said I told the gf I no longer want to b involved in this and she's gone round saying I said this I said that as she feels he's being brainwashed by other woman and I only told her this when she told me he said was a mental case and that he didn't fancy me If you don't want to be dragged into something, don't let yourself be dragged into it. Cut off contact with everyone involved in this. "I've been on off with this guy for 4 years but he is a compulsive liar/drunk." "he used me last Thursday". Men don't use women, women allow themselves to be used by compulsive liars and drunks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 If you don't want to be dragged into something, don't let yourself be dragged into it. Cut off contact with everyone involved in this. "I've been on off with this guy for 4 years but he is a compulsive liar/drunk." "he used me last Thursday". Men don't use women, women allow themselves to be used by compulsive liars and drunks. I should cut contact I know the husband and he is finding it hard coping then there's the ex gf he's gone from to one he is with now... Really it is something I shouldn't b involved in but feel these people are just pissing on everyone Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 I should cut contact I know the husband and he is finding it hard coping then there's the ex gf he's gone from to one he is with now... Really it is something I shouldn't b involved in but feel these people are just pissing on everyone Let them deal with their own mess or you be getting pissed on as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 Very true he's been stealing off people for drink money hence why I think it's crap she giving him money for everytgjng That is HER problem, not yours. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaisergal Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 Let them deal with their own mess or you be getting pissed on as well. But feel I already am by her as she fecked me over a couple of years ago. It's like she's making a point to people I got him look At me kinda thing Link to post Share on other sites
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