whichwayisup Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 Find another location for your AA meetings. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author solostand Posted March 17, 2015 Author Share Posted March 17, 2015 So I have been offered the job in a different province, so I can officially say the affair is over. It couldn't have come at a better time because MM has been on my mind ALL THE TIME these last few days and I have been panicking and struggling not to break NC. I will be starting a new life with a fresh start! 9 Link to post Share on other sites
whatatangledweb Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Congrats Solostand !!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
waterwoman Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Congratulations solo! Well done. Here's to a new start xx Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 That is fantastic news - a new start for you! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sub Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Congratulations. Onward and upward! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 So I have been offered the job in a different province, so I can officially say the affair is over. It couldn't have come at a better time because MM has been on my mind ALL THE TIME these last few days and I have been panicking and struggling not to break NC. I will be starting a new life with a fresh start! Congrats! I'm very happy to hear this news. Keep going with NC, DO not slip up and text/call/email exMM (please start referring to him as exMM) and tell him about your job and you moving away. The A is totally over, your life and what you do is none of his business. Heal well and enjoy your fresh start! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author solostand Posted March 18, 2015 Author Share Posted March 18, 2015 Yes exMM will learn nothing from me. There will be complete radio silence on this end. I get an evil little thrill thinking of him wondering where I disappeared to. Link to post Share on other sites
Author solostand Posted March 18, 2015 Author Share Posted March 18, 2015 My immature self fantasizes about dropping the nuclear bomb on his marriage by telling his wife all. My higher self says walk away clean. Link to post Share on other sites
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