azureorb Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 (edited) A player will pay, but would also show other signs of being a player. I disagree. A good player won't show "signs" of being a player. He will show signs of being a gentleman -- and adjust well to the type of gal she is and her tastes (not all women are the same of course). A player isn't defined as a guy who "just uses girls for sex". It's defined as a guy who is Successful at dating & successful at garnering various girls' interests and can reap the benefits of it. She didn't invite him, he invited himself and then OMG she's not gonna have sex, and I paid for beer. Give me a break.Easy, don't get the panties in a bunch so much. Again, college/poor kids actually go over to each others' places a lot. And she was UP to go over to his place directly. And no he didn't invite himself anywhere. He proposed the situation and she accepted -- but she figured she would be going to his place (his turf), instead of him going over there. That was the mix-up. It'd be just as crass & silly to say that she IS just using him for free dinners, as it would be that he's just using her for (paid at the lowest price) sex. Edited September 16, 2014 by azureorb Link to post Share on other sites
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