love1336x Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Soooooo, yup. I've been dated this COWARD for 3 months, known him since August 2013. We talked every single day, hours and hours, hang out for many hours as well, however I think things were better when we was FRIENDS. When we became officially things were good, but I started school, and a 2nd job and didn't hang out as much. I guess we started to pull apart not always commuting with one another, so he sent me a text telling me, "I think you are amazing girl, but I don't want to do this anymore" On my part, i did try to be available for him, but he was always at a friend's house, or hanging out with his friend... spring break came, and I did NOT once see him.... I feel angry, hurt, and lied too, but i think the worse part was by text... lol. He couldn't even BOTHER to tell me in my face! :-[
iDrumKing Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Hey at least you were only 3 months in. Try 2 years over over the phone... Nonetheless I know it hurts. You would think that the person would have the decency to do it to your face, but that is too high of a bar for people these days. 4
Author love1336x Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Thanks love. You live and you learn.
limbophase Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 Hey at least you were only 3 months in. Try 2 years over over the phone... Nonetheless I know it hurts. You would think that the person would have the decency to do it to your face, but that is too high of a bar for people these days. AHHHHH, it happened to you too? I was dumped over the phone after a two year relationship as well. These are my stories. Perhaps you can help me out, and let me know how you deal with it. Seriously, wasn't I at least worth breaking up in person? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/466701-slowly-moving-but-i-have-days-when-i-look-back#post5585288 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/468198-still-sad-9-months-later
Sugarkane Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 I wish all text dumpers would eventually get dumped by text themselves, with no answers.
Weallwalkthelongroad Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 My ex became so elusive and just kept saying that she needed to be alone. I repeatedly got yelled at whenever I tried to talk to her or asked to meet up. But she would always say that she didn't NOT want to hear from me again; which kept me hanging. The reason I wanted to try and see her was to have a talk about going our seperate ways and be mature about it. I eventually go tired of it and we had to have "the conversation" through FB. So weak but I'm glad it happened because she needed to know I wasn't going to be her doormat.
Omei Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 I personally see nothing wrong with a text dump at 3 months in, most people arnt even in love yet. If I dated someone for 3 months I'd actually prefer to be dumped by text instead of wasting my time to go see them then get left, and be standing there in awkwardness.
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