savethedrama4allama Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Oh gawd. There is plenty of junk in this trunk. No ass-plants for me either, Tikibrandy.
YellowLioness Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 What is a deal breaker for me? I don't like guys who brag all the time about the "bad boy" things they've done, if they've spent time in jail, whatever. I don't want to date you if you've been convicted. I dont like guys who interrupt me, and talk over me. I don't like guys who try to get me to go to church with them, and try to convince me that I'm wrong because I don't subscribe to any particular belief system. I don't like men who can't control their drinking habbits. (i.e. use it as an excuse for stupid behavior) I don't like drug dealers/ anyone who does anything harder then Mary Jane. I can't stand guys who are unkempt. I like men who take pride in their apperance. In other words, brushed teeth, nice hair, clean smell about them. I don't like men with dirt under their nails, unless they've been working outside all day. There is no excuse for dirt under your nail if you have access to a sink and a bar of soap. I don't like sissies. I don't like men who are afraid to get their hands dirty. I don't like men who are stuck on themselves, that gets old after a while. I don't like guys who are shorter then I am (under 5'5). If they are shorter then I am then they better be beefy and muscular. I like to feel tiny and cute when I'm with a man, not like some big freak. ;-) I don't like men who are very close friends with their exes. Speaking with an ex once a month or so is normal in my book. However, I won't put up with drama of any kind from an ex girlfriend. I don't like thieves. I don't like men who disrespect their mothers. I'm sure there are more, as I am picky, but this is generally speaking.
DerangedAngel Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Ah, so you want a guy with dirty hands and clean nails? -DA
lydiamarie Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 I dont like guys who interrupt me, and talk over me. hehe. knowing how to interrupt and talk over someone-those are survival skills for the men i'm involved with. i am the first to admit that i talk too much. but that's what happens when you were raised by your very loud, opinionated sisters... the ultimate dealbreaker for me? not being happy. you have to decide to be happy. you can always have something more, life could always be a little better. but who cares? i like my men happy and easy going
loveregardless Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 my boyfreind had to learn to interrupt me, sometimes, especially when i'm manic, i'll start talking and won't even stop for air for upwards of 10-15-20 minutes and eventually he'll just go, "ok" and give me this weird smile and I'm like, oops sorry...and he's like, "so we're manic today huh?!" I don't like drugs or alcohol at all...I don't even consider weed a drug since its an herb...but thats just me...but yeah, i hate drugs... and i hate it when guys talk to you like they think life is a rap video, do not call me bitch, do not call me slut, chicken head, or hoochie, unless you want me to beat your thug ass in front of all your little freinds...yeah, well...I'm done now...
lydiamarie Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 ... unless you want me to beat your thug ass in front of all your little freinds and i suppose the talking thing does have a lot to do with being manic depressive... speaking of which: dealbreaker: saying anything about 'psychos' or 'crazy people' or 'bipolars'. such as: 'oh, those bipolars are nuts. like, scary crazy... (insert your own 'i'm think i'm an expert when i'm really an ignorant git' comment here)'
YellowLioness Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Ah, so you want a guy with dirty hands and clean nails? -DA Ok, let me break it down. If you are seeing a guy who works with his hands for a living, like a mechanic, or someone who does farm work (plenty of those boys around here) then I can understand some nail grease. Sometimes, their hands even get stained from the oil and dirt that they work in. I can understand that, can't you? However, if you are a man and you work a desk type job, there is no reason for dirty nails. I once had a computer nerd sort of boyfriend who worked in an office all day, and had filthy nails. He just chose not to take care of them, it's not that they were stained from a hard day's work. I don't think there is any excuse for that. dealbreaker: saying anything about 'psychos' or 'crazy people' or 'bipolars'. such as: 'oh, those bipolars are nuts. like, scary crazy... (insert your own 'i'm think i'm an expert when i'm really an ignorant git' comment here)' right! or those guys who are always like, "women always this, or women always that." That drives me nuts!
loveregardless Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 people like to think that crazy people are dismissable...not so much... "well your crazy", yeah well your stupid so we're even then right? I rather be crazy than stupid! I hate dirty nails...biggest pet peeve ever, hate 'em! Because we all know where those fingers go right, and well, you ain't touching my ass, literally, with a biology experiment growing under those things...I don't think so...I have enough microbes thankyou! I'm defnintely having a manic day by the way... Bacock! Can you tell? I think it would be easy to tell as a reader. On normal days i'm all hugs and I love everyone and the world is a happy peaceful place, lets all meditate...and when i'm manic I'm like...well...like this! ADHD to the max! Singing songs and stuff.... man, that loveregardless girl is nuts!
blue17 Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 "- guys who drive very expensive cars that are not good cars, just flashy." whats wrong with driving a flashy car that's not a ferrari?
katie79 Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 a tacky looking man. The guido looking type. Red car w/tinted windows, a loud system, shiny hubcaps. The type that wears 3 gold chains around the neck, many rings, a few bracelets, and carries himself like a guido. Real turn off. It's hard NOT TO FIND ONE OF THOSE, since I live in New York!
katie79 Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Spinner Hubcaps!!!!! Those are what I meant! EWW!
RowanRavyn Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Know it alls. The kind who whether they have a clue or not, know more about it than you possibly ever could. INSECURITY Men who can't find the balance between being to silly or too serious. Men who "don't cry." Disrespect Broad spectrum statements "Women always" "All kids" Men who are spiritually unbalanced. Super religous or super Non-religious. A man who hasn't the first clue who the hell he is, and changes who he is like some men change undies. With their family they are one way, with their friends they are another way, with me another. NO THANK YOU. A man who assumes I can read his mind, and then gets offended if I do!
SnowWhite Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Originally posted by RowanRavyn Men who "don't cry." I'm the complete opposite. Men who cry would be a deal breaker for me. Unless of course its during times when you are supposed to cry. i.e. funerals, hospitals, etc.
Author UCFKevin Posted September 25, 2004 Author Posted September 25, 2004 Yup. But not often. At sad movies sometimes. Or when something really horribly awful happens in my life.
RowanRavyn Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Nice answer Kev!! Thats what I mean. I couldn't stand a "weeper" but I can't stand a guy thats too good to show his sadness.
honey2005 Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 * Gives me 'the look' when I go for that second slice of cheesecake. I know what I'm doing! I was calorie counting long before I met you, dickwad. Drugs would be a major dealbreaker for me. If he did any drugs I would be out. If they are illegal, he better not be doing them. I also don't like cigarettes. Being disrespectful is another.
RowanRavyn Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Being controlling would be a deal breaker. Paranoia as well.
Anais Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 You cannot see it at once. OK here is one if seriously: When he gets pissed when I am joking. More serious: When he cares too much… but not about me.
amerikajin Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 I gotta sign on my bedroom door: No boobs, no ass, no service. Just kidding.
amerikajin Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Deal breakers (in no particular order): 1. Negativity 2. Smoking 3. Drinking to excess 4. Sloppy appearance (even sexy women are guilty of this) 5. Lack of anything interesting to say 6. Poor sense of humor 7. Being spoiled 8. Dishonesty 9. Lack of respect (i.e. being a b!tch) 10. Manipulation or a desire to control 11. Lack of personal hygiene 12. Oh, and uh, uncontrollable insecurity, too.
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