GeeziG Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 Long story short. ..I was in a LDR for six months in which I was proclaimed to be my ex's best boyfriend. . I treated this girl like a queen and even after the breakup she claimed I was a great guy...anyway two days before she moved to the same city that I currently live in she ends it...claims shes not ready to be committed...says I'm insecure and that I pushed her away and the breakup is all my fault I was in shock...pleaded with her the first day she got here but it didn't work. ..it's been a week of no contact and it is starting to wear on me...all I can think about is if she really cared she would have reached out by now wondering if she has even tho about me is driving me insane...it's like nothing about us has phased her...loveshackers is this true? She said prior to breaking up that she nneeded time and space because she was loosing herself and that she could never but me before friends and family like I did...
Girlboots Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Wow, what a heartless person! She contradicts herself, saying she broke up with you because she's not ready to commit, then says it's your fault because you pushed her away. Maybe you DID do something, who knows? I think you should give her a little space, and then ask to talk about things. If she still seems like she's not interested, then let it go. It's a really hard pill to swallow when you realize someone doesn't feel the same way as you do about them. It takes time, but the wounds will heal once you decide to let go.
Author GeeziG Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 I'm just confused she said a million things and I've had several breakups but I really felt like she would never betray me like she has it just never seemed to be inn her character she still talks to ex's that treated her like **** but all I did was care maybe too much but is that a crime...
Girlboots Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Maybe she just wasn't secure enough to be with a good guy. I was like that. I was very insecure and whenever a guy was treating me well, I'd think he was just being fake and he was going to screw me over, so I just ended it with him before he could end with me. Some girls are messed up like that. Like I said, talking to her might help get you some answers, but it probably won't be the answers you want to hear.
Author GeeziG Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 In a sense thats how she SaId I was like nothing she did was good enough or she could never meet my standards but I always told her how much I appreciated her oak
ladyabstrused Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 I think she's pretty much made up her mind about her decision. If she has feelings or still care, she would've contacted you. Sorry to hear about your situation. :\
steveblack Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 She doesn't know what she had. She doesn't know what she wants. She doesn't know too much my dude. My story is about the same. Give her time, give yourself time. Just in your head, know that she is struggling too. FOCUS ON YOU. Stop blaming yourself, its not worth it. YOu are not a bad guy, she doesn't know what she wants. And if that is the case, how can you blame yourself? Get your confidence back! I know its tough. I AM GOING ThROUGH the same exact thing right now. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/334648-broke-up-ex-we-have-plan-nc-take-look-im-clueless I woke up this morning really sad, but i got up took a shower and now going golfing with a bud i havent seen in awhile. Make a plan for yourself! Go do things! Stop dwelling. Its tough! I know! But lets get it in gear. If its meant to be its meant to be.
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