Leigh 87 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Ok, I can help you on this one, as a well endowed woman. The most important feature a woman can have to attract guys is having a pretty face. as long as you look better than average in face and you're not a big girl you are going to be attractive. Then it's about your figure and most importantly, your bum....I've known a ton of guys who didn't care about boobs but I've never met a guy who didn't care about ass. If you have a nice round shapely ass and hips, you're golden. Then comes the boobs, some guys really don't care about boob size and some are obsessed with it. I'm grateful for having what I have but I would probably exchange them for a better face/bum easily. I totally agree. Even when I was a size 0 with large boobs and a thin but hour glass shape, I have a crooked nose, therefore was not facially very pretty. You know - I am cute, which mans average and ugly to some men, while gorgeous to others. Not universally pretty. My great body with large breasts gave me a false sense of being attractive - cos a lot of guys liked me for my very slim ad fit body, and my boobs got attention. I was not ugly, so they found me really attractive.. nice teeth, long blonde hair, and a thin yet curvy body.. The thing is - I am not that pretty, I just had a stero types body, and long blonde hair. Nice skin and teeth stil did not make me that pretty. Take away the killer body, and I am nothing special. So, a nice face, followed by your body type ad size, and then butt, most dertermins physical attractivness.. I think larger breasts just feed into the whole ideal image; to be feminine, there are KEY points that give that over all, desirable image. - a small nose - big forhead and small chin - petite body type OR, an hour glass, very curvy and feminine body type.. - long hair, but this does not matter on a feminine, prefect face Lare breasts are just ONE sign of femininity; they are not actually as attractive as a small nose, or being having a thin and ideal body. I have a bad nose, and a very feminine , big breasted, and normally slim body. I would looK WAY better if I had a small, nice nose, with a flat chested body.
MrCastle Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I don't care about boobs at all. Sure they're nice to look at and play with but I'm not a boob man by any stretch of the imagination and wouldn't care if she was stacked like a pornstar or as flat chested as me. But booty on the other hand... 1
SunandMoon Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I don't care about boobs at all. Sure they're nice to look at and play with but I'm not a boob man by any stretch of the imagination and wouldn't care if she was stacked like a pornstar or as flat chested as me. But booty on the other hand... I was gonna come in here and say the same darn thing. But yeah, boobs; it's just more or less to love in technical (physical) terms.
musemaj11 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 C's is my ideal breast size. Especially if combined with slim figure like Brooklyn Decker.
SarahRose Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 The first ones legs and butt look too toned and muscley for my liking. As for the second one, her butt looks ****ing bizarre. I Don't like it. The reason it looks so strange is because it is fake. It's been photoshopped.
SarahRose Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Work out for a few years and you'll find those kind of women to be as intoxicatingly attractive as I do I find this girl to be perfect for example and she's got bigger legs than your head! http://dailydizzle.files.wordpress.com/2010/05/natalia-inoue2.jpg I thought you guys didn't like big fake silicone breasts?
SarahRose Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 way too big, those are disgusting perfect is high Cs like this - http://www.hdcelebs.com/pictures/d/dani_daniels_ripped_jean_shorts.jpg thought you guys didn't like implants?
SarahRose Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I find it hilarious how the guys say they hate fake implants but then go and post of photos of girls with obvious implants. And the photoshopped photos. Do you guys not realise the photos are heavily photoshopped and most of these models and fitness girls have implants? smh 1
Carlos S Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Yes, we love them. It's not that important to me, but I have to say I'd be a bit grossed out if a girl was really flat chested. But I do find a pretty face the most attractive, and I do envy those girls who are lucky enough to fall under that category. And a nice arse... just thinking about it is making me... nevermind Leigh, I'm so unhappy to hear you so downtrodden on how you look . I"m sure your boyfriend loves the way you look.
RedRobin Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 thought you guys didn't like implants? They like larger boobs that don't look or feel like implants. Technology is catching up. Before plastic surgery, hormones in food and before everyone... men and women... got fatter in the US, the average cup size was a "B". Check out the old Hollywood movies. With rare exceptions, most actresses before the 1980's were not well-endowed. If young men want to see what 'real' boobs look like, go dig up back issues of Playboy before plastic surgery became popular. What is scary to me now is seeing 10 yr old girls with breasts. I feel sorry for them. When girls develop very young, they don't have a chance to grow up emotionally before men start treating them like sex objects. Anyway, the kind of obsession with body parts that alot of the men on this thread exhibit says alot about them... Not to mention the women who feel the need to pose for these pics. 2
Nikki Sahagin Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I'm a C/D but very petite and I always get lots of compliments from men on my boobs. But I think anywhere from B-D is nice; over that to me is too big and below that can be too small, but obviously there are markets for all. I think it's more important that a woman is just confident with what she has. Boob size shouldn't be an insecurity. Most men have pretty normal tastes with this kind of thing I think. I don't like when girls inflate themselves like circus clowns with big boobs as if that's the only thing that will get them any attention. It WILL from a certain kind of man who has totally fetishized boobs, but to most men, they will also care about your personality, face, features, body etc, as others have said, your whole package. Just big boobs with nothing else will get very boring after a while.
RedRobin Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I think it's more important that a woman is just confident with what she has. Boob size shouldn't be an insecurity. If you were an A cup or knew any woman who was, you wouldn't say that. My friend and sister went through years of self-torment before making their decision. They were in a tough position, and I don't blame them for making the choice they did. I'm guessing they didn't want to 'settle' for the less than 10% of men who thought that A cups were 'ok'. Or feel like the men they were with would be 'ok' with their boobs if they liked everything else. How retarded is that? Nice of you to scold women for being insecure, however, I see you couldn't resist promoting your own boobs. The fact that there is a 'market' at all is the problem. The fact that we are even debating or discussing that other things matter to men (or should) is the problem. 1
Nikki Sahagin Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 If you were an A cup or knew any woman who was, you wouldn't say that. My friend and sister went through years of self-torment before making their decision. They were in a tough position, and I don't blame them for making the choice they did. I'm guessing they didn't want to 'settle' for the less than 10% of men who thought that A cups were 'ok'. Or feel like the men they were with would be 'ok' with their boobs if they liked everything else. How retarded is that? Nice of you to scold women for being insecure, however, I see you couldn't resist promoting your own boobs. The fact that there is a 'market' at all is the problem. The fact that we are even debating or discussing that other things matter to men (or should) is the problem. I'm not exactly promoting my boobs. I'm just stating their size and that I get compliments. That's just a fact. I do have friends with small boobs. Not all of them are insecure about that fact. One in particular actually has a long term boyfriend and two kids and one of the things he liked about her was her small boobs. He finds bigger boobs a bit gross. I can totally understand that to be a flat chested woman in a boob mad world is a horrible thing, but look at small Thai girls who are naturally small boobed - they have tonnes of men all over them (and not for their boobs). If you want to take the step to have surgery because you have small boobs do it, but why go to a J++? Why not a B or C? Also many girls make peace with their small boobs. Just coz society goes crazy for something and pushes it in your face, does not mean women with small boobs have nothing more to offer, and actually quite a lot of men prefer smaller boobs. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Girls, do not take this thread seriously as men (and women) in general have no idea what their preferences are and even when have them, they will change in an instant if they meet the right person. My brother was into petite Asians when he was with his first gf. The he was into tall white chicks (second gf). Then he was into latinas with big butts and thighs (third gf). Now he is into super-short, below 5 foot white chicks (current gf). Boobs ranged from B-E cup. Each time he claimed that the girl he dated was exactly his physical preference 4
anne1707 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 At the end of the day, if a man has to choose between a woman whose breasts are not his absolute "ideal" (whether big, small, pert, fake...) or no woman at all, I think it is fairly obvious what most men would opt for.
Els Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Both my sister and my friend were openly ridiculed by men for being flat-chested. 'Flat' meaning A-cups. My friend was a small-A cup. Almost non-existent. They both felt like freaks and unfeminine. So, when the opportunity arose, they both got implants to make themselves a large B/small C. I supported their decision. For truly flat-chested women, I see getting reasonably sized implants as no different than getting braces if you have crooked teeth, or a reduction if they are way too large... or men who get surgery to correct a 'micro penis'. Neither my sister or my friend walk around showing them off. IMHO, they were correcting a physical issue. This is fairly strange. I mean, of course I think everyone should do whatever they see fit with their own bodies. But 'correcting a physical issue' is a strange way to look at it IMO. If that were the case, lots of Asian girls would need 'correction'. I think you'll find preference fairly varied among men when it comes to breast sizes. It isn't nearly as clear-cut a thing as, say, being overweight, and even in that case there is some variation.
Leigh 87 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Yes, we love them. Leigh, I'm so unhappy to hear you so downtrodden on how you look . I"m sure your boyfriend loves the way you look. I am realistic. Without my bad nose, I am very attractive, in my opinion. Slim, fit, curvy, and nice skin and teeth and eyes. It is just my nose, and it hinders my whole face. I wear sunglasses that hide my nose when I go for a run; so, I am just a girl with long blonde hair, who WAS very thin and fit, with a mad bubble but and curves, but yet thin. Most guys stare at me and tell me I am very attractive ........I take my sun glasses off, and I am nothing special.. Becaus ethe nose is the centre of your face, a crooked nose on a girl takes an otherwise hot girl, right down to average.... Particularly unnatractive, is the profile of my nose - crooked with two dents. Attractive, is when the nose is smooth and small ish, on a girl. Where as, a girl can be very hot, regardless of her breasts size. BREASTS are not as important in dertermining attractiveness; not unless it hinders your confidence, like in the example on here of the gorgeous latina girl who was stunning, but had no confidence, and then got breast implants, and her confidence attracted way more men. I am just uncomfortable with my nose, and know that at least small breasts are loved just as much as larger breasts; it is just not stero typed the way big breasts are... Small and refined, neat noses are attractive, where as larger nose are liked by FAR FAR less men, than small breasts are..... My boyfriend agrees with me; I am very attractive without my bad nose, and while he calls me beautiful and isvery nice regarding my appearance, he dos admit that a nose job would be a good idea ; he knows how badly ny nose effects my confidence.
Bristolius Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 RedRobin wrote: "... Anyway, the kind of obsession with body parts that alot of the men on this thread exhibit says alot about them... Not to mention the women who feel the need to pose for these pics." It's pretty disturbing. Body Parts. It's like a horror movie. 2
Leigh 87 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 (edited) If your nose ruins your otherwise good looks, why not get plastic surgery? I am. I am getting it as soon as I can. I am otherwise very good looking, and I feel a social impact of not having a straight, girly, small nose. I know for a fact I would be so much more socially care free, happy, and confident with people. I do not think plastic surgery will make all of my life more fulfilling; that takes hard work you must do on your character. I must better myself and like who I am, in addition to enjoying a more confident time socially. I realize I need to be reletively happy without my nose job.... My point, was that I think a crooked nose can ruin the looks of an otherwise attractive and very hot lady - where as a breast size does not make a very hot girl LESS or more hot. I actually know a girl who got breast implants. She is very thin, tanned great face, and a 10/10, generically and universally. Yet, she got breast implants, and has a boyfriend who cheats on her occasionally. She would have been hotter to the guys on here without her implants, given a lot of guys do not like them - no sucking on nipples or sensative nipples! Edited June 23, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
RedRobin Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 (edited) This is fairly strange. I mean, of course I think everyone should do whatever they see fit with their own bodies. But 'correcting a physical issue' is a strange way to look at it IMO. If that were the case, lots of Asian girls would need 'correction'. I think you'll find preference fairly varied among men when it comes to breast sizes. It isn't nearly as clear-cut a thing as, say, being overweight, and even in that case there is some variation. No. I don't think it is strange at all. If one's body is way outside the cultural norm... either way too large or way too small, they will suffer. I don't see anything incongruent about wanting to fit in and appear 'normal'. Small breasts on Asian women are considered 'normal' in their culture... and so would not be a source of ridicule, derision, or shunning. Well, until they move to a Western country. Then I suspect they will start to feel the same pressure that Western women face... unless the only people they hang out with or date are others in their country of origin. Regarding preference among men (at least Western men)... I don't think most women are stupid when it comes to that. Even the men who are 'nice' about it, say right up front they'd be 'ok' with it if they liked other things. Wow. Thanks! What did another poster here say? "Just coz society goes crazy for something and pushes it in your face, does not mean women with small boobs have nothing more to offer, and actually quite a lot of men prefer smaller boobs." Really? We need to be told that women with small boobs have something more to offer? That's hilarious. What if I said something like... "... does not mean women with flat-asses have nothing more to offer, and actually quite a lot of men prefer smaller as*es" Get the picture? Anyway, I'm having my doubts about why anything related to body parts is doing in the dating section of this website to begin with. Even some men's obsession with weight in women doesn't carry over to themselves. Some of the fattest guys I know still think they are entitled to a thin,fit woman. Edited June 23, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
RedRobin Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 (edited) I am. I am getting it as soon as I can. I am otherwise very good looking, and I feel a social impact of not having a straight, girly, small nose. I know for a fact I would be so much more socially care free, happy, and confident with people. I do not think plastic surgery will make all of my life more fulfilling; that takes hard work you must do on your character. I must better myself and like who I am, in addition to enjoying a more confident time socially. I realize I need to be reletively happy without my nose job.... My point, was that I think a crooked nose can ruin the looks of an otherwise attractive and very hot lady - where as a breast size does not make a very hot girl LESS or more hot. The same men who reject women for getting implants are the same ones who would reject a woman for getting a nose job. They see it as a sign of insecurity, and they wonder what else you'd be going under the knife for. If that is you in your picture, you are not hideously deformed, nor are you anywhere near being a cultural outlier in terms of your facial features. Edited June 23, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Leigh 87 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 The same men who reject women for getting implants are the same ones who would reject a woman for getting a nose job. They see it as a sign of insecurity, and they wonder what else you'd be going under the knife for. If that is you in your picture, you are not hideously deformed, nor are you anywhere near being a cultural outlier in terms of your facial features. I have nice features, besides my nose though, and a great body. A large nose can make an average girl, very attractive, if her other features are nice. No guy would know about my nose job. It would look natural, they do not change your nose into one that is vastly disproportionate to your real face.. they make a nose that is attractive, and believable. I would not tell guys I meet about my surgery. And it is not insecurity, I disagree - it is me saying " look, I can make a real go out of life with a hideous nose; heck, if I got into a car accident, I would have to make do with the horrible things that could happen, and have to make the best of it' I am determined to make the best out of my life, regardless of my bad nose... However, having a nice nose is something that would improve my confidence and make me happier. IT DOES NOT MAKE your life better alone, it rather ENHANCES it. COME ON - a very pretty girlfriend is not essential to a loving, happy relationship, but for some people, they would say it is an ADDED BONUS. DO not mistake an added BONUS, for '' something you need to be happy, and a way to cheat to attain happiness"s You have to be a happy perso ANY WAY, without the plastic surgery! A nose job alone will not make my life better. Wanting to be more attractive is just fine. It does not mean you are a otherwise boring or less worthy person.. Getting falsely attractive can ADD to a persons confidence and make them happier, but it does NOT mean they are trying to compensate for their personality or any shortcomings.,. I INTEND to work just as hard in life, WISH or without a nice nose; I wills till strive for the same things in life. I do not understand people who judge people who have cosmetic sh*t done! I mean - looks are looks. It does not mean a person derives most of their fulfillment on becoming more attractive; it is just nicer to be more attractive for a lot of people. People who judge those who have surgery, breast implants or nose jobs for instance, seam to think that it is bad to feel better through enhancing your appearance. They think people who value their appearance, care less about their character, and about their goals and achievements in life. Plastic surgery is NOT a quick fix in life! You STILL have to strive just as hard to be a good person, to get a job your passionate about if possible, and to do all the things in life that DO count. I will feel happier when I am better looking, but it has no bearing over the kind of person I will try to be, or how hard I will try in life; I will not go about life any differently, and I will try JUST as hard to work on the NON physical things that shape life. I do not think it is possible to judge a persons entire character to be lesser, than a person without cosmetic work done; who is to say the natural girl is more of a fun, generous, or more interesting person, than the one with breast implants?
carhill Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 If you could take your current or past girlfriends and add a cup size or two to their breasts, would you do it? Personally, no, but I do recall my ex-wife (small C) commenting on her personal desire for 'more', generally during revelations of how 'amazing' a girlfriend's breasts were (TMI for me but part of being married). Would you enjoy it more? I don't mean that their smaller breasts took away from her overall attraction, but would larger breasts add to the attraction? I've dated and had relationships with a variety of 'sizes' and can't recall that ever being an issue. In fact, a couple of times I was surprised by said 'size' because the ladies hid their size well and natural breast tissue is easily 'molded' and can be minimized. Of those who had 'larger' breasts (E was the largest I was aware of, based on disclosure or looking at a brassiere), size added a certain variety to sex play based only upon itself, but was largely a non-issue for myself otherwise. One lady I had a long-term love affair with was a DD and often commented that I didn't stare at her breasts when talking to her like so many men did. I responded that I found her eyes and expressions far more interesting. Ultimately, she had a breast reduction in her late 20's, which I supported wholeheartedly. As men are all different in their points of attraction and sexual and personality styles, there is a range of responses to such a question. 'More' is generally more obvious, but not necessarily 'better', dependent upon the man.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I find it hilarious how the guys say they hate fake implants but then go and post of photos of girls with obvious implants. And the photoshopped photos. Do you guys not realise the photos are heavily photoshopped and most of these models and fitness girls have implants? smh Rather ironic isn't it. And then you hear men talk about how they know these images are photoshopped or that they know it's "just fantasy" yet they still can't seem to seperate their perception of women from the fantasy. It's threads like these that show me how different men and women are. Whenever topics are posted about men and their looks, so many women jump in ready to be encouraging and positive to guys and when threads come up about women's bodies, it seems like a lot of guys just want to rip into women or post ridiculous pictures of women that aren't the norm. By the way ATrainofAngels, it's getting old that the only way you seem to know how to talk about women is through posting pictures of women that are clearly carefully selected images from your jerk-off folder. No one but you cares that much about who you find attractive. How many other men do you see posting pictures of women as often as you do? Not many. You are not on a male domianted board. You are on a board with an equal mix of men and women. 1
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I think the American culture is over obessed with breasts. A lot of men have garnered unrealistic expectations about the female body for many reasons. Alot of the images that are presented in our culture of women is more of a cartoonish version of femininity. Which is why when I see men obsess over pictures and the likes of that, I know that they've bought into a culture that has a lot of unhealthy ideals about female beautiy. Hair extensions, fake eye lashes, breast implants..I have a really awesome instructor that teaches classes at my gym. He was talking about how when you see a woman's ribs, she is too thin. However, this is all you see in media magazines, images of women so thin you can see their ribs stick out making them look like they have an even thiner waists. I never knew that seeing a woman's ribs meant she was too thin. But he's studied the body and has a degree in fitness. We've taken really beautiful things about women...hair, eyes, breasts, waists, hips, and distorted them. This is where we see how culture and media affects perception. While I have no doubt a lot of men logically understand that a lot of what they see about women's bodies in the media is unrealistic, we see evidence in this thread that men still do easily buy into those media expectations in their own wants and desires. I also find it hypocritical when men say that large breasts grab their attention but they expect women to be unswayed by what grabs their attention. If you really don't believe breasts are a big deal, then act like it. If you do think they are a big deal, then don't justify the ones that grab your attention and act like settling for something different makes you a great guy. I'm a package deal and I want to be seen that way. I want a man to love every part of my body even if it's not ideal. I am not looking to be with someone that mearly accepts that part of my body because it's not his ideal and he likes my sense of humor. How many of you guys would feel good about a woman just putting up with your penis because she likes that you have a nice job? I think women of all different breast sizes can be really beautiful. Big breasts, small ones..they all are really beautiful. Because both big breasts and small breasts ARE both feminine in their own right. Neither makes a woman "more" feminine. Unfortunetly, a lot of women have bought into the messages of their own bodies and it remains and always will remain, a struggle for the majority of women no matter what their body looks like. Some more male and female support all around would be really great. I really hate that women feel the need to get implants to "correct" something. That's society's mesage, not reality. You were given the body you were suppose to have. You don't need to be "corrected". Just maintained. 3
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