Men and breasts. Is it true?

[Leopard]

I know that not all men love big breasts. Some prefer smaller ones, others prefer small ones in general, but I am curious as to how true the whole "men and breasts" phenomena really is.

 

If you could take your current or past girlfriends and add a cup size or two to their breasts, would you do it? Would you enjoy it more? I don't mean that their smaller breasts took away from her overall attraction, but would larger breasts add to the attraction?

 

I am a B-cup and have never bothered to even wonder about my breasts, but I constantly see movies or comics about men being completely blown away by large breasts and not being able to pay attention to anything else.

 

Overall, is this really the case? Or is this just an exaggeration to show how men are visual and appreciate lots of "female"?

[verhrzn]

Eh, I really don't think breast size actually does matter that much to men, if the overall package is amazing.

 

My evidence? I'm told I'm pretty decently endowed, and yet guys never hit on me. My big(ger) boobs are not enough to overcome the entire package.

 

In fact, most of my boyfriends have been rather "eh, whatever" about them. They were much more into the idea of red hair or nice butts (neither of which I have.)

 

Just goes to show that even something that is supposedly a universal preference of men is not true.

[USMCHokie]

For me, the smaller the better. A's would be great.

[ptp]

I know that not all men love big breasts. Some prefer smaller ones, others prefer small ones in general, but I am curious as to how true the whole "men and breasts" phenomena really is.

 

If you could take your current or past girlfriends and add a cup size or two to their breasts, would you do it? Would you enjoy it more? I don't mean that their smaller breasts took away from her overall attraction, but would larger breasts add to the attraction?

 

I am a B-cup and have never bothered to even wonder about my breasts, but I constantly see movies or comics about men being completely blown away by large breasts and not being able to pay attention to anything else.

 

Overall, is this really the case? Or is this just an exaggeration to show how men are visual and appreciate lots of "female"?

 

If you were dating a guy with a 4-5 inch penis, would you want him to be larger?

[d'Arthez]

Some men prefer large breasts. Others like them on the smaller side. My ex has DD. They gave her a lot of back issues. If she had wanted to go for a breast reduction, I would have supported her.

[january2011]

From experience, "more than a handful is too much," seems to hold true for the guys I've come across.

 

However, horses for courses; there's a breast size and shape for every guy. Luckily, women come in all shapes and sizes.

 

And some guys aren't breast men, some are leg men and some are butt men.

[Ross MwcFan]

I know that not all men love big breasts. Some prefer smaller ones, others prefer small ones in general, but I am curious as to how true the whole "men and breasts" phenomena really is.

 

If you could take your current or past girlfriends and add a cup size or two to their breasts, would you do it? Would you enjoy it more? I don't mean that their smaller breasts took away from her overall attraction, but would larger breasts add to the attraction?

 

I am a B-cup and have never bothered to even wonder about my breasts, but I constantly see movies or comics about men being completely blown away by large breasts and not being able to pay attention to anything else.

 

Overall, is this really the case? Or is this just an exaggeration to show how men are visual and appreciate lots of "female"?

 

If we're talking about them still being natural (I hate fake ones) after adding a cupsize or two, then I'd definatley do it. Yes I would enjoy it more. They would definatley add to the attraction.

[Feelsgoodman]

If you could take your current or past girlfriends and add a cup size or two to their breasts, would you do it? Would you enjoy it more? I don't mean that their smaller breasts took away from her overall attraction, but would larger breasts add to the attraction?

The order of attractiveness for most men (note I said most, not all) is like this:

 

1. Slim/fit girl with large breasts

2. Slim/fit girl with small breasts

3. Overweight girl with large breasts

4. Overweight girl with small breasts

 

I'm going to take flack for saying this, but even fake breasts can considerably improve an otherwise average looking girl's appearance (the breast implant industry is thriving for a reason). I don't know what it is exactly that makes larger breasts appealing...it's just how we are wired I guess. Same as women being attracted to height.

[Vintage79]

I seem to hate large breasts (D or bigger). C is boarder-line, B is preferred - I think I'd generally prefer A over C, but that's a function of the rest of the package.

 

Generally, though, I don't care about boobs and will usually immediately shoot down a girl if she seems to be fixated on them, as it screams high maintenance.

 

I really prefer the rest of the body - tight, lean, etc...that combination isn't so common with larger breasts (excluding implants, which is auto reject). I'd probably be fine if the body was there and the boobs were bigger, but I'm guessing I'd still prefer the small(er) ones...

[verhrzn]

Much better off just losing weight until her breasts went down to Cs naturally

 

 

 

Surgery is almost universally a terrible option

 

Weight loss doesn't always work. Some girls really are just genetically prone to carrying the fat there.

 

I have a friend who got breast reduction surgery from like an E cup down to a C cup a few years ago. She's stayed the same weight, and yet the boobs are growing back! She may actually need to have the surgery again.

 

... I may be more than a tad envious.

[pteromom]

Much better off just losing weight until her breasts went down to Cs naturally

 

Surgery is almost universally a terrible option

 

I disagree with you. I have lost a lot of weight, and my DDs went down to D, but... they aren't sitting where they did previously and now I am looking into a lift.

 

Losing weight in breasts means the skin that was around the larger breasts has to go SOMEWHERE, and gravity says that somewhere is DOWN.

[SJC2008]

I don't like huge breasts, they're rediculous. I like breasts anywhere from B's to C's. That doesn't mean I wouldn't date a woman with smaller than average breasts. If I'm attracted to her I'm attracted to her.

[Feelsgoodman]

Eh, I really don't think breast size actually does matter that much to men, if the overall package is amazing.

It's not that breast size doesn't matter. It's just that if the overall package is lacking, the sole exceptional part cannot make up for it. However, if you take two women with an average overall package, the one with the bigger breasts would have a definite advantage. Interestingly enough, for women who are very good looking or, conversely, very ugly, breast size matters less than for average women (because those women would be considered very appealing/very unappealing in any event).

[Ross MwcFan]

I disagree with you. I have lost a lot of weight, and my DDs went down to D, but... they aren't sitting where they did previously and now I am looking into a lift.

 

Losing weight in breasts means the skin that was around the larger breasts has to go SOMEWHERE, and gravity says that somewhere is DOWN.

 

What about if you lose the weight really slowly?

[SomedayDig]

My wife has always been self-conscious about her breast size. They're really nice B close to C. Her self image always points out her left one is larger and spills a little out of her B bras. Good God it has been overwhelming as we've lived through this! LOL So, I finally told her since she's talked about getting breast enhancement with me for like 14 years that if she wanted to do something, that we were in a financial state that she could. We went to an appointment which turned into a surgery date.

 

My feeling? I love her boobs. I always have. However, if she's the one that wants them "better" I'm not gonna stop that!

[Leopard]

If you were dating a guy with a 4-5 inch penis, would you want him to be larger?

 

It depends. If he was of a good girth and curve that was sexually pleasing to me, then it wouldn't matter. If he is of a girth or shape that doesn't fit me well, then adding length wouldn't really make a difference (unless of course he was extremely small).

[Feelin Frisky]

I'm not your archetypal "tit man". Big does not automatically turn my head. How they hang and how a woman accentuates that can be very appealing. Firm jugs are more attractive than droopy. Smallish but "perky" tits are just fine. It depends on the woman--the package as it were. If a woman has skin like salami of her chest from years of over-exposure to the sun, I'd rather her not wear some low cut thing to show off her cleavage since the area above an gnarly. Breasts can shine through clothing if they hang nicely. Taking about it now makes me want some. This girl in my physical therapists office has dynamite boobies and a lovely and sooth olive complexion. I sometimes fantasize about how she'd look tossing a beach ball to me at a nice resort donned in a bikini. I was probably 30 when she was born so it ain't happenin' but I can dream.

[ptp]

It depends. If he was of a good girth and curve that was sexually pleasing to me, then it wouldn't matter. If he is of a girth or shape that doesn't fit me well, then adding length wouldn't really make a difference (unless of course he was extremely small).

 

Small penises are usually small in both girth and length. When I mean small I mean below average in both.

[pteromom]

What about if you lose the weight really slowly?

 

I have.

 

Unless someone is 20 years old and has incredibly elastic skin, losing weight is gonna equal excess skin.

[MaxNoob]

How come? I don't think I've ever met a guy who liked As over Cs

 

Maybe it depends on where you're from?

Asia is almost entirely A-cup.

 

Average Breast Cup Size in the World

[USMCHokie]

How come? I don't think I've ever met a guy who liked As over Cs

 

I just like the look of it...who knows...hell, flat's good too...

[SomedayDig]

I read "nice B low C" and then I read "wants breast implants"

 

 

 

My reaction can be summarized in the following 2 pictures -

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http://images.yuku.com.s3.amazonaws.com/image/gif/1f3258b49a635e28caba1be9ec5ec7c98e9f98c.gif

 

 

 

SMH @ having perfect breasts and wanting to butcher them with silicone

 

I know....I know....and they look f'ng fantastic as they are. That said, nothing compares with her desire to look better for herself and me. They'll be saline. Not that that really makes a huge (heh heh) difference. $8k for self-esteem...that's the true SMH issue!! LOL

[Leopard]

Small penises are usually small in both girth and length. When I mean small I mean below average in both.

 

For me, the average penis size for most women is slightly on the larger side. I am good friends with my boyfriends ex girlfriend (who is an absolutely incredible person) and during our discussions, turns out my boyfriends penis is average to her, when for me it's so big that it hurts every time we have sex.

 

So I guess it also depends on the girl. But for me, slightly (and I mean slightly) below average is ideal.

[fishtaco]

Large breasts are attention-getters because well, they are big and right there.

 

But as far as looking good... proportion is key. A woman with high hip to waist ratio can get away with larger breasts and still look good. A woman with skinny legs, no butt, square shape, but gigantic breasts will not look good. In that case an athletic woman with B's will look better.

 

But, that doesn't stop you from noticing the giant boobs.

 

And men like breasts. According to my female friends that hang out with their gay male friends, even gay guys are intrigued by breasts.

 

I'm more of a butt & legs guy. I like bubble butts and legs that fit those bubble butts, i.e. have some meat on them legs. But it's not like I don't notice boobs.

[Ross MwcFan]

I have.

 

Unless someone is 20 years old and has incredibly elastic skin, losing weight is gonna equal excess skin.

 

I always thought that people were left with saggy skin (anywhere) if they lost the weight fast, but if they slowly lost the weight then they wouldn't be left saggy.