Author danmorisson Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 Makes you feel suicidal. Men really need a pill or something to remove these sexual thoughts.
somedude81 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Well since I was heart broken in those 6 months, sex was the last thing on my mind. Recently I've gone 2 months and I'm ready to kill someone. There's no heart break involved this time, I'm just in between men. It sucks. For sure OK, so you do get an idea of how much is sucks. Now imagine going a year or more with that feeling. Won't you wish you could turn it off?
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Me and my tongue could travel to relieve tension Hahahahahahahahaha:p:p
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Anyone That needs drugs to suppressed the sex drive is in need of psychiatric care. This sounds like sex addiction. As Shannon said sexual urges that are within the normal range are a blessing. Yeah imagine being with someone and having zero sexual libido. That happened to me. I was with a guy for 8 years and sh*t got real boring. I thought there was something wrong with me until we broke up and I went out with someone else. My sex drive came back with a vengence. Thank the LORD!!!! I'm too young to have no sex drive. And Pierre we agree again!!
Author danmorisson Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 OK, so you do get an idea of how much is sucks. Now imagine going a year or more with that feeling. Won't you wish you could turn it off? Dude my mind is a mess with it all. It's absolute ****ing torture every single day. Science really needs to work on a remedy.
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 OK, so you do get an idea of how much is sucks. Now imagine going a year or more with that feeling. Won't you wish you could turn it off? Yes I do know how much it sucks. I don't want to shut it off though. I masturbate and I'm good:D Sexual urges are important. Even when you can't act on them. And are you a virgin or have you had sex before?
alphamale Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Any medication out there to remove sexual thoughts etc? you can get chemical castration or just date ugly women, the latter would be easier i suppose
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Dude my mind is a mess with it all. It's absolute ****ing torture every single day. Science really needs to work on a remedy. Are you a virgin or have you had sex? If you have had sex, don't you think you'll have sex again? Why would you want to shut down these sexual urges. It doesn't make sense to me:confused:
ptp Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Are you a virgin or have you had sex? If you have had sex, don't you think you'll have sex again? Why would you want to shut down these sexual urges. It doesn't make sense to me:confused: Imagine if you really really really loved alcohol and life was a bar...every where you went all you saw were beautiful bottles full of alcohol all different shapes and types, all unique in their own way, but also all delicious. Now, imagine you see dudes getting drunk, merrily trying out different flavors, but when you want a taste, the beautiful bottle rejects you before you even open your mouth.....before you even get to take the top off.....
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Imagine if you really really really loved alcohol and life was a bar...every where you went all you saw were beautiful bottles full of alcohol all different shapes and types, all unique in their own way, but also all delicious. Now, imagine you see dudes getting drunk, merrily trying out different flavors, but when you want a taste, the beautiful bottle rejects you before you even open your mouth.....before you even get to take the top off..... Not all women are "hotties" or "delicious." He needs to hang out with some really ugly women. His sexual urges will disappear guaranteed.
Author danmorisson Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 Are you a virgin or have you had sex? If you have had sex, don't you think you'll have sex again? Why would you want to shut down these sexual urges. It doesn't make sense to me:confused: No. And as an unattractive guy, I would love the option to turn it off. And I bet even those who can get women would love to calm things down a bit. It's just torture to uncontrollably obsess over women. I feel like I have no freedom.
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 No. And as an unattractive guy, I would love the option to turn it off. And I bet even those who can get women would love to calm things down a bit. It's just torture to uncontrollably obsess over women. I feel like I have no freedom. Well if these obsessions are taking over your life, it's a problem. I'd seek professional help:(
ShatteredReality Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 No. And as an unattractive guy, I would love the option to turn it off. And I bet even those who can get women would love to calm things down a bit. It's just torture to uncontrollably obsess over women. I feel like I have no freedom. Google is your friend here - here are the first few sites that came up for me. I glanced at them...the first one seems to have some good options. http://www.livestrong.com/article/32667-herbs-decrease-libido/ http://www.libidno.com/?gclid=CM2tkdasqKwCFQZThwodWiE2Ag http://www.peoplespharmacy.com/2007/09/10/seeking-ways-to/ You get the idea. Just like there are foods and herbs you can take to increase the libido there are ones you can take to decrease it. Or go out and get yourself on an antidepressant - though the side effects of those can be extensive and ultimately not worth it. Personally...my husband is on antidepressants...and before that he had a relatively low drive - so sometimes he'll go long periods where he just doesn't want it....recently he bought me a toy (my first one) for during the "dry spells" so they aren't so hard on me. He claims I am a sex addict, though I try to explain that sex addicts cannot go without it while I obviously can. I have found that when I simply use my hand I want it more...the toy doesn't seem to be having that affect on me - it's actually ALMOST as good as the real thing for taking care of it. Maybe you need a "cat in a can"???
somedude81 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Yes I do know how much it sucks. I don't want to shut it off though. I masturbate and I'm good:D Sexual urges are important. Even when you can't act on them. Really? Masturbation is enough for you? I have an extreme desire to have sex and then there are times when that desire and being unable to fulfill it, causes me to become stressed and depressed. Masturbation helps get rid of the stress and depression. It doesn't do a thing about my need to get laid. Meaning I can jerk off and be just as horny again 5 minutes later. Not having to go through that would be a blessing. Are you a virgin or have you had sex? If you have had sex, don't you think you'll have sex again? Why would you want to shut down these sexual urges. It doesn't make sense to me:confused: I'm not a virgin but it's been about two years and three months since I last had sex. Will I have sex again? I have no idea. I didn't really like the last way I got laid and I don't want to go down that road again, real girls won't let me touch them, which is why I've gone so long without.
realitycheck123 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 There are some moronic responses so far. Chasteberry, as already posted in the LiveStrong link. You need ANAPHRODISIAC. Chasteberry is the most natural one known. It also decreases your testosterone a bit, but I don't think that's always a bad thing. If you start seeing some undesirable symptoms, just stop taking it.
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Really? Masturbation is enough for you? I have an extreme desire to have sex and then there are times when that desire and being unable to fulfill it, causes me to become stressed and depressed. Masturbation helps get rid of the stress and depression. It doesn't do a thing about my need to get laid. Meaning I can jerk off and be just as horny again 5 minutes later. Not having to go through that would be a blessing. I'm not a virgin but it's been about two years and three months since I last had sex. Will I have sex again? I have no idea. I didn't really like the last way I got laid and I don't want to go down that road again, real girls won't let me touch them, which is why I've gone so long without. For all of you that can't get @ss the normal way.....how about paying for it? That would help right? Hire a call girl or prostitute. OP that may be the way to go for you along with therapy.
El Brujo Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Any medication out there to remove sexual thoughts etc? There IS one, it's called Androcur... it doesn't work on all men, and the side effects are pretty scary. Consider yourself warned.
somedude81 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 For all of you that can't get @ss the normal way.....how about paying for it? That would help right? Hire a call girl or prostitute. Yeah, that's kind of what I was talking about in my previous post. It wasn't exactly with a pro, but still not the real way either. Never mind the fact that just about every woman on this forum said she would not date a man who's been with a prostitute.
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Yeah, that's kind of what I was talking about in my previous post. It wasn't exactly with a pro, but still not the real way either. Never mind the fact that just about every woman on this forum said she would not date a man who's been with a prostitute. Hey desperate times call for desperate measures. What do you guys look like Gollum or something? Is it really that hard to get a girl?
Author danmorisson Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 Why would I need therapy? I'm an anattractive guy, meaning getting a woman is highly unlikely, and therefore I don't want sexual thoughts. That doesn't make me crazy. And I don't actually want sex, I've never been around women before, but my mind is constantly saying 'go seek a date' So I would love my mind to be free of women. What's wrong with that?
somedude81 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Hey desperate times call for desperate measures. What do you guys look like Gollum or something? Is it really that hard to get a girl? I don't know about Dan, but I don't. I'm just short. Though getting women requires a lot more than just not looking bad. And no, I've never even had a GF, so it is that hard for some guys.
Author danmorisson Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 You're lucky we're not rapists. I wish there was something. People who can't get boyfriends/girlfriends would live much happier lives! So it's not a crazy thought at all
ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 You're lucky we're not rapists. I wish there was something. People who can't get boyfriends/girlfriends would live much happier lives! So it's not a crazy thought at all I'm talking about therapy to help with your OBSESSIONS. Not because you are supposedly unattractive and can't get a date or sex. Because your sexual thoughts are becoming an obsession and they are causing you to be miserable. Am I right?
Metis Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 What's this carcumcision crap? Something about the removal of skin? If so, what good is that? Any medication out there to remove sexual thoughts etc? First of all, if you are seriously thinking about this, I strongly urge you to see a therapist to address your issues. That being out of the way -- no, circumcision does not curb sexual urges. Circumcision involves the removal of one's foreskin, which, arguably reduces the total erogenous surface of the penis, so in the old days, it was thought that removing the foreskin would make men more ... uhm, continent. In reality, however, it has no effect on the sex drive. At all. There is such a thing as chemical castration, but experience shows that even castrated men can experience sexual urges (demonstrating how complex human sexuality is) -- albeit now without much of any functional equipment to satisfy those urges. Keep in mind also that castration, chemical or otherwise causes tremendous physiological changes, mostly very unpleasant. It also causes really bad mental changes. Operatic castrati for instance, were (in)famous for their violent mood swings. Certain anti-psychotic drugs, anti-depressants and blood pressure medication can reduce one's sex drive (although the latter is more about making it more difficult to achieve an erection). However, if you take any of those meds without actually needing them, they can kill you or make you very, very sick.
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