What percent of Guys Get their Dream Sexy girls and what% even try?

[coolheadal]

I don't do mall girls. But your right they're pretty to the left and pretty to the right. The ugly ones aren't too bad either. I know guys who would say 'if their ugly just put a bag over their head and they think they're beautiful' But whoever you get just be happy with them. Younger than you older than you, good looking, or overweight or just plain ugly, rest to sure they might think the same of you too!

[LynnieBear]

or they get intimidated... either way, if she wants you, you won't want her.

 

Guys like girls they have to chase.

 

My only problem with that, is if I'm making you chase me, it's because I'm running very far in the other direction. I am very bad at that game. If I'm showing no interest, it's because i'm not interested.

 

Men also like confident girls, and the more I like a guy, the less confident I get. I get shy, nervous, fidgety, worried about my appearance, etc.. I've put HIM on a pedestal, not the other way around.

 

If I don't like a guy, I will belch in front of him, (probably fart in front of him too), I will wear the ugliest outfit I have in my closet, I won't give a crap about what I look like and I will just basically be myself around him.

 

This is attractive. But it's not the way girls operate.

 

Like I said... the more I like you, the more awkward I become.

 

And this isn't confident. So, I'm left with all the guys that I don't want after me and the only guy that I do thinking I have no confidence.

 

It's just simply because he makes me nervous.

 

anyway, I'm sort of off topic now, but it's not about looks. It's a whole different ball game than that.

 

It's about how men and women operate.

 

So, OP, when you find a girl who's acting weird and uncomfortable around you. You're probably gonna be really un-attracted, but GO FOR THAT GIRL! lol

[LynnieBear]

I don't do mall girls. But your right they're pretty to the left and pretty to the right. The ugly ones aren't too bad either. I know guys who would say 'if their ugly just put a bag over their head and they think they're beautiful' But whoever you get just be happy with them. Younger than you older than you, good looking, or overweight or just plain ugly, rest to sure they might think the same of you too!

 

I stand by the movie "When Harry Met Sally"

 

Harry: You realize of course that we could never be friends.

Sally: Why not?

Harry: What I'm saying is — and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form — is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.

Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.

Harry: No you don't.

Sally: Yes I do.

Harry: No you don't.

Sally: Yes I do.

Harry: You only think you do.

Sally: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?

Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you.

Sally: They do not.

Harry: Do too.

Sally: They do not.

Harry: Do too.

Sally: How do you know?

Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.

Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?

Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail 'em too.

[udolipixie]

I stand by the movie "When Harry Met Sally"

 

I don't because gay men can be friends with women without the sex part getting in the way.

[coolheadal]

Interesting subject you have type all that out above. Sure most of what was said does happen. You can't be friends with a girl you wanted and then she tells you that she only wants to be your friend. Back in your deepest part of your mind you see yourself with her as a couple on a date and then in the bed.

[LynnieBear]

I don't because gay men can be friends with women without the sex part getting in the way.

 

I wasn't speaking about gay men and that's assuming I even believe it's possible to be gay.

 

There are still many religious people who think you are not born gay.

[udolipixie]

I wasn't speaking about gay men and that's assuming I even believe it's possible to be gay.

 

There are still many religious people who think you are not born gay.

 

Gay men are men and the whole concept of When Harry Met Sally is that men can't be friends because they'd want to have sex with the girl.

 

Gay men wouldn't want to have sex with their female friend.

 

Also whether these religious people believe it or not gay men and women exist.

[AHardDaysNight]

I am not gay, and I have female friends I don't want to have sex with.

 

I think that's a load of crap, to be honest. Plenty of friendships are based around personality, not looks.

 

The OP, however, is not looking for a friend. He's not even looking for a girlfriend. He's looking for a **** buddy.

[rafallus]

If Megan Fox came along most would trade in their wives and gf's without blinking an eye and that is the truth.

Megan Fox? :barf: Don't insult me.

 

J200, "Wooohooo!!! Quiet Guy validated my opinion!!!!

 

Maybe now we can get Michell Bachmann to be a ARC spokeswoman!!!"

 

Or Jenny McCarthy to speak on vaccinations...

 

Oh, wait...

[Elysian Powder]

"What percent of Guys Get their Dream Sexy girls and what% even try?"

 

Another annoying and stupid OP and thread about women - pretty demeaning all round.

 

I do enjoy LS on occasions, but after a couple of weeks find these threads superficial and depressing.

 

So it is adios!!

 

*though thanks for some of the good stuff that sometimes did turn up.

 

Yeah, you saying on another thread that you feel that the dismissal of Mr. Big from sex and the city is a loss because of how good-looking he is ain't got nothing to do with demeaning a man's presence on a show by assuming that Mr. Big's presence on that show was superficial at most.

 

Another poster with cognitive dissonance http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

 

Don't let the door hit that feminist ass, cya!

 

I don't because gay men can be friends with women without the sex part getting in the way.

 

I'm not gay and I don't want to **** men, but there are men ****ing men; does that mean that I'm not a man for I lack the desire to **** a man?

 

I might not find a woman to be particularly attractive, but if I am aroused and I have a woman more attractive than the first one in front of me, but I'd have to work at it for her to open her legs; I'd sleep with the first one.

 

Why? No effort required.

Edited September 25, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[udolipixie]

Yeah, you saying on another thread that you feel that the dismissal of Mr. Big from sex and the city is a loss because of how good-looking he is ain't got nothing to do with demeaning a man's presence on a show by assuming that Mr. Big's presence on that show was superficial at most.

 

Another poster with cognitive dissonance http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

 

Don't let the door hit that feminist ass, cya!

 

How is find his loss demeaning to the man who plays him?

 

Mr. Big was a character on a tv show for entertainment and for women he was intended to be entertaining whether through looks, personality, or both.

 

Just like movies are filled with women there to be pretty or be pretty and have personality. Or how p*rn actresses are there to be attractive and sexually appealing.

 

Big difference from a tv show meant to entertain you especially if the tv show is superficial and romantic relationships.

[Elysian Powder]

She demeans men and their impact in a woman's life, putting it down to a man's looks because she based the importance of Mr. Big's loss on how good-looking he was.

 

loosely quoting her; '' I feel blblablabla because he was so gorgeous bblablabla''.

 

Demeaning. I've know about this double standard for a long time. Doesn't matter. Average-looking women don't like topics about a woman's beauty because they lack the looks these guys admire, but the not-so-good-looking women talk about good-looking men and lust for them. That is a cognitive dissonance and it demeans men at the same time.

 

Reminds me of a situation I once witnessed. A bunch of feminists in their late 40's were doing a manifestation. With slogans, they were trying to put men's ''shallowness'' on display. Until a score of young, very attractive women, coming out of the store to head out to the wet t-shirt contest passed by, with no worries, and happiness coming out of their every fiber.

 

How quickly the feminists put a stop to their manifestation and went home.

 

The women who complain about the superficiality of men are ugly or old. You think Adriana Lima is losing sleep over being so good-looking? But many, many women who aren't good looking are losing sleep LOL.

[LynnieBear]

Gay men are men and the whole concept of When Harry Met Sally is that men can't be friends because they'd want to have sex with the girl.

 

Gay men wouldn't want to have sex with their female friend.

 

Also whether these religious people believe it or not gay men and women exist.

 

you're generalizing a movie that was not based on having anything to do with gay people whatsoever at all.

 

when harry met sally is about two straight couples. they said nothing about either one of them being gay. in a movie situation, they are not going to have the dialogue go like this,

 

Harry: You realize of course that we could never be friends, unless I was gay.

Sally: Why not?

Harry: What I'm saying is — and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form — is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way, unless I was gay.

Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.

Harry: No you don't, unless they are gay.

Sally: Yes I do.

Harry: No you don't, unless they are gay.

Sally: Yes I do.

Harry: You only think you do, and they are all gay.

Sally: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?

Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you, unless they are gay.

Sally: They do not.

Harry: Do too, unless they are gay.

Sally: They do not.

Harry: Do too, unless they are gay.

Sally: How do you know?

Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive, unless he is gay. He always wants to have sex with her, unless he is gay.

Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?

Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail 'em too, unless you are gay.

Sally: What if they don't want to have sex with you?

Harry: Doesn't matter because the sex thing is already out there so the friendship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story, unless they are gay.

Sally: Well, I guess we're not going to be friends then.

Harry: Guess not, because I'm not gay.

Sally: That's too bad. You were the only person that I knew in New York.

 

 

Sounds pretty silly doesn't it?

[Elysian Powder]

Not when you read it in it's proper context. Harry was using Game to seduce Sally.

[udolipixie]

She demeans men and their impact in a woman's life, putting it down to a man's looks because she based the importance of Mr. Big's loss on how good-looking he was.

 

So are the guys who are stating so so shouldn't be in this show because she's ugly or not that hot demeaning women and their impact in a man's life?. Or guys who state that so so hotness makes the show great or that they will miss so and so's hotness demeaning women and their impact in a man's life?

 

That's not really demeaning the presence of a gender and their impact in a person's life. That's demeaning the importance of acting and essentially stating your worth as an actor/actress is based on your physical attractiveness.

 

A better example would be if she was judging on appearance in a non entertainment setting. Like the guys who criticized Hilary Clinton for her physical attractiveness..not appearance as in being unkempt, unhygienic..but attractiveness. Were they demeaning a woman's presence in politics?

 

 

The women who complain about the superficiality of men are ugly or old. You think Adriana Lima is losing sleep over being so good-looking? But many, many women who aren't good looking are losing sleep LOL.

 

That's human nature. Just like the men who complain about the superficiality of women are usually ugly, old, fat, bald, socially awkward, pushovers, or have issues themselves.

 

However you're generalizing terribly but stating the women who complain about the superficiality of men are ugly or old...there's no some or most or usually in that.

 

Plenty of model material women complain about superficiality while some enjoy it their looks because hey it's easier to manipulate, play mind games, use men, and headf*ck them. However they certainly complain about how most men value women for so much less than what women value men for.

[udolipixie]

you're generalizing a movie that was not based on having anything to do with gay people whatsoever at all.

 

The movie's premise was that men and women can't be friends because sex will get in the way.

 

That is not technically correct since gay men and women can be friends without sex getting in the way.

 

As for generalizing...wasn't your support for When Harry Met Sally a generalization?

 

 

Sounds pretty silly doesn't it?

 

What sounds pretty silly is that you support When Harry Met Sally's premise that men and women can't be friends because sex will get in the way.

 

However you claim my notion that gay men and women can be friends because sex doesn't get in the way for them is silly. Seems you just don't like the loophole that movie has.

[Elysian Powder]

were they demeaning a woman's presence in politics?

 

Don't tell me that women voted Obama to power because of his 'obvious' gift in politics, not because of how good-looking he is?

 

I concur with you on your point concerning men's interest in that show. They watched the show because of the women, but I was simply pointing out jane's biased opinion, and the perpetuation of the myth of women not caring about looks, of not being ''shallow''.

 

We are all wired to feel attracted to beauty, but many people(mainly women) like to be on the high ground of morality and act as victims to men''s predatory views on what a woman is or isn't, depending on her looks.

 

That's human nature. Just like the men who complain about the superficiality of women are usually ugly, old, fat, bald, socially awkward, pushovers, or have issues themselves.

 

 

I've mentioned many times that these guys should work on looking better or dropping from the dating world. Nature only wants the best to reproduce. I honestly don't know why the people without the looks/height/muscles/tits don't accept their lot in life and retire from their sexual desires.

 

The Buddha did it.

 

However you're generalizing terribly but stating the women who complain about the superficiality of men are ugly or old...there's no some or most or usually in that.

 

Put an average woman inside a club brimming with top models. What is she now? Ugly. Many of the average women complaining about men's ''superficiality'' surround themselves with good-looking women to make the good-looking women look even better, thinking that by being in a hot pack, the guys are going to show interest. An 8 can look like a 10 if she has a host of 5's around her.

 

Plenty of model material women complain about superficiality while some enjoy it their looks because hey it's easier to manipulate, play mind games, use men, and headf*ck them. However they certainly complain about how most men value women for so much less than what women value men for.

 

You have to understand that men are much taller, much stronger, much more resilient than women, and we're also responsible for the safety women live in, the houses you sleep in, the food you eat - was raised, killed and processed by men - and almost everything that you take for granted was thought off by men, created by men, drawn and taken cared for by men.

 

Men came out of the caves to dominate and to destroy all of our natural enemies. What is not to admire in men? We are gods among animals, and if it wasn't for men; women would still be dying at the age of 14.

 

No wonder you women value us for so much more than looks. You all depend on us for everything, and that's why you lot are so terrified of porn and prostitutes. What do you have to trade? For all of the goodness and perfection men brings into women's lives?

 

Sex. Company. Children. Beauty.

 

The porn industry profits, annually, far more than all of hollywood's, NBA, NFL revenues, put together.

 

Company? The dog is man's best friend.

 

Children? Artificial wombs are being perfected. No more defected human beings.

 

Beauty? fleeting and troublesome, it won't last for long but it can cause major troubles to a man's life.

 

What is there to admire in a woman's beyond her beauty or her youth?

 

Am I going to hear ' you came from a woman, you know?'

 

 

So did dogs. I don't see dogs sniffing around a female unless the dogs are in heat.

 

There is no discussion and no equality. Men are superior to women. Don't agree with it? Stop living in the Civilization that men created and go back to the wild. Lets see how long you can survive without a man.

Edited September 25, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[udolipixie]

Don't tell me that women voted Obama to power because of his 'obvious' gift in politics, not because of how good-looking he is?

Nice deflection.

 

I concur with you on your point concerning men's interest in that show. They watched the show because of the women, but I was simply pointing out jane's biased opinion, and the perpetuation of the myth of women not caring about looks, of not being ''shallow''.

Shallow I can get but the rest.

 

How was she biased? Was she claiming she wasn't shallow for her tv preferences but called guys who did the same shallow?

 

Did she claim women did not care about looks? Did she claim she was not shallow?

 

We are all wired to feel attracted to beauty, but many people(mainly women) like to be on the high ground of morality and act as victims to men''s predatory views on what a woman is or isn't, depending on her looks.

I feel the whole morality ground is actually conquered by men since most guys love on LS love to claim that men are less shallow then women.

 

 

You have to understand that men are much taller, much stronger, much more resilient than women, and we're also responsible for the safety women live in, the houses you sleep in, the food you eat - was raised, killed and processed by men - and almost everything that you take for granted was thought off by men, created by men, drawn and taken cared for by men.

Taller but with all the short guys on here I think men's height is actually decreasing LMAO XD

 

Stronger....there's self defense and weapons to give a slight fighting chance.

 

More resilient..studies have proven women have more endurance and a higher pain tolerance than men.

 

As for responsible for the safety women live in......policemen and policewomen are responsible for the safety of it's citizens.

 

Though if you're all for men claiming responsibility for the safety women live in I guess you're also cool claiming all or the majority of men responsible for raping, sexually assaulting, and sexually harassing women too right? Or do you nitpick?

 

As for taking for granted...you forget those actions were done by men in the past not the men today...men in the past built civilization and men today don't get respect and appreciation for those men's past actions.

 

If they want that respect and appreciation then they should also accept the hate, violence, and misandry for the men's past actions of denying women their rights and mistreating them.

 

Men came out of the caves to dominate and to destroy all of our natural enemies. What is not to admire in men? We are gods among animals, and if it wasn't for men; women would still be dying at the age of 14.[/quote[

 

What's not to admire in men..rape, sexual harassment, sexual assault, the fact that men denied women their rights?

 

No wonder you women value us for so much more than looks. You all depend on us for everything, and that's why you lot are so terrified of porn and prostitutes. What do you have to trade? For all of the goodness and perfection men brings into women's lives?

Women have love, compassion, and companionship.

 

The traits of men that you speak of...well you're forgetting that not all the men today heck not even most of the men today accomplished any feat like the men in the past.

 

For some reason most men tout this responsible for your own actions bit but like to coattail on other mens actions...well only the positive ones.

 

Sex. Company. Children. Beauty.

The same things most men today offer women...except the beauty part is not achieved that often...

 

Company? The dog is man's best friend.

It's also a woman's best friend as well....plenty of women get irate over men being compared to dogs because they say dogs are loyal, kind, and compassionate creatures.

 

 

Children? Artificial wombs are being perfected. No more defected human beings.

Artificial wombs are being worked on but artificial sperm is already here.

 

 

Beauty? fleeting and troublesome, it won't last for long but it can cause major troubles to a man's life.

Fleeting but at least men have something to look at with most men women don't have much to get.

 

What is there to admire in a woman's beyond her beauty or her youth?

Same thing in a man.

 

I think you're confusing the some of the actions that great men in the past have done with modern men.

 

There is no discussion and no equality. Men are superior to women. Don't agree with it? Stop living in the Civilization that men created and go back to the wild. Lets see how long you can survive without a man.

If men are superior why do they whine so much.

 

LMAO XD plenty of women have survived without a man. In fact civilization thanks to artificial sperm and sperm banks doesn't really need men to procreate. As for surviving in today's modern civilization there hasn't been much innovation and inventions that are truly necessary. All that's needed is protection which can be gained through robotic forces.

[Woggle]

Why don't udolipixie and EP just date. She hates men and he hates women so why not?

[Nexus One]

Why don't udolipixie and EP just date. She hates men and he hates women so why not?

 

I think a lot of people on LS could date each other if they put in the effort. There however seems to be a barrier on a forum that isn't there on a dating website.

 

I can't put my finger on what that exactly is.

 

You know what'd be fun to do, making a list of single forum members on the forum and based on what you read about them give a judgement on whether you think you are compatible with them or not. I think that'd be a fun thing to do.

Edited September 25, 2011 by Nexus One

[AHardDaysNight]

^ I'd rather work on figuring my problems out, and becoming a better person, so that I can date in the real world.

 

Internet relationships mean nothing to me. I've been in them before, and they aren't real. You still feel as lonely as you ever was when you click off IM or Skype.

[Nexus One]

^ I'd rather work on figuring my problems out, and becoming a better person, so that I can date in the real world.

 

Internet relationships mean nothing to me. I've been in them before, and they aren't real. You still feel as lonely as you ever was when you click off IM or Skype.

 

Such a thread isn't meant to be serious of course. Just for fun.

[udolipixie]

Why don't udolipixie and EP just date. She hates men and he hates women so why not?

 

I hate men show me exactly where any of my statements showed or implied that?

 

My statements sarcastic comments parroting yours to show your that your statements about women are ridiculous do not count.

[mesmerized]

Just go for the girls you want QG.

 

I've said it once before. If you have to hit on a 1000 of the most beautiful women of which you feel they don't make you settle and it lands you just one, THE ONE, then mission accomplished.

 

What the success rate is of other guys is irrelevant to that, also that the other 999 women didn't reciprocate is irrelevant, because you have your dream woman, the one counts.

 

lol, yeah and that "one" will stay with him forever and they live happily ever after. Life is not that easy, That "one" who is not turned off by his looks will probably be later turned off by something else abut him and dump his ass or just turns out a bitch who wants to use him.

 

In any case, go for what you want. I can't blame you for wanting sexy girls, I too only am interested in having sex with sexy guys.

[mesmerized]

Don't tell me that women voted Obama to power because of his 'obvious' gift in politics, not because of how good-looking he is?

 

I concur with you on your point concerning men's interest in that show. They watched the show because of the women, but I was simply pointing out jane's biased opinion, and the perpetuation of the myth of women not caring about looks, of not being ''shallow''.

 

We are all wired to feel attracted to beauty, but many people(mainly women) like to be on the high ground of morality and act as victims to men''s predatory views on what a woman is or isn't, depending on her looks.

 

 

 

 

I've mentioned many times that these guys should work on looking better or dropping from the dating world. Nature only wants the best to reproduce. I honestly don't know why the people without the looks/height/muscles/tits don't accept their lot in life and retire from their sexual desires.

 

The Buddha did it.

 

 

 

Put an average woman inside a club brimming with top models. What is she now? Ugly. Many of the average women complaining about men's ''superficiality'' surround themselves with good-looking women to make the good-looking women look even better, thinking that by being in a hot pack, the guys are going to show interest. An 8 can look like a 10 if she has a host of 5's around her.

 

 

 

You have to understand that men are much taller, much stronger, much more resilient than women, and we're also responsible for the safety women live in, the houses you sleep in, the food you eat - was raised, killed and processed by men - and almost everything that you take for granted was thought off by men, created by men, drawn and taken cared for by men.

 

Men came out of the caves to dominate and to destroy all of our natural enemies. What is not to admire in men? We are gods among animals, and if it wasn't for men; women would still be dying at the age of 14.

 

No wonder you women value us for so much more than looks. You all depend on us for everything, and that's why you lot are so terrified of porn and prostitutes. What do you have to trade? For all of the goodness and perfection men brings into women's lives?

 

Sex. Company. Children. Beauty.

 

The porn industry profits, annually, far more than all of hollywood's, NBA, NFL revenues, put together.

 

Company? The dog is man's best friend.

 

Children? Artificial wombs are being perfected. No more defected human beings.

 

Beauty? fleeting and troublesome, it won't last for long but it can cause major troubles to a man's life.

 

What is there to admire in a woman's beyond her beauty or her youth?

 

Am I going to hear ' you came from a woman, you know?'

 

 

So did dogs. I don't see dogs sniffing around a female unless the dogs are in heat.

 

There is no discussion and no equality. Men are superior to women. Don't agree with it? Stop living in the Civilization that men created and go back to the wild. Lets see how long you can survive without a man.

 

Does your mom know what kind of son she has raised? Cause that would be a great shame for any mother on this planet. I really wonder about her charachter or your relationship with her if her son has such disrespect for women.