Binster Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Keep all recordings of her verbal abuse, and keep a journal with the dates etc. Also make sure she doesn't have keys or access to your house. Good luck.
Frank13 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Yep, she is mean! She called me C**t about 15 times all because i won't listen to her go on trying to justify her actions. She also threatened to slash the tyres on my car. See what drugs do to people?
Author russell1968 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 See what drugs do to people? When i got home from work she had keyed the whole side of my car! She is a charmer! Police said it could have been anyone! She wanted to seperate= she got it! She wanted to move out= she got it She wanted a pay off=she got it she wanted another man=she got it I fully accept that my marriage is over, i choose to ignore her as it makes my life easier, she doesn't want me FINE! WHY IS SHE DOING THIS??
marqueemoon4 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 (edited) dude, you have to STOP asking why and accept she's f-in CRAZY and mentally ill. and guess what, you can't do anything about it, and its not your responsibility anymore. PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR KIDS AT ALL COSTS! Edited May 24, 2011 by marqueemoon4
Author russell1968 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Just got a phone message from her, she was telling me that she is in it for the long haul with her new man and i need to be amicable with her
robf1971 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 When i got home from work she had keyed the whole side of my car! She is a charmer! Police said it could have been anyone! She wanted to seperate= she got it! She wanted to move out= she got it She wanted a pay off=she got it she wanted another man=she got it I fully accept that my marriage is over, i choose to ignore her as it makes my life easier, she doesn't want me FINE! WHY IS SHE DOING THIS?? Remember when I told you to expect anything? Well here it is in full 3d technicolour!!!
robf1971 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Just got a phone message from her, she was telling me that she is in it for the long haul with her new man and i need to be amicable with her This will be the first of many phone messages, do not respond.. Repeat do not respond. Save them and pass them to the solicitor. Oh and next time she threatens you pass it to the police..
robf1971 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 dude, you have to STOP asking why and accept she's f-in CRAZY and mentally ill. and guess what, you can't do anything about it, and its not your responsibility anymore. PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR KIDS AT ALL COSTS! Yep, and do not lash back out at her..
Author russell1968 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 She sent me text, saying i'm sorry i fell in love! i didn't mean to hurt you
robf1971 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 She sent me text, saying i'm sorry i fell in love! i didn't mean to hurt you Just ignore this...
Author russell1968 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Just ignore this... Why is she doing this ?
robf1971 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Why is she doing this ? Not that it should really matter to you anymore but she knows deep down that she's done a terrible terrible thing ie breaking up your family. It's far easier for her to blame you than to take responsibility for her own actions.
robf1971 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 She sent me text, saying i'm sorry i fell in love! i didn't mean to hurt you She might be having a moment of guilt? She might be scared of what you are gonna do? She might be lying? who knows? who cares?
Author russell1968 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 I Just found out it was my wife who forced the OM to tell his wife! Wow this is getting uglier by the day!
robf1971 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 I Just found out it was my wife who forced the OM to tell his wife! Wow this is getting uglier by the day! Hmm wonder if OM knows that your wife wife was holding your hand in the park the other week. Ohh and another thought, have you seen those nifty CCTV web cams? Invest the 100 quid or so, next time wifey comes to wreck your car? It'll all be on tape and then you can get her sorry a$$ arrested.
Author russell1968 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Hmm wonder if OM knows that your wife wife was holding your hand in the park the other week. Ohh and another thought, have you seen those nifty CCTV web cams? Invest the 100 quid or so, next time wifey comes to wreck your car? It'll all be on tape and then you can get her sorry a$$ arrested. The sickening thing is she has probably been seeing him for month's And leading me up the garden path
marqueemoon4 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 The sickening thing is she has probably been seeing him for month's And leading me up the garden path she has, no question about it.
Author russell1968 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 she has, no question about it. Wow! It's just one kick in the nuts after another!
marqueemoon4 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 (edited) Wow! It's just one kick in the nuts after another! same thing my wife did.. painted me black, blamed everything on me, later it turns out there was an OM in the picture the whole time. only difference is my wife just abandoned me and lied about everything instead of constantly harrassing/engaging me. Edited May 24, 2011 by marqueemoon4
debtman Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 My W was mean, bitchy and nasty to me for the first 4 months or so (not as bad as yours has been, but very similar...she's a cancer too). Then, a month ago, when things started going south with OM, she started apologizing, telling me how sorry she was for how she treated me during our M and how she thinks things could have been better/different if she had read these books that she's reading now 3 years ago... They'll do anything to relieve their guilt because they know they made REALLY bad and REALLY selfish decisions... Good luck and keep posting...
Author russell1968 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Posted May 25, 2011 My W was mean, bitchy and nasty to me for the first 4 months or so (not as bad as yours has been, but very similar...she's a cancer too). Then, a month ago, when things started going south with OM, she started apologizing, telling me how sorry she was for how she treated me during our M and how she thinks things could have been better/different if she had read these books that she's reading now 3 years ago... They'll do anything to relieve their guilt because they know they made REALLY bad and REALLY selfish decisions... Good luck and keep posting... Thanks Debtman, She left a voicemail saying i should talk to her as she is my wife! What a joke!
robf1971 Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 Thanks Debtman, She left a voicemail saying i should talk to her as she is my wife! What a joke! Class, lol. Don't bother responding. Only trouble is that she'll come round in person if you don't. If she does, don't answer the door.
Author russell1968 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Posted May 25, 2011 Class, lol. Don't bother responding. Only trouble is that she'll come round in person if you don't. If she does, don't answer the door. Yep, this was after telling me that her and her new man are in it for the long haul and we need to make things amicable for the children, The sick thing is she really chased this guy! she forced his hans, she keeps telling me how much she loves him, all by voicemail. I don't respond to any of it
robf1971 Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 Yep, this was after telling me that her and her new man are in it for the long haul and we need to make things amicable for the children, The sick thing is she really chased this guy! she forced his hans, she keeps telling me how much she loves him, all by voicemail. I don't respond to any of it Hmm good for you. My educated guess is that she is wondering why your not reacting and it's super p*ssing her off. Keep at it. The next step is get a life for yourself man. She's damaged goods.
Author russell1968 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Posted May 25, 2011 Hmm good for you. My educated guess is that she is wondering why your not reacting and it's super p*ssing her off. Keep at it. The next step is get a life for yourself man. She's damaged goods. Your so right Rob, she is damaged goods, she will be divorced damaged goods very soon! I can't believe i re-homed my dog for her! I can't believe i sold my M3 for her!
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