Author Rorschach Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 Today she sends me a series of messages about how I have to grow up/act my age/etc etc and communicate with her (something I'm loathe to do at this point). Now she wants me to mail all her stuff to her COD (which I don't know if I can do or not, I'm fine with it I suppose but I won't have time to do it for a long while anyway). Don't know whats made her so hostile all of a sudden, don't rightly care. But it's kinda pissing me off. I so need a new girlfriend at some point....
sanskrit Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Don't send her stuff until you get your money. I would send her an Email stating, "You owe me $500. This is a lawful debt that you owe me secured by pledged items in my possession. Please pay to me the amount of $500 by 11//1/10, or I will be forced to sell any chattels in my possession that you pledged to me as setoff against your debt. Once your debt is paid, I will be happy to COD the items to you. My address is as follows: XXX I suggest you use certified mail and take this opportunity to discharge your lawful debt to me before I am forced to sell the pledged collateral." In case you are wondering, your possession of the items creates a pledge that gives you a right to dispose of them in setoff of the debt. No idea if this conforms with non US law, but should work anywhere in the US. Do not respond to her in any other way. The above will likely freak her out even if you don't actually intend to sell her stuff.
johan Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I so need a new girlfriend at some point.... So you can go through similar crap at some point with that one? Think it's worth it?
Author Rorschach Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 So you can go through similar crap at some point with that one? Think it's worth it? yes. <character limit>
GooseChaser Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 I would ask her to send money to cover the shipping and handling for her possessions.
redmelon Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 she left her things behind, so it's her job to figure out how to get them in a way that doesn't cost you money or inconvenience you. Still not a good reason to contact her at this point...
GooseChaser Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 In my opinion, these possessions are important to her, and she isn't going to leave him alone until she gets them back, so the sooner you can resolve this-- having her pay for the delivery or travel to pick them up herself-- the sooner you can get back to no contact. Just get it over with. I support the idea to tell her to get tested.
Art_Critic Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 IMO.. she is making a big deal over the importance only because he has given her a dose of Silence.. They have been broken up a year.. and now they are suddenly important.. She just wants him to talk to her so she can finish ripping him a new ass and feel better about herself.. Right now she feels like crap She also owes him 500 dollars.. she didn't mention that she would send any money to him either for her debt or to pay for the delivery.. She wanted the packages sent out COD.. You could use the post office to pick up your payment for the back debt at the same time the package is paid for.. http://www.usps.com/prices/collect-on-delivery-prices.htm
tami-chan Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Rorshach, you want her back, huh? You are annoyed by the content of her texts but maybe, just maybe a bit relieved that she is not letting you be?
AverageJoe Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Rorshach, you want her back, huh? You are annoyed by the content of her texts but maybe, just maybe a bit relieved that she is not letting you be? I am starting to think this as well.
Author Rorschach Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 Rorshach, you want her back, huh? You are annoyed by the content of her texts but maybe, just maybe a bit relieved that she is not letting you be? Hah. not even a little bit, she drove me freaking crazy after awhile. But I'm the first to admit I do want someone and get desperately lonely at times. If any of that loneliness comes through thats the reason, I have no desire to see her again.
tami-chan Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Hah. not even a little bit, she drove me freaking crazy after awhile. But I'm the first to admit I do want someone and get desperately lonely at times. If any of that loneliness comes through thats the reason, I have no desire to see her again. Well, then you have 3 options: 1) IGNORE and Block her number and throw out her stuff. 2) Respond by saying she is more than welcome to make her own arrangment as to her "stuff" and that you are simply too busy to do this for her. 3) Respond by demanding the she pay up the 500 or you are selling all her stuff or giving it to goodwill for a tax credit. Personally, I would just ignore and block.
johan Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 3) Respond by demanding the she pay up the 500 or you are selling all her stuff or giving it to goodwill for a tax credit. No, don't do this. We have valuable healthcare and other social programs to pay for. You always want to pay your taxes, like every good American.
tami-chan Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 No, don't do this. We have valuable healthcare and other social programs to pay for. You always want to pay your taxes, like every good American. Have you not been reading his posts? the man is financially strapped.
johan Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Have you not been reading his posts? the man is financially strapped. I feel for him. But we haven't raised taxes on the rich yet. So, we should be careful in the meantime.
tami-chan Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 I feel for him. But we haven't raised taxes on the rich yet. So, we should be careful in the meantime. ahhh....off-topic. T/j.
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