sanskrit Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 He probably brought a nitrous tank and wanted to surprise her with it, just think of the fun they could have had.
CLC2008 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 See that is what I cant figure out. Did he just do a drop in after months of having your number? Or was all of your communication over months of time, only over email or txt, or whatever? For him to drive two hours or more for just email exchanges seems very odd to me. She had his number also, and never called it? Something isnt adding up. After reading the rest of the OP's posts...it doesn't look like there is interest from either side so I don't think it really matters at this juncture.
AverageJoe Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 He probably brought a nitrous tank and wanted to surprise her with it, just think of the fun they could have had. Or maybe some shake weights and a few shamwows. Good times.
Author Chitowngirl Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 So for your first date, he never confirmed plans, but instead drove to your town and texts you he's in your town visiting his brother and for you two to meet up? Ick.... 17 hours before our scheduled date he wrote me on match.com saying he'd be in my town visiting his brother and that he'd call me at 5pm to 'schedule our meeting'. Yes. ick.
Author Chitowngirl Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 You sound very spoiled with an enormous sense of entitlement. Your looks will fade, he will get ever richer. Sounds like you lost out more than him. Money doesnt equal happiness, dude. Nice try bitter..man or woman.
ascendotum Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 After reading the rest of the OP's posts...it doesn't look like there is interest from either side so I don't think it really matters at this juncture. I agree with this. Its definitely poor form on his behalf, but then if he wasn't a dentist (or similar high $ earner) he would not have been even a contender, so no loss for either party.
TaurusTerp Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Money doesnt equal happiness, dude. Nice try bitter..man or woman. Do I sound bitter? I dont really care either way. No effect on me. Just making an observation that you will end up miserable because you think that you deserve so much by virtue of your looks alone.
Mike B. Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Do I sound bitter? I dont really care either way. No effect on me. Just making an observation that you will end up miserable because you think that you deserve so much by virtue of your looks alone. ^^ This. Since he is "ugly" but single and likely rich and you are obviously beautiful and maybe not rich, he may have more going for him in the long run since beauty inevitably fades over the years but he should continue to make cash as long as he keeps working. Teeth are always going bad. Anyway, doesn't sound like much interest on either side as stated above. I don't know how can someone have your number for months and not call unless no one was really showing interest. Maybe someone who was showing more interest in him despite his 'ugliness" grabbed his attention at 5pm. Couldn't you just have stated that you were not physically attracted to him in order to maintain sympathy? It's just seem harsh to call someone this. For whatever reason it was, it was still inconsiderate for him not to call but something is missing here. I would probably sympathize with you more unless you flaked on him in the past which is probably what you are leaving out here. Just a hunch...
sanskrit Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Yeah, I thought that was weird too, and why I added that he was a dentist, as they tend to be socially awkward. First the "UGLY," now the above? Why were you going on a date with this man in the first place? Dentists don't tend to be socially awkward in my experience, any moreso than anyone else. Also agree with others that pertinent info seems missing from this story.
dispatch3d Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 pretty typical low-interest guy. Like 4 days a week I drive 2.5 hours to go on a date with a girl that isn't even confirmed. Why not, if she flakes i've only wasted 5 hours of my time. Like seriously what the hell?
Angel1111 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 If he had called at 8 and immediately apologized for not calling, that would've been different. But he acted like it was no big deal . Yes, it was inexcusably rude.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 So I was going to meet a guy from match.com tonight. Yesterday he emailed me saying he'd call me around 5pm today to 'schedule our meeting'. Well 5pm came and went and at 8pm he texts me saying he's here (he lives 2.5 hours away and was coming to my town to visit his brother) and wants to know when I can meet him tonight. This seems inconsiderate to me. Is this a typical move when guys arent really that interested? We have never talked on the phone and his emails are very brief with little personality. He's a 33 yr old single dentist if that sheds any light...How should I respond? Um, you shouldn't... obviously.
redmelon Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 dentists are all socially awkward as a group? Wow, I never knew that...
Author Chitowngirl Posted October 9, 2010 Author Posted October 9, 2010 ^^ This. Since he is "ugly" but single and likely rich and you are obviously beautiful and maybe not rich, he may have more going for him in the long run since beauty inevitably fades over the years but he should continue to make cash as long as he keeps working. Teeth are always going bad. Anyway, doesn't sound like much interest on either side as stated above. I don't know how can someone have your number for months and not call unless no one was really showing interest. Maybe someone who was showing more interest in him despite his 'ugliness" grabbed his attention at 5pm. Couldn't you just have stated that you were not physically attracted to him in order to maintain sympathy? It's just seem harsh to call someone this. For whatever reason it was, it was still inconsiderate for him not to call but something is missing here. I would probably sympathize with you more unless you flaked on him in the past which is probably what you are leaving out here. Just a hunch... Nope, never flaked in the past.
Author Chitowngirl Posted October 9, 2010 Author Posted October 9, 2010 if he had called at 8 and immediately apologized for not calling, that would've been different. But he acted like it was no big deal . Yes, it was inexcusably rude. thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author Chitowngirl Posted October 9, 2010 Author Posted October 9, 2010 First the "UGLY," now the above? Why were you going on a date with this man in the first place? Dentists don't tend to be socially awkward in my experience, any moreso than anyone else. Also agree with others that pertinent info seems missing from this story. you have never worked with or personally known a dentist then. enough said....
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