KarateKim Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 BF brags constantly about past sexual experiences on this online "public" forum. How should I react? Should I just ignore it?
NayWinter Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 BF brags constantly about past sexual experiences on this online "public" forum. How should I react? Should I just ignore it? I personally wouldn't ignore it. I'd be kinda pissed actually
USMCHokie Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 BF brags constantly about past sexual experiences on this online "public" forum. How should I react? Should I just ignore it? It's called communication. Talk to him about it and tell him it makes you uncomfortable or whatever it makes you.
Author KarateKim Posted September 29, 2010 Author Posted September 29, 2010 The thing is I don't think he realizes that I am a member of this forum too. I was shocked to find him on here. His profile picture is him.
USMCHokie Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 The thing is I don't think he realizes that I am a member of this forum too. I was shocked to find him on here. His profile picture is him. Oh snap, I didn't know it was on LS.
skydiveaddict Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 BF brags constantly about past sexual experiences on this online "public" forum. How should I react? Should I just ignore it? People who openly brag about such things are rarely telling the truth. It's just insecurity. It's up to you how to handle it. Personally, I would laugh and ask for proof. I bet he can't produce it
Star Gazer Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 You're starting threads about your sex life with him, so why can't he?? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t247493/
FryFish Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I cant be the only one wondering WHO it is...
aerogurl87 Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I cant be the only one wondering WHO it is... Lol you're not because I'm wondering the same thing as well.
Awesome Username Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 This is going to erupt in a forum battle of the century. Anyway, if I were you I'd brag about my past sexual experiences. As long as you two are happy and getting it on now, and he's not saying that you suck in bed, it's fair game!
Star Gazer Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Tiberius's girlfriend is into martial arts. Karate is a martial art. Hmm.
Untouchable_Fire Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Tiberius's girlfriend is into martial arts. Karate is a martial art. Hmm. Remind me to limit the personal info you read about me. Your WAY too observant.
aerogurl87 Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Tiberius's girlfriend is into martial arts. Karate is a martial art. Hmm. Yeah but he doesn't have a profile picture it seems on here. Unless he took it down... hmm, the plot thickens.
Leigh 87 Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 If Karate's boyfriend is a member of this site,and knows his girlfriend is a member of this site too, and he brags about hsi past sexual experience, than he is not being insensitive; he is just not very good at thinking about how his posts may indeed be read my his g.f, and he may not think it is a problem. If she tells him it bothers her and he stops because he respects her feelings and wants to stop hurting them, great. If he continues to talk about his past sexual encounters in spite of his girlfriends feelings towards it, then he is an @sshole.
quankanne Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 my ex did that the whole time we were together, and I figure he was trying to "share" so I – a virgin – could learn. Later, after I'd gained experience, I realized that he really sucked in bed :laugh: In which case, I'd have to say that he was trying to build himself up as some kind of sex guru because he wasn't quite all that ... the sucky part was all the bragging. No one wants to hear that kind of crap over and over and over, you know?
Sphere Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Those who brag are usually making up for something else they are lacking and most of it is usually lies anyway. People who show arrogrance and brag are often very insecure people. I have had sex, sure, I know I'm not the best at it, I'm 23, maybe when I'm 43 I can educate someone else on what to do. Until then I'm still learning and I'm having fun doing so.
Author KarateKim Posted September 29, 2010 Author Posted September 29, 2010 You're starting threads about your sex life with him, so why can't he?? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t247493/ ...because I don't have my profile picture along with the messages. lol. So what should I say "Oh by the way, I ran into you online..guess it's not so anonymous. Please stop bragging about all your sexual experiences, you're hurting my feelings." That just seems crazy? lol. But thank you guys for the input and thoughts - and no I won't say who it is for his sake. (;
Allisha Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 If you're not a troll... He's gonna find this thread, and work out it's about him. Meaning you're simply causing more issues for yourself. ...why people do things like this really is beyond me.
Star Gazer Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 ...because I don't have my profile picture along with the messages. lol. There are very few men here that use their photo for their avatar. Other than Hokie and Pyro (and I KNOW it's not them), the only other male posters I can think of who uses their picture as their avvie are Lakeside_Runner (who's single, no GF) and FeelinFrisky (or whatever his name is). I agree with Allisha that you're just causing drama for yourself. You should talk to him.
tincanman99 Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I think its disrespectful and I am a guy. You should tell him you dont like it and want him to stop it.
carhill Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 How should I react? Should I just ignore it? It's a virtual locker room to him and evidently you're not the subject (you said 'past' in your OP) of the stories so your intimacy is respected. I'd ignore it. Guys and gals (my ex-wife was one example of a woman who does it) do this in real life. I could tell you the penis sizes of a number of her past lovers, but I digress
threebyfate Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 BF brags constantly about past sexual experiences on this online "public" forum. How should I react? Should I just ignore it?Okay, so your b/f has no idea you're on this site. He also has no idea you're reading any of this. As far as he's concerned, regardless of avatar, it's pretty much anonymous posting. Could you explain to us what any of this information has to do with you? It's just as bad as saying, "OMG, my b/f once dated a girl who's better [insert your insecurity] than me. I feel like crap.".
Knittress Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Tell him to delete his account. ... then tell him to not be such a dumb@ss about his info when he makes a new one.
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