do all guys know their "number?"

[make me believe]

Ok.....what?? I assume that most people (male or female) know their number of sexual partners. But I also assume that most people aren't using their number as some sort of "notch on the bedpost" crap. I just think....... most people, male or female, are relatively aware of the number of people they've had sex with. Is this strange or something.....?

[skydiveaddict]

Ok.....what?? I assume that most people (male or female) know their number of sexual partners. But I also assume that most people aren't using their number as some sort of "notch on the bedpost" crap. I just think....... most people, male or female, are relatively aware of the number of people they've had sex with. Is this strange or something.....?

 

 

Yes, why aren't you using a spreadsheet?

[carhill]

I personally have heard more than one woman saying they've gone 'crazy' after a breakup or separation/divorce and not really be sure of how many men they were with. My now ex was one of them. I'm assuming this is gender neutral and occurs relevant to other circumstances. It's really good information about compatibility

[skydiveaddict]

I personally have heard more than one woman saying they've gone 'crazy' after a breakup or separation/divorce and not really be sure of how many men they were with. My now ex was one of them. I'm assuming this is gender neutral and occurs relevant to other circumstances. It's really good information about compatibility

 

 

 

Well dammit, then use a spreadsheet!

[carhill]

LOL, she manages a business out of a shoebox and you want her to use a speadsheet for sex? Fugetaboutit

[make me believe]

I personally have heard more than one woman saying they've gone 'crazy' after a breakup or separation/divorce and not really be sure of how many men they were with. My now ex was one of them. I'm assuming this is gender neutral and occurs relevant to other circumstances. It's really good information about compatibility

 

Oh, yeah.. the classic "I went through a terrible breakup and just went crazy......oh, it was such a horrible time in my life...." excuse. I heard that from a guy once, and I just smiled and went on my way.

[Eclypse]

Simple enough for me. 1. And I hope it stays that way forever.

[EasyHeart]

I mean of people they've slept with? Like do you keep track of the exact number. Haha, this is just something I've always been curious about.

Hell no! I honestly have no clue.

[JohnnyBlaze]

I do keep track, but only because it's easy to; it's a relatively small number. I tend to be a long-term relation guy, so there are more encore performances than there are different names. Plus, I was engaged during my college years, so I wasn't adding to the list during parties.

 

A related question: should one count in their number a girl with whom one got very drunk and only received a partial BJ from? (Partial because we both passed out without finishing.)

 

Why did this scene from Clerks suddenly pop into my head?

[Philetus]

I mean of people they've slept with? Like do you keep track of the exact number. Haha, this is just something I've always been curious about.

 

I used to. However, I'm 44 and was married (monogamously) for 19 years so I've lost track. I could guess and be within 10 of the real number.

 

I know how many women I've been with since my marriage ended but I couldn't tell you all the names.

[GorillaTheater]

When I was younger, I could've probably told you off the top of my head. I've been with my wife since I was 20, so my numbers are pretty low, maybe around a half-dozen. Half of them, I can't even remember their names.